r/nevillegoddardsp

Hey y'all, I don't know if you would call this detachment or letting go.

Me and my SP are in no contact, and for the last two weeks, I don't care if she comes back or not. I stopped checking everything and just assume that she misses me, is always trying to reach out and is crying thinking about me because she lost the connection.

The thing is, I've had some other assumptions as well, about her getting involved, which sometime makes me question, but I've learnt to let it go after feeling that part.

At the same time, I'm working on my self concept, and kind of manifesting another SP as well.

I know it is going to unfold because I manifested many small things before and they came in exactly how I wanted them to.

Just two days ago, I posted a story and she liked that story, (she rarely does that plus she always views my stories first) and I don't know if you would call that movement ?

Hi, so quick summary: SP and I have history, we we were deeply in love for a year, I never met a man who was this obsessed with me, we never met cause of distance, now he is closer to me, but we fell apart one month ago because of utter and stupid misunderstandings via whatsapp. He said he still loved me but cant do this anymore cause of our fights. I wrote him a letter, he got it and thanked me but had lots of questions, saw that I was back on tinder (no reason behind it, I was just bored) and didn't understand why I write him a deep love letter but Im back on tinder. Whatever. Now he was like "look I still want you in my life, I still wanna keep contact". But as a friend. So he kinda friendzoned me. Lol. Rip.

I am a good manifester and I understand the Law. I am still trying to understand why this happened. Maybe because I still believed he doesnt trust me anymore cause of our fights, but likes me still enough to be a friend.

And then there is my other, more stronger belief: I know he loves me. I know he never felt such a deep connection to anyone. I know I am his dreamgirl. And I literally dont have to tell myself. I know this. Thats why Im a lil confused. I didnt even cry after he friendzoned. I was a lil hurt and then I told him, yes okay, lets be friends. And internally I was like "boy you love me, who are you kidding". But since this happened just an hour ago my rational mind is interfering, telling me he just wants me as a friend.

I just wanna ask for some encouragement, maybe some of you were in a situation like this and changed it? I know I can! I just dont know which direction to take. What to think and how to handle the 3d. As I said this happened an hour ago so the wound is still a lil open.

Thanks 🩷💌

now like most of you I got into manifestation because…you guys guessed it right…because I had a sp in my mind
now to give you guys a little backstory…we met at a very young…at an age where we couldn’t even comprehend what we were feeling…so naturally we were very much overwhelmed and well it didn’t last long the first time and we ended up breaking up
The first time we broke up it was the absolute worst…like I couldn’t eat sleep do anything and so I ended up reaching out to him after 6 months…it didn’t end very well although we did talk a bit
After that he did end up reaching out to me and we were going back and forth but after that he blocked me and that was it.
After that school ended and it was quite a while before we started talking again
We were in college first year when all of a sudden he sent me a follow request on insta and then it started again…we officially started dating again…mind you it was long distance..I had moved out of my hometown so it was a bit difficult but it was soo nice and beautiful…everything that was pent up we could finally say to each again but then we again fell off after a year of being together but even after we were in contact but eventually we stopped talking…then we were in nc for a bit
During this time I focused majorly on my self concept and I genuinely improved it so that I hold the love that he was always willing to give me…I did improve my sc and I was genuinely okay with being by myself and I was not worryingly about the bow or when because Ik he will be back…there was this calmness in myself and I was truly at peace…The focus was totally on myself and I was at bliss.
Then it happened,one day he called me and it was 1 am in the night and he told me everything that I had ever wanted to hear…it was exactly line by line.
He told he was very much in love with me and that he couldn’t imagine his life without me and that he needed me back. He was even willing to wait for me if I needed time. He started behaving the exact way I wanted him to behave. He became the best boyfriend ever…
So if anyone is doubting the law…believe me it absolutely is real
Just persist,persist and persist in your new story.
Be so delusional that the 3d doesn’t affect u at all because you in your heart know that it is bound to happen…one way or the other.

Sorry for the grammatical errors…did not even proof-read😭

Just a few days ago, I saw her profile on Instagram and felt nothing. I didn't need her and I don't care if she comes back or not now. I still want her and whenever the thoughts pops into my mind, I affirm myself, she misses me and she loves me (we're still in NC).

In this time, I've got other girls throwing themselves at me, I've been going on dates and am considering manifesting another SP as well.

Curious to see if anyone else had a similar journey to detatching like this and what happened later.

I manifested my SP back after about 6 months of no contact. During that time we weren’t talking, aside from occasionally liking each other’s Instagram posts. Eventually they came back into my life, and for the past several months we’ve been seeing each other again, but still not in an official relationship.

When we are together in person, everything feels amazing. They are caring, affectionate, attentive, curious about my life, and we always have a really good time. The connection feels genuine, the intimacy is great, and when we’re actually together, it feels like there is something really real between us.

But when we’re not together, the dynamic is extremely painful. They can be very hot and cold, cancel plans, not reschedule, and then leave me in silence for long stretches of time. Sometimes it feels like I get dropped back into the void after we have a really good time together. It’s been really hurtful and confusing, especially because earlier in our reconnection they were much more considerate and consistent. This current behaviour feels so different from how things were at the beginning. I'm currently in so much pain right now that I don't even feel like I have the strength to keep my thoughts in order or manifest anything and I might be making it worse.

They are going through some personal stuff in their life right now that has nothing to do with me, and I think that is also affecting how they are able to show up right now, but that doesn't make it any less painful.

I’m really struggling right now because the silence and lack of follow-through sends me into looping thoughts like: why don’t they want to see me? Why don’t they care that this is hurting me? Why are they acting this way now when they didn’t act like this earlier in the reconnection? Why is it so warm and connected in person, but so painful and absent when we’re apart? Why don't they miss me too? Why are they okay with going so long without seeing me or speaking to me? Why is there no sense of urgency to see me? We've literally only seen each other once this month since they coldly cancelled plans on me last week at the last minute with no attempt to reschedule.

I know people will probably say to focus on self-concept, not react to the 3D, persist in the desired version, etc., and I understand that. But I’m honestly feeling really heartbroken and emotionally exhausted right now, and the pain is feeling like it's just overtaking everything in me right now. I think I just need comfort and insight from other people who have experienced something similar.

Has anyone else manifested someone back and then had to deal with hot/cold behaviour after the reconnection? How did you handle the pain and the looping thoughts without spiralling or giving up on the version you actually wanted?

My boyfriend (20) and I (19) are both in our first relationship, and we've been long distance the entire time. We had struggled with him pulling away, leaving me on read, and inconsistent communication. Two weeks ago, he stopped replying altogether, which was my biggest fear that he'd ghost me to end the relationship.

I'm want to manifest him back, but I'm terrified because I've never successfully manifested an SP before. My last SP ended up getting back with his ex after talking to me for a week, and I had spent five months doing self-concept work, affirming, visualizing, and persisting while having to watch them together every day at university. His girlfriend and her friends even made fun of me, saying I wasn't that pretty and so on and so forth. Eventually I had to give up for my own mental health.

Now with my current boyfriend, it's been two weeks of radio silence and him leaving me on read, long texts and voice messages of me asking him to talk to me. Its clear I'm upset he ghosted me to end things and he just doesn't seem to care. I'm crying every day, affirming as much as I can but I'm scared to repeat that entire painful experience with my first sp. Holding on for months while the 3D gets worse, never fully moving on from him because I'm persisting in the 4D, only to end up heartbroken again.

I don't want to lose my boyfriend. More than anything, I want him to come back, and for him to genuinely regret ghosting me, apologize, and prove through his actions that this will never happen again. But I'm exhausted, and after my previous experience, I feel like I need certainty before I can keep going.

If anyone would be willing to provide a little guidance and advice, someone who had gone through something similar and came out on the other side with their sp? I'd really appreciate knowing you manage the 3D and your emotions?

If you were in my position, how would you approach this?

I just don't want to spend another five months hoping, only to end up reliving the same heartbreak.

I've been in this community for about a year now, and this is honestly the first time I've really hit a slump.

I'm still SUPER motivated about my SP and what I want. I haven't given up, but I could really use a big boost right now.

I'd love to read some truly incredible success stories. Not stories like "we didn't talk for a week and then they texted me." I'm looking for situations where there had been months of no contact, and then, from the moment you started consciously manifesting, reality shifted within days or weeks. Cases where your SP ended up behaving exactly as you had imagined, or where contact happened in such a precise way that it was difficult to dismiss as a coincidence.

It doesn't even have to be about an SP. It could be a job, a family situation, money, a specific event, or anything else. I'm simply looking for stories where reality unfolded very closely to what had been imagined or assumed.

I can clearly see that I've experienced movement in the past when I was manifesting from a certain state of mind, but right now I would really love to read stories that make you think, "Wow, maybe there really is something to this."

I know writing out a detailed comment can be time-consuming, so I'm not necessarily looking for every detail. I'd just love to read a few experiences that were so unlikely and so close to what was imagined that they completely strengthened your faith and conviction.

Thanks in advance to anyone willing to share...😊

I started manifesting my sp a week ago, two days in i thought “it would be nice if he posted a song on our playlist”. 5min later i checked and he posted that he misses me. But I’m in for a text so i ignored.
The thing is, my inner block is that i’m feeling guilty for messing with his free will. And i’m thinking, we’re gonna date and if i tell him this (about manifesting him) he’s gonna think i’m a freak. Even worse if we get married cause then i’m gonna have to tell him.
Anyone been through this?

Hi everyone,

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I wanted to open a discussion about something I feel is often talked about in a very confusing way, but not really addressed in a practical way.

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Many of us come into manifestation because we are trying to recover from a breakup and manifest an ex/SP back. In many cases, it feels like the last chance, so we put a huge amount of hope into manifestation.

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That is also my situation.

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The problem is that, after a breakup, the nervous system is often completely dysregulated. So even if you understand the theory — living in the end, SATS, affirmations, self-concept, not checking the 3D — applying it becomes much harder in practice.

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For me, even though almost three months have passed, my state still comes in waves.

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One day I wake up feeling relatively okay — not great, but stable enough — and I can assume the wish fulfilled more naturally.

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Later that same day, a random trigger or painful thought can appear, even without checking the 3D, and suddenly anxiety comes back. In that moment I start doubting everything and my faith drops.

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Some days I wake up already negative, even if I did SATS and affirmations the night before, and I feel like I have lost the state completely.

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Other days I feel very secure in the assumption, almost naturally convinced that it is done, but then I wonder if it is really the state of the wish fulfilled or just my brain still being attached and refusing to detach from the person.

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So the issue is not that I don’t understand the concept intellectually.

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The issue is the practical management of the waves after a painful breakup.

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My question is mainly for people who successfully manifested an SP/ex back after a breakup, especially after a period of anxiety, grief, or emotional instability:

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How did you handle the waves?

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Did you just keep returning to the state every time you fell out of it?

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Did you focus first on self-concept before the SP?

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Did you keep doing SATS even on days when it felt fake?

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Did you stop trying to feel certainty and just persisted gently?

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At what point did the state start becoming natural instead of something you had to fight for?

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I am not asking for generic advice like “move on” or “detach and forget about them.” I am asking specifically from the perspective of manifestation practice: how do you actually stabilize the state when the breakup wound is still active and your nervous system keeps pulling you back into fear?

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Any real experiences or practical insights would be appreciated.

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Just a genuine question if this has happened, how did you react and what you did to persist

Guys what is THE MOST unhinged thing you did that helped you manifest your partner. It could be something wrong you were doing and when you stopped you got it or something that gave you the proof that this is exactly why and how I got my partner to text/call/propose me.

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Something that you swear by because of your experience.

I’m looking for advice from people who have successfully manifested a change in a specific person.
My husband and I have been married for several years. Until recently, despite our difficulties, he was still financially supportive, affectionate at times, and talked about our future together.
Over the last few weeks, everything changed very suddenly. After I talked to his dad for seeking help, my husband stopped communicating with me almost entirely, ignores my calls and messages, and has expressed that he wants a divorce. It feels like I’m dealing with a completely different person from the man I married.
What makes this situation difficult is that there was no real closure, conversation, or mutual discussion. He simply became emotionally unavailable and then withdrew from the relationship.

For those who have successfully manifested a positive change in a spouse or partner:
How did you stop reacting to the 3D reality ?cuz all this silence is driving me crazy
What scenes did you imagine before sleep?
Did you focus on changing your self-concept first?
How did you deal with circumstances that seemed completely hopeless?
How long did it take before you noticed changes?
I would really appreciate hearing success stories or practical Neville-based advice.

I know it's common for them to come back when manifesting and I've had that happen. But it seems like I keep having multiple rounds of it happening, sometimes the same people, sometimes different past romantic prospects, even after not giving them attention the first time? And it's not in the same time period, there's always lots of time in between. My current SP isn't someone I know, so I've basically had everyone from my past come back, no exceptions.

It's like they come back each time but with a weaker pull on me? I asked chatgpt and it said something about it's the "same residual pattern losing energy in diminishing cycles".

So I’ve been talking to someone that I’m very into, and things have been going great! I was on a journey to manifest my ideal person from scratch, and this person fits most of what I was looking for.

The issue is I have a bit of a strict genital preference, and they don’t fit into it. Everything else has been great, and I’d hate to end things over something like that.

So I was wondering if anyone has manifested “impossible” physical changes in their SP. I’m planning to use revision (change the conversation we had to confirm my desires instead of reject them), and probably SATS as well. But admittedly this is just a very emotionally loaded journey for me, and I have a lot of conflicting emotions about it.

So I’d love to hear any experiences about changing SP’s age, body, or anything like that!

These are notes I took in Church in January 2025

By March 2025 I had met the love of my life.

**GOD is your own wonderful human inagination**

**SINNER is someone who misses the mark. To SIN is to live in a state you don't want to be in

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I am no longer a sinner i am a son of the living God

1 Get your head up. No one wants ro hear your sad stories about who was not there for you. You are Gods child - act like it - speak like it. You cannot convince me to live in sadness depression or oppresion. I expect the impossible.

2 He is there to work his power in me. I have access to the power of God. Dont be limited. Never be caught by "i dont know what to do" ... god knows. Youll be told.

3 he is here to minister his inheritance. This is anything you need in the temporal world. Every believer has access.

God says "I can get anything to you from anywhere if you dont limit me."

Important to note here:

I stopped practicing The Law because I had gotten everything I had ever wanted. I became complacent and allowed the Old man back.

By June 2026 I successfully manifested the exact same break up I had in 2021 just with a different person. A message on a phone.

So my advice to you and to anyone who will listen is this

1 you have access to EVERYTHING through God (your own imagination)

2 if you do not let the old man die (old self) he will come back and everything that old man is will be made manifest in yuor life again.

Excuse me because English isn't my first language.

One question I have is that whenever I see something sexual or romantic on social media, my mind suddenly turns to "Ah SP has done this with others, or she might do it with others, or is doing it at the moment with someone else"

How do I overcome this part of myself ?

I'm working on my self concept a lot, but this part is somewhat bothering me, maybe it's a limiting belief because I know about SP's past ?