u/someday879

So! I have done quite a bit of intentional manifesting over the years. Some crazy things. The craziest being pregnancy after I wrote it out like a journal entry with the month and everything and then forgot about it. When i found the folded up journal entry when i was about 6 months pregnant I was shocked! My daughter is now 8 years old.

I recently got back into it to try and reconnect/reconcile with someone I dated who reached out to me a couple weeks ago and has asked to get together in person to discuss things.

But for some reason, the thing that has impressed me the most is one of the smallest things lol. My family is booking a vacation on a cruise line. These cruise lines can be pretty strict on their guidelines for payment, due dates, etc. You usually have to have it paid for within 90 days of the trip. I kept getting told by everyone that I wouldn't be able to get a room so late and that I'd have to pay it all up front if I did get one. So I wrote in my manifestation journal that I was so thankful that I was able to book my vacation and that they gave me a few extra weeks to pay for it.

I call them and tried to book the room and was told there was nothing that they could do and that I had to pay it all up front, there would be no extra time to pay. I spoke to the lady for a couple minutes and she said "Well, let me see what I can do" and she came back with a room with a cheaper deposit and gave me 60 extra days to pay. So, looks like I'll be in the Bahamas in November! LOL Everyone lately has been asking "How are you so lucky?!" I love it. Anyway, it's the little things LOL

If you see my previous posts, in my old story, SP and I dated for a few months and he ended things stating he didn't see us being together long term and couldn't be exclusive. It ended basically exactly how I worried it would.

Initially I was devastated and I spiralled. I thanked him for his honesty and didn't send him anything else. remembered manifestation though and got back into it and went down the rabbit hole with it basically. I focused on myself, have a notebook full of affirmations (I call it my manifestation journal) and when I felt like I wasn't in control I'd write the things I wanted to manifest with SP or in general. I worked on my self concept for the last few weeks, quit checking all his socials we were still connected on and quit talking about it with anyone. I detached and went out on a coffee date with someone who's like a grown up version of SP.

After right around 3 weeks of silence and on the day after my coffee date he reached out saying he missed talking to me and wants to be friends. I told him I'm open to that and seeing how it feels for me. He has since then texted me every single day, first thing in the morning, which was something I wrote "I am so magnetic SP loves reaching out to me every morning" "I am so irresistible that sp wants to talk to me all day long"

So Ive been getting the morning texts, updates on what he's doing throughout the day, last night he got a little flirty via text, and today he asked me soooo many questions about what I'm doing, how my day is going, etc. He's communicating with me more now than ever before. In fact he just called me a little while ago to "talk and see if there's been any new developments in my life in the last few weeks" I am chill, confident, and know for a fact that this line of communication is open only because he is getting ready to tell me what he actually wants, which isn't friendship.

But, I'm also totally open to seeing what this new guy is all about too. The biggest thing that has helped me was the detachment.....not checking if he's online, muting his updates, no reading old messages. When a negative thought creeps in about our old story I say to myself "cancel and unsubscribe" also practicing manifesting believable things like my neighbor bringing over dinner, someone buying me a treat, manifesting a text from someone else, etc.

Originally while working at this I had doubts and crash out moments but I kept affirming. I'll let y'all know when my SAT scene comes to fruition. Hope this will inspire at least someone to keep going.

Sorry my post is so long 😅

If you see my previous posts, in my old story, SP and I dated for a few months and he ended things stating he didn't see us being together long term and couldn't be exclusive. It ended basically exactly how I worried it would.

Initially I was devastated and I spiralled. I thanked him for his honesty and didn't send him anything else. remembered manifestation though and got back into it and went down the rabbit hole with it basically. I focused on myself, have a notebook full of affirmations (I call it my manifestation journal) and when I felt like I wasn't in control I'd write the things I wanted to manifest with SP or in general. I worked on my self concept for the last few weeks, quit checking all his socials we were still connected on and quit talking about it with anyone. I detached and went out on a coffee date with someone who's like a grown up version of SP.

After right around 3 weeks of silence and on the day after my coffee date he reached out saying he missed talking to me and wants to be friends. I told him I'm open to that and seeing how it feels for me. He has since then texted me every single day, first thing in the morning, which was something I wrote "I am so magnetic SP loves reaching out to me every morning" "I am so irresistible that sp wants to talk to me all day long"

So Ive been getting the morning texts, updates on what he's doing throughout the day, last night he got a little flirty via text, and today he asked me soooo many questions about what I'm doing, how my day is going, etc. He's communicating with me more now than ever before. In fact he just called me a little while ago to "talk and see if there's been any new developments in my life in the last few weeks" I am chill, confident, and know for a fact that this line of communication is open only because he is getting ready to tell me what he actually wants, which isn't friendship.

But, I'm also totally open to seeing what this new guy is all about too. The biggest thing that has helped me was the detachment.....not checking if he's online, muting his updates, no reading old messages. When a negative thought creeps in about our old story I say to myself "cancel and unsubscribe" also practicing manifesting believable things like my neighbor bringing over dinner, someone buying me a treat, manifesting a text from someone else, etc.

Originally while working at this I had doubts and crash out moments but I kept affirming. I'll let y'all know when my SAT scene comes to fruition. Hope this will inspire at least someone to keep going.

Sorry my post is so long 😅

After about three weeks of no contact and practicing the law of assumption, he has reached out and asked if we could be friends. I don't know how to reply. I can't be his friend or do I accept it and see if that's part of the new story? What's the best way to handle this?

Edited for update. I told him I was open to the idea of a friendship depending on how it goes. And we texted back and forth a little bit. I will allow him this line of communication so that it's easier for him to tell me he still loves me 😉

But he is indeed going to get the friend version of me that the rest of my friends get. Not the girlfriend version. I am the busy, distracted, ADHD friend who sometimes takes 16 hours to reply. I hope he likes her. 😜

Who am I kidding? He does.

I'm counting this as a win and I'm locking back in. I'm kinda shocked even though I shouldn't be. I guess I thought it would take more time.

I think this is a progress report? A couple weeks ago I started working on manifesting my SP. I also started simultaneously working on my self concept and confidence. Now, some crazy things are happening. I'm assuming everything SP related is happening behind the scenes. I am not checking anything 3D at all in regards to him.

However, I have gotten so much attention from new people. I have agreed to have coffee with a guy tomorrow that is kind of like a more emotionally mature version of my sp. He even grew up in the same state, has similar interests and some of the things I have written in my affirmation journal he has repeated back to me despite the fact that I wrote them moreso in reference to my SP. In fact some strangers have repeated compliments and things back to me.

There have been men offering to cook for me, take me out, send me things, order me food delivery, buy me groceries. It's crazy. I even had a guy who was interested in me offer to change gyms so we could be workout buddies. Which was something I wanted with my SP. I still very much want my sp but I'm starting to feel like he will need to step up his game and do better. Like way better. I had a different SP I tried to manifest back in January and changed my mind about come back and message me yesterday! My current SP is on his way. I can feel it.

BUT has anyone started to feel like they're too good for their SP after working on their self concept and felt better about themselves? Can our SP's bend that much to our assumed reality to be the stepped up versions that we need them to be? When he comes back he's definitely not getting the anxious version of me.

I'm just shocked how much this has changed my life in just a couple of weeks. I feel like part of me still wants him but I also know I deserve better than what he was giving me. Is this a normal part of the process? Any tips? Just keep going? It's definitely wonderful how everything is unfolding in my favor 🤣😅