β–² 129 r/Lurchers

it was too quiet, found her nesting in my bed πŸ₯Ή

she pulled the sheets down and got nice and cosy!!

u/softestfern β€” 25 days ago
β–² 1.5k r/longboyes

extra long face because i had the audacity to take her camping last night

u/softestfern β€” 2 months ago

free stuff gods smiled upon me today

benefits of living next to people with amazing taste!! they're moving and have had some pretty epic free piles over the past few months. today i made out with two huge wool rugs, a knitting machine, an awesome handmade vintage lamp with a carved wooden figa sign (i collect victorian figa hand charms!!!), and a freaking PRISTINE le creuset crock!!!!! pinching myself rn πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«

u/softestfern β€” 3 months ago
β–² 140 r/OldManDog

miller (13.5) making sure our carpets don't fly away before they go to the cleaner

u/softestfern β€” 3 months ago
β–² 34 r/longhair

refreshing waves after using a boar brush?

i recently got a boar bristle brush and love how glossy and healthy my hair looks after using it! i'd love to find out how to refresh my waves/curls after using the brush so i have some more definition.

would spritzing with water suffice? i was never taught how to take care of my hair texture so i'm learning now at the ripe age of 28 lol. i had grown my (very unhealthy) hair down to my tailbone, chopped to just above my shoulders last year and am now finally feeling like it's getting long again! getting a small trim in a few weeks to add some layers and take some weight off the bottom.

current routine:

- wash 2-3x weekly with shea moisture coconut hibiscus shampoo. occasionally i'll use a scalp exfoliating treatment (Dr.FORHAIR sea salt scrub) as i'm an athlete and get a lot of buildup from sweat.

- follow with softening conditioner i got from a japanese store by my house, the brand is kracie. sometimes instead of using that i'll do a conditioning mask (UNOVE damage repair mask from Dr.FORHAIR) and leave that in for about an hour before rinsing.

- oil ends after washing with jojoba/vitamin e blend and let it air dry

- boar brush a few times per week, i've been doing it pre-washing since i don't like how puffy my hair gets

u/softestfern β€” 3 months ago
β–² 1 r/translator

Korean > English, this print that I was recently gifted

it was given to me by my MIL! my husband's family immigrated a few generations back and there are no living korean-speaking family members, so we would love to know what this says! TIA!

u/softestfern β€” 3 months ago

slop because i forgot to do meal prep πŸ˜”

post-gym microwaved tofu crumbles, brown rice, air fried broccoli, and garlic bbq sauce! came together in like 5 mins since the rice was already cooked. not pictured is a strawberry soy yogurt drink !

u/softestfern β€” 4 months ago

veganized a chicken soup recipe i found :-)

it's a "chicken", quinoa, and cilantro soup with mushroom and lime ! big time slop babeyyyy

u/softestfern β€” 4 months ago
β–² 83 r/Lurchers

she still insists we can share my work chair

maeve started sitting behind me when she was a tiny puppy, and it was cute and harmless until she became thrice her original size! 😣 now she whines until i raise the armrest so she can crawl up and force herself to fit πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«

u/softestfern β€” 4 months ago

100% secondhand haggy bike ride fit 🫢🏼

flew from MA to OR today and had to go for a looooong bike ride after such a loooooong day of travel!

u/softestfern β€” 5 months ago

CHL license approved, anxious about purchasing my first firearm.

28f for reference, but I don't think it really matters in this situation! I'm interested in CC for self defense purposes after having a few scary situations walking around the city I live in. Yesterday I got a call from the sherriff's office that my CHL application was approved and my card will be mailed presently.

I've been taking small-group target practice lessons for a few months and feel comfortable shooting, and have been graduated up to practicing doubles and TCA's with the instructor while my peers are still working on getting good groups on their own time.

I still feel so incredibly anxious about purchasing and carrying a firearm. Mentally I'm very stable, I know all the safety rules/laws, I have a plan of where to keep the safe, all of that, but I can't shake my nerves on actially owning one and having it on my person.

Any advice on getting over that initial fear? TIA!!

Also, if anyone has reccs for CC models, it would be much appreciated. I'm most comfortable with Glocks (both 47 and 19 gen 5) but they seem a bit bulky for concealed carry.

EDIT: apologies for the redundant wording in the title πŸ˜” I promise I don't also say ATM machine lol

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u/softestfern β€” 5 months ago
β–² 59 r/Lurchers

20 pictures to celebrate maeve's 2nd birthday!

best girl, friend to all creatures, my favourite 27kg piece of velcro πŸ’Œ

u/softestfern β€” 5 months ago
β–² 237 r/OldManDog

sweet grandpa miller (13.5) and baby sister maeve (2 today!) having a birthday cuddle

u/softestfern β€” 5 months ago