u/so-ronery

I had a car crash this Saturday, 6/20. Only my car and my own at scene and I do not have any significant injury based on my experience accident.

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Highway patrol called, insurance informed, I was sitting in the tow yard and my mom's message shows up at this wrong time.

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"You are going fishing. Why don't you wear a hat and sunglass? Don't you know protecting yourself?" She was commenting on a picture I was on the land.

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Again, this kind of uninvited preaching. If you check the message of my mom, she always starts such kind of things, imperfect picture background, my son is writing using his left hand, etc.

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I send her my car crashing pic. "I am not happy now. You made me feel even worse. Now it is your turn." De-friended her and deleted thread.

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My father started texting me after about 4 hours, after a few greetings, topics shifted into "you know your mom's talking style. Don't be this childish. You still need to improve yourself."

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This man is on another hemisphere (east asia, stereotypical). His son is alone after car crashing and he is thinking from his wife's perspective.

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"Let me tell you. I could text your wife that her message distracted me and caused this crashing. Stop texting me."

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Today becomes the first father's day I don't need to celebrate while my biological male parent is still alive.

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I am joining 40s club in a few weeks. Moving ahead by myself. Not going to visit my hometown in the next couple of years. Save money, live better.