u/slightlyticked

A week ago, my boyfriend got angry with me and wanted to break up because he said I didn’t make him feel loved. He didn’t feel loved because we hadn’t had sex for two days and he didn’t get a blowjob from me but more specific, he was tired of having to ask for sex. He wanted me to initiate it. We have sex almost every day/night. He wanted me to make him feel loved, by fulfilling his sexual needs without having to ask. I would prefer taking a break because I do get sore, to the point where I tend to bleed a little when I go use the restroom because of our daily sex. When it became more apparent that he would get upset if I say no or tell him that I’m not in the mood for sex, I started lying.

I started lying about being on my period, even though I haven’t been on my period for some time now because of my iud. It’s the only way I can get away with saying no without upsetting him. Sex used to feel good, but now it feels like a chore. Not because I don’t love him but because It started to feel like my feelings didn’t matter, so I say yes when I’m hurting, I say yes when I’m bleeding, and I say yes even when I don’t want to be touched.

It eventually started feeling like a chore of having to please him because he’s never been ok with me taking a break even though he said I can say no. I want to be able to go a few days without sex, and I can only get that break when my son is around. I feel mentally exhausted, by having to tiptoe around keeping him from getting angry, and now from making him feel unloved just because I don’t want sex all the time. We have sex a lot and It’s starting to wear me out. I don’t even catch a break on days I’m sore.

He’s not coercing me but if I don’t sexually fulfill his needs, he’ll watch porn behind my back so I end up just agreeing to sex almost every single day. Am I being a bad gf? Am I not taking his feelings into consideration enough ?

The advisors at my college are notorious for being terrible and I’ve been advised by college mates not to take every advice from them and to look to other college students who are pursuing the same field but I don’t know anyone. I thought my best fit would be to ask other nursing students who are in the same field. I would really appreciate it if anyone could help me out. I’m a single mother of one and I feel like a child learning how to do this all on my own. I don’t have a single person in my family who has ever made it to college so I can’t ask them for help either. This would mean so so much to me.

I am in an unhealthy relationship that feels like sunshine most days but turns abusive on our bad days and it is all my fault. When my bf gets angry with me, it’s because of something I did . I never listen. I always feel the need to open my stupid mouth and defend myself. I never stay quiet and just let it be. That’s why I get called a dumb bitch every time. My boyfriend told me he’s only with me because I will beg for him to not break up with me and he’s right. Despite the abuse we both are aware of, the emotional and verbal abuse, I still will apologize for something I didn’t even start or do and will beg him to not break up with me. I’m extremely pathetic. I don’t deserve any help. I can feel it in me. I can feel the resentment and the growing disgust I have for him as a human being but for some reason, my anger quickly turns into regret and I will cry and beg like an idiot and I don’t understand why. I don’t understand why I panic and grovel at his feet for forgiveness.

I feel extremely trapped. I know I don’t want this treatment anymore but I feel trapped. I feel trapped from the anxiety and panic that grows in me at the thought of being abandoned by him. He’s right. I am a crazy bitch for acting like this and feeling like this despite hating the abuse he inflicts on me. The emotional and verbal abuse. I feel like I deserve it. Every one tells me to leave but no one understand the panic I get when he tries to break up with me. I don’t understand why I get the way I do and I hate myself so much for it. I became exactly like my mom who chose to stay with my abusive dad. I hate myself so much, I feel like the only way I can free myself is through death. Everyone tells me to just leave but no one understands how trapped I feel mentally. I know I want to leave but as soon as he cries in my arms about how sorry he is, I melt instantly and forgive him. God what is wrong with me. I don’t deserve help for choosing to stay.

Hello, I just moved to the U.S. about 5 months ago and received BTS concert tickets for my birthday a few days ago, and will be attending a BTS concert in Chicago. I am from Sweden and have been feeling homesick for some time now so my mother decided to surprise me with BTS concert tickets to ease my mind. It’s my first BTS concert ever and I have been a fan since their, ‘Boy in luv,” days so I’m really excited. In fact, I feel that I am dreaming of this.

I don’t know anything about Chicago and was wondering if anyone is willing to offer a few advice about this because to be honest with you, this will be my first concert ever. I am feeling pretty scared and have a lot of to worry about as I’m planning things out. My mom is also flying out to attend the concert with me as she is also a BTS fan. (She was a 2nd generation kpop fan). She has attended a few concerts in Korea herself but has heard entry into huge concerts here in the U.S. can be a catastrophe. If anyone living in Chicago or anyone experienced in any BTS concert or big concerts in general, is willing to offer some advice, I would really appreciate it so so much. I was told not to take any uber to the venue so anymore important tips would be very very much appreciated <3