He broke up with me. I respected his decision.

For months, I’ve done everything correctly. I did SATs and put myself first. I was living in the end. In a happy, healthy and committed relationship where I was chosen.

Then it hit me: I was micromanaging the bridge because I wanted him to reach out and apologise first. That meant I was still in the old story and giving his avoidant and childish self power. If we were in a loving relationship, you wouldn’t care who reached out first, right? And of course I wouldn’t be waiting for an apology

So I gave him the benefit of doubt and reached out to him first. You would not believe this but I instantly got paragraphs (big ones that I never got when we were together), instant quick responses (that I also never received) and flirting too. Even when my message to him was casual and neutral at best, plus I took days to respond.

However, he mentioned that a 3P dumped him, and that dating is hard. It was pure jealousy bait, and I know it because in the past he’d do the same to get my attention (which I always responded with calmness and security. Not jealousy or competitiveness).

Honestly this was not what I expected. I wanted a warm reunion where he opened up and was vulnerable to me. I wanted commitment and understanding.

All I got was honestly the worst version of himself. I wonder what went wrong in the manifestation. Yes I got so much attention from him, he’s chasing me and he’s reflecting my high self concept of never having to lift a finger again for love. But he only went on to jealousy bait then immediately flirt with me when I responded that I was also seeing someone else (which I am, and he’s hotter than SP).

What’s going on?

He was telling me exactly what I had been affirming finally after over a month NC due to really bad circumstances and things have been the best they have ever been and he had been showing up as the new version for about a month now consistently like a full 180.

He was talking abt how much he wants to see me, being all sweet and romantic and showering me with attention/affection and has been asking me on dates every weekend for a month straight and now I’ve been on delivered for 4 days 😭 He viewed my story though and it pmo so bad I’ve been trying not to check the 3D but not seeing his text is triggering me so bad.

We have been talking for 7 months but this past month I have seen the most dramatic change after I dropped the NC and old story I locked in for like 3 days and that’s when he reached back out to me. It was all going so well but out of nowhere he left me on delivered and I feel so defeated and don’t know what to do from here😔

hellooo guys I have a question, is detachment necessary for manifesting ?? I’m so confused, there’s like two whole different sides of the LOA community, one side is ‘all you have to do is decide it’s done, why keep persisting for something you already have?’ And then on the other side of the community, it’s ’you pick your desire and persist until it appears.’ So one side is I guess detachment and the other is the opposite. If you can understand where I’m getting at. I guess also bc I get rlly excited about my manifestations and find it hard to detach, can I just set a rule that I don’t have to detach ?? Thank youuu

We were together for 4 years. I just don’t understand. I’ve been in the sabbath for 4 days. I had a deep knowing. I was living my life fully. I was moving in with my life and building it. And today she took me off snap and I feel like i was shown the opposite of what I should have. She’s colder now than before. I was having vivid dreams, new story took root. The seed was impregnated. Why did It go backwards?

If you see my previous posts, in my old story, SP and I dated for a few months and he ended things stating he didn't see us being together long term and couldn't be exclusive. It ended basically exactly how I worried it would.

Initially I was devastated and I spiralled. I thanked him for his honesty and didn't send him anything else. remembered manifestation though and got back into it and went down the rabbit hole with it basically. I focused on myself, have a notebook full of affirmations (I call it my manifestation journal) and when I felt like I wasn't in control I'd write the things I wanted to manifest with SP or in general. I worked on my self concept for the last few weeks, quit checking all his socials we were still connected on and quit talking about it with anyone. I detached and went out on a coffee date with someone who's like a grown up version of SP.

After right around 3 weeks of silence and on the day after my coffee date he reached out saying he missed talking to me and wants to be friends. I told him I'm open to that and seeing how it feels for me. He has since then texted me every single day, first thing in the morning, which was something I wrote "I am so magnetic SP loves reaching out to me every morning" "I am so irresistible that sp wants to talk to me all day long"

So Ive been getting the morning texts, updates on what he's doing throughout the day, last night he got a little flirty via text, and today he asked me soooo many questions about what I'm doing, how my day is going, etc. He's communicating with me more now than ever before. In fact he just called me a little while ago to "talk and see if there's been any new developments in my life in the last few weeks" I am chill, confident, and know for a fact that this line of communication is open only because he is getting ready to tell me what he actually wants, which isn't friendship.

But, I'm also totally open to seeing what this new guy is all about too. The biggest thing that has helped me was the detachment.....not checking if he's online, muting his updates, no reading old messages. When a negative thought creeps in about our old story I say to myself "cancel and unsubscribe" also practicing manifesting believable things like my neighbor bringing over dinner, someone buying me a treat, manifesting a text from someone else, etc.

Originally while working at this I had doubts and crash out moments but I kept affirming. I'll let y'all know when my SAT scene comes to fruition. Hope this will inspire at least someone to keep going.

Sorry my post is so long 😅

while visualizing its fine but when it comes to living in the end, maintaining this mental stance during the day and for long periods of time this feeling really causes me to struggle

I always imagined I’d be writing this success story, but things didn’t really happen how I anticipated. Here is my SP(s?) success story. It’s pretty long.

Around 4 years ago, I met my SP. Let’s call him Luke. Luke and I met via a dating site, and I instantly felt a crazy intense connection to him. It was like a soul tie, or like I had known him all my life. The feeling was mutual. We dated for around 4 months, I was only 23 at the time. This was before I knew about the law or any of this. I see now how I created all of these circumstances.

Around month 3, Luke told me he had to move away. I was devastated. Luke had also mentioned that he wasn’t really in the place to be in a relationship. I had never been in a relationship and had some pretty poor beliefs about relationships. I decided it would be best that we make a clean break, go no contact, and just end things.

Luke wasn’t the best at communication either, and somehow I knew that if we continued on how we were going, we’d ruin things. So I felt like a clean break might actually be the best chance we had. Luke and I cried together, and the goodbye was beautiful and bittersweet.

I then broke no contact and planned to visit Luke later on in the year. With the excuse that I was going to be in town celebrating a friend’s birthday, I told him the dates way early in advance, and he seemed excited.
I built this event up SO much in my head, but I see now how that played out against me. I had been anxious about it the whole time leading up to it. The week of, he started being dodgy with his texts until finally, the day of, he admitted he would actually be out of town the day I was in town to see him.

I was DEVASTATED.

Everything I had built up seemed like a lie.

And so, a few months later, after another all-time low not hearing from Luke, I found Neville and this whole world of conscious manifestation.

To make a long story short, I spent YEARS obsessing over every technique and doing everything I could to manifest Luke back into my life. I even hired a coach. At the same time, I was also putting in a lot of work into recreating my self concept with new and better beliefs.

I had completely become a different person. One with amazing beliefs about love, relationships, and my own self-worth.

But somehow, Luke still wasn’t coming in.

I didn’t get it.

Throughout the years, I sent a few messages here and there, but nothing ever came of them. Eventually, I decided to send one last message. A paragraph saying how I wished him well and appreciated the time we had spent together.

It was my last effort to salvage this before fully moving on, I decided.
Andddd… nothing.
Not a peep from Luke.
It broke me, but honestly, it was necessary for me to fully “give up.”

NOW, throughout this time, let’s bring a new SP in.
We’ll call him Harry.

Harry and I worked together. He quickly became a good friend of mine around two years into this whole endeavor. We had SO much chemistry, and he felt like my best friend.

It seemed like Harry was reflecting my new self concept so effortlessly. I would often manifest small things with Harry—messages, meetings, you name it. It was so easy with him.

Around a year ago, Harry and I went on a few dates but then decided to call it off and continue on as coworkers instead. Harry had a lot going on. My affections for him never faltered, though. He seemed to see me and understand me in a way I’m not sure anyone had ever before. The love I felt for him was different than Luke. Luke’s felt all consuming and written in the stars. Harry’s was steady and gentle. It was based in reality and I didn’t feel like my individuality could be lost within him.

Time goes on. I’m still TRYING every manifestation method with Luke and getting nothing. Well, I’d get a lot of signs and birds before land during the whole 3 years of conscious manifestation, but nothing in the 3D.

Now let’s cut back to me sending that last message to Luke and hearing nothing.

Shortly after, things start picking up between me and Harry again, and very naturally, might I add. I decided to just go with the flow.

We decide to try again, and Harry is showing up exactly how I’d dreamed my partner would. All except for commitment. Remember how I said I had bad beliefs about that one?

Well, this led me to finally choosing myself and walking away from Harry. I had decided: I AM a person who receives commitment. I AM a person who is deserving of that.

And I told the 3D to f itself if this is what it was trying to give me AGAIN. NO! I had changed!

So, Harry and I break up. I’m devastated. Harry had become my best friend. And though I still felt this strong tie to Luke, Harry was in my 3D. Harry WAS the man who was reflecting and showing up. Harry was the person who knew me best.

And Luke?
Well, it had been years. And to be honest, at this point, I didn’t know Luke anymore.

I decided: Okay. Harry. Harry and I are together. This is what I want and deserve. I knew I had created the breakup through my bad beliefs about commitment. And I knew it in my heart. I knew that Harry just needed some space to realize I was it for him.
And that’s exactly what happened.

About a month into our breakup, Harry messaged me that he’d like to talk. We meet up, and Harry tells me everything I had imagined. We decide we are in a committed relationship, and I’m over the moon.

Think I’m done?

NO.

In the back of my mind, a lot of doubt came in about Luke. More so about my own abilities to manifest.
How could I have spent YEARS of my life trying to manifest Luke and NOTHING. And then one month goes by and poof—Harry conforms immediately. It was honestly just a bit annoying. My affections for Luke had settled, but the “failure” of the manifestation seemed to really confuse me.

Last week, OUT OF NOWHERE…There Luke is on my phone.

He sent me a long paragraph apologizing for his flakiness throughout the years and saying how he wished he had done things differently. He wanted to reconnect.

And the kicker?

I felt nothing.

Now, I always thought I’d never be the person who didn’t want their desire once it came. There was no doubt in my mind that the second Luke came back, I would run to him. But I didn’t care anymore.

Harry had become the person I built with. Just two weeks before, Harry and I had made it official. And now I’m finding myself blocking Luke—the guy who, for YEARS, I had cried over and spent nights imagining being with. I had even PAID someone to help me manifest this man back.

Now don’t get me wrong. There was a moment where it all came back after receiving that message from Luke. But then I realized (prepare for this to be corny) that all that love I had felt, that I thought could only come from Luke, was actually just me. I thought I needed Luke to feel that love. But no. It was all my creation. I didn’t need anyone to supply that love for me anymore.

So here we are now. This was my success story. It’s not the one I imagined myself writing all those years ago. Harry and I are happier than ever. He is my best friend, and I love my reflection through him. 

I had always wanted to manifest the choice of whether I’d take Luke back or not, and that’s exactly what I got. But my choice even surprised me. I was always scared at the possibility that I wouldn’t want Luke anymore if I finally let go and he came back. But all I can say is that this manifestation was never really about Luke.

Without Luke, I wouldn’t have changed so many of my beliefs or found this whole world of manifestation and “I AM.”

And for that, I will always be grateful for Luke. Now I feel the space has been created within me to start manifesting even more things for my career and life. This has been quite the journey, I feel like I'm living in a rom com. :)

No matter what we manifest, it all comes down to self. Having manifested an SP, it taught me more about myself than anything else. SP is a touchy subject in this community. That's why you can't talk about it in the main NG sub lol.

It triggers, causing emotional outbursts, whether it be excitement or sadness. We've all been there, we get a text, we're over the moon, we get a slow reply, we blame ourselves, see where we went wrong, immediately going through every single thought trying to find which one manifested this. "But I've been affirming all day. I had this ONE doubt and it ruined everything thats why she was online but didn't reply." If you zoom out and look at this from the perspective of God, Power, Source, Light, you'll find you have been giving your awareness to something so silly.

Manifesting my SP made me realise it's all me. In every sense. It's made me realise how stupidly easy it was.

Decision, Trust, Persistence.....in YOURSELF. You decide, you trust yourself, you persist, in yourself.

It actually has nothing to do with them at all. I can't stress that enough. The idea and thought of them held me back. "But what if I don't keep thinking about them when I am deciding they'll forget me" translates to "I am going to keep thinking of them because I'm not with them".

I can't really keep track of the things I've manifested for myself, but there was a pattern: Decide, trust, persist. In sticky situations, a coping mechanism for me before I realised what I was doing was: "I don't want to deal with this. It will work itself out." Lol. I used this for seemingly big problems, such as getting a letter I owe over 9K. It stressed me, I didnt want to deal with it. I said "I don't want to deal with this, it will work itself out, its sorted." I got other letters, more threatening each time (Government stuff) again, I didn't want to deal with it. The letters were there, staring at me in the face, hung up on the fridge. I got another letter, this time with every payment and then at the bottom saying the total was deducted and I owed "0.00".

Now when I think about it, I'm like ah it would've happened anyway, of course it would have. Because I decided and persisted it would.

The reason why SP is such a triggering conversation is because of the great efforts people think you have to put to get them. The fear of feeling like you're not doing enough or it would've ruined it, so much energy placed on someone else. I've manifested a few SP's. Most of them came, but from such a low self concept it was almost disappointing how they turned up and how I accepted their behaviour. It wouldn't last because I kept trying to change them.

There was nothing more of a life lesson for me and the focus on my self than this. I cannot stress how little you have to do to for them. "But what if the universe manifests someone else for me and what if I don't get THAT specific person." That's where you lost trust in yourself again. Theres only YOU. YOU know what you want. I know this analogy is used a lot, but ordering at a restaurant. You pick something, the server isn't going to tell the chef to get you something just because they think it's nicer and better for you. You wouldn't accept it.

To summarise what I am trying to show you is, try focusing on Self. Don't do it from a perspective of trying to get them. Leave them out of it. You aren't losing something you're already not experiencing so really, what's the loss?

Notice the patterns of what you have experienced, they all follow the same trend. That's why Neville says to test it.

Decide (Choose) Trust (Let go. Stop looking for it) Persist (In that decision).

The Law is real. My testimony.

This wasn’t one of those stories where I imagined for three nights, received a text, and everything immediately worked out. It took about five years from discovering Neville to finally reuniting with the woman who became my wife (but trust me it doesn’t have to take that long for you, this is just my story). There were two major fallouts, other people entering both of our lives, long periods where we barely spoke, family pressure to get married, and several moments where the exact opportunity I wanted appeared directly in front of me and I still managed to sabotage it because I had not truly changed inside.

Today, that specific-person is my wife.

I am changing the names and a few identifying details for privacy, but the important parts of this story happened exactly as I describe them.

A little background

This began in early 2019, when I was entering my twenties. At that time, I was painfully insecure. I had never had a girlfriend, had no real romantic experience, and genuinely did not know how to get girls. Around my closest friends, I could be funny and normal, but outside that small circle I was quite shy.

I was so shy that I was even afraid to make an Instagram account. My friends always told me make one, but I was the type to think that I didn’t have enough friends, enough pictures, or enough followers. I worried that people would look at my profile and think I was not popular. That should give you an idea of where my self concept was.

My family had been involved for most of my life with an Indian faith based Sunday school organization. I grew up taking classes there, attending summer programs, participating in a faith based choir, volunteering, and spending most Sundays with the same community. It was a major part of my upbringing, and most of my real friendships came from that organization.

As the youth of that school entered our late teens and early twenties, the institutions leadership wanted the younger members to take on more responsibility. A group of about ten or fifteen of us began organizing camps, running events, teaching younger students, and learning how to manage parts of the organization ourselves. Because we were working together constantly, a lot of the youth in the group became much closer.

That was where I really got to know the woman who eventually became my wife. I will call her Ashley.

Ashley was easily the most beautiful woman I had ever met in real life. Bro, she was stunning. She had modeled when she was younger, was extremely popular, had a lot of friends, and carried herself with a level of confidence I did not have. She was also kind, funny, intelligent, and naturally good with people. She had previous relationship experience, which intimidated me even more. Meanwhile, I had never even asked a girl out on a proper date.

In my mind, she was completely out of my league.

I developed a huge crush on her, but I never admitted it. I told myself that saying anything would ruin our friendship, but the truth was simpler. I was terrified of rejection.

Two of our mutual friends, who I will call Sherry and Shawn, were interested in each other. Shawn was one of my good friends, and I helped push and get them together. I even jokingly predicted the exact day they would begin dating, and somehow it happened on that day.

Because I had helped her and Shawn get together, Sherry became especially friendly with me. She felt like I had done something important for her and wanted to return the favor by helping me get into a relationship.

The obvious person she had in mind was her best friend Ashley.

Sherry gave me several openings. First, she casually suggested that Ashley and I would make a good couple. I immediately denied being interested (sounds silly, I know, but I was just that genuinely scared of putting myself out there), even though I thought about Ashley constantly. 

Internally, I wanted Ashley more than anyone. Externally, I acted as though there was nothing there.

February 2019: Discovering Neville

Around February 2019, YouTube recommended a Joseph Alai video about manifesting a desired person. Before that, I had started reading general Law of Attraction material and listening to teachers such as Abraham Hicks. I understood that positivity and mindset mattered, but I did not have a clear framework for deliberately creating a specific result.

That video introduced me to Neville Goddard.

Something about Neville’s teaching immediately clicked for me. He was not saying that I needed to hope, beg, or wait for the universe to decide whether I deserved something. He taught that imagination creates reality and that I could enter a relaxed, sleepy state, imagine a short scene implying my desire had already been fulfilled, give it the tones of reality, and experience it as happening now. And that after this, a bridge of incidents would occur that would lead me to the actualization of my scene.

I decided to test it with Ashley.

My scene was simple. I imagined sitting across from Sherry at a Panera Bread. I could feel the table, see her facial expression, what she was wearing, and the space around us. In the scene, she looked at me and said, “I’m so glad you’re dating Ashley!”

I repeated that scene for several nights. I was completely new to Neville, so I was not doing anything perfectly, but I tried to experience it as vividly as possible and fall asleep while looping it.

A few days afterward, Sherry wrote in our group chat that she had dreamed about me dating someone. She did not say Ashley’s name directly, but from the context it seemed obvious that she was implying it was her. I interpreted that as the first sign that my imaginal act had impressed itself.

Then Ashley began talking to me more. She asked for my Snapchat! Before this, we rarely communicated outside of volunteering, but suddenly she was messaging me and showing more interest. Our friendship became closer.

The problem was that I still wanted the entire relationship handed to me on a silver platter without having to face any fear. I wanted Ashley to somehow become my girlfriend without me admitting that I liked her, asking her out, risking rejection, or changing the way I saw myself. 

Fall 2019: The opportunities I kept avoiding

By fall 2019, Sherry was not merely hinting anymore. She was actively creating opportunities for Ashley and me to spend time together.

In October, our friends planned a surprise birthday party for Ashley. Sherry and the others asked me to distract Ashley for several hours so they could prepare everything at her house. I took Ashley to the mall, and we spent most of the day together. We walked around, talked, got food, and enjoyed ourselves.

It was basically a date, although neither of us called it that.

Looking back, the entire setup was obvious. My friends trusted me to spend several hours alone with Ashley because they were trying to bring us closer. Ashley was comfortable going out alone with me. Sherry had already suggested we should date. Yet I still refused to make a move or tell anyone how I felt.

Over the next few months, Ashley herself gave me more openings. She started asking me to get lunch with her and hang out one on one. We went to malls, restaurants, and other places together. These were essentially dates, but because neither of us formally called them dates, I could hide behind the idea that we were “just friends.”

During the winter college quarter, around the end of 2019 and beginning of 2020, I changed one of my classes because the original time was inconvenient and way too early for me. And the day I walked into my new class, boom, there she was. Ashley. She was in the same class as the one I transferred into. 

Since we lived near each other and attended the same college and had a similar class schedule, Ashley suggested that we just carpool together.

We started spending nearly an hour alone in the car together almost every day. Sometimes we would get food after class or sometimes we'd go shopping. We talked, joked around, and became very close.

Looking back, the bridge was unfolding almost perfectly. Sherry suggested that Ashley and I should date. She asked whether I liked her. She even literally had a dream Ashley and I were dating. She arranged for me to take Ashley out alone on her birthday. Ashley then started inviting me to lunch, asking me to hang out. Ashley ended up being in the exact class I transferred into and even suggested that we carpool to college together.

I was being given opening after opening.

I still just couldn’t admit how I felt. (lameee, I know)

That is what I mean when I say the bridge was unfolding, but I was still occupying the identity of someone who believed he could not have her. I wanted the result while remaining the same person who felt unworthy of it.

Summer 2020: My first scene manifests

By the end of spring 2020, I started feeling as though Ashley was becoming more distant. I panicked and thought I had waited too long. The anxiousness kicked in hard. I worried that she had become tired of waiting for me to say something and was moving on.

So I returned to the original scene of Sherry saying to me “I'm so glad your dating Ashley!”. This time I repeated it much more intensely and vividly. 

A few weeks later around the beginning of summer 2020, we were all at Shawn’s graduation party. At one point, Sherry and I were hiding together during a group hide & seek game. While we were alone, she confronted me directly.

She asked whether I liked Ashley and whether I wanted to date her.

For the first time, I admitted the truth.

I said yes!

Sherry became extremely excited. We were practically jumping around together. She told me Ashley liked me too and that I needed to ask her out.

Later that day, I texted Ashley and asked her on a date. And to my delight she immediately agreed. I was elated and so happy, I truly felt like magic was occurring in my life, it was a crazy feeling!

I planned an entire day out for us. We went kayaking, rode bikes, walked near the water, and got food. At the end of the date, I told her I how I really liked her. I was nervous while saying it, but she told me she wanted to see me again!

On our next date, during the first part of July 2020, I took her to dinner and asked her to become my girlfriend.

She said yes!

The exact scene I had imagined came true. Sherry was thrilled that Ashley and I were dating. Our friends knew. We told our parents, which was a major step because we both came from traditional Indian families where dating was not something we necessarily casually discussed. Our families had also known one another through the community for many years.

I thought I had done it. I thought I had manifested the woman I was going to marry.

But I had only imagined becoming her boyfriend. I had not imagined becoming the man capable of sustaining that relationship.

September 2020: The first breakup

Once Ashley and I officially started dating, all my insecurity came to the surface.

I had no idea how to be in a relationship. I did not know when to hold her hand, whether I should kiss her, how to lead a date, or how to make her feel safe and wanted. Even holding her hand made me so nervous that my palms would sweat.

She could feel that energy.

I was not living as someone who naturally felt loved by her. I was living as someone who could not believe she had chosen him and expected to lose her at any moment.

During the relationship, she gave me access to some of her social media accounts. I made the mistake of reading old conversations from before we were together (I know huuuge mistake and completely unacceptable). She was not cheating on me. These were old messages and had nothing to do with our current relationship, but I saw details from her past that made me even more insecure and intimidated.

I should never have invaded her privacy, and I am not proud of it.

Instead of feeling secure in the relationship I had wanted, I became even more convinced that I was not enough.

After about two months of dating, around September 2020, Ashley told me that she liked me but did not know whether she could fall in love with me. She said she was unsure whether the relationship would work.

The moment she said that, I spiraled. I accepted her uncertainty as a final verdict. Within days, we broke up. Complete self-sabotage.

I was devastated. It was my first relationship. I had spent more than a year wanting her, and I had finally received the exact thing I imagined only to have it fall apart immediately.

But the breakup also gave me the realization that changed my life.

My scene had actually worked perfectly. The Law worked!

I imagined Sherry telling me that she was happy Ashley and I were dating. I received precisely that experience, and that experience only. The scene did not imply that we were married. It did not imply emotional security, lifelong commitment, deep mutual love, or that I had become a confident husband.

It only implied that we were dating.

That is what I got.

The Law had not failed me. I had imagined a narrow event while still identifying as an insecure man who believed he could not keep the woman he wanted. This is why I now understand and always warn against manifesting before the End, especially when one does not have a good self concept.

That was the moment I decided to stop casually consuming manifestation content and study Neville directly.

Late 2020 through 2021: Studying Neville and rebuilding myself

After the breakup, I bought Neville’s books and began reading his lectures. I eventually read hundreds of them. I wanted to understand the foundation of his teaching rather than collect random techniques from other people.

I studied states, assumption, revision, inner conversations, living in the end, the Sabbath, and Neville’s teaching that the human imagination is the creative power of God within us.

The biggest realization for me was personal responsibility of my experiences.

As long as I blamed Ashley, her past, other men, my lack of experience, time, or external circumstances, I remained a victim of those things. Neville’s teaching forced me to look at my own assumptions, self concept, inner conversations, and habitual expectations.

I came to understand that I was not only manifesting during SATS. I was always creating from the state I occupied.

The insecure man who imagined becoming Ashley’s boyfriend received his scene, but he also continued creating from insecurity throughout the relationship.

I had to change the person doing the imagining.

I began working deliberately on my self concept. I imagined friends commenting on how confident and outgoing I had become. I practiced seeing myself as attractive, secure, socially comfortable, and capable of leading a relationship.

This did not transform me overnight, but over time I became a noticeably different person.

During this period, I also made a critical and serious mistake again. I didn’t realize I still had access to some of Ashley’s social media accounts after the breakup, and I checked them after when I should not have. I saw messages from other men and what appeared to be pictures from a date.

It hurt badly. Baadddlyyy bro.

But I eventually recognized that checking her accounts was both wrong and destructive. It violated her privacy, kept me focused on circumstances I did not want, and repeatedly pushed me back into the state of being rejected.

I stopped.

I decided that if there were other people in the picture, I would not obsess over them. I would focus on the end I wanted and continue changing myself.

Throughout 2021, I also tested the Law with other specific people and relationships.

In one case, an extremely attractive woman began working around my family’s business. I imagined a scene of us together. Within a short period, we began talking, started dating, and became physically involved.

Eventually, I realized I did not love her and ended the relationship. I regret allowing it to progress when my heart was elsewhere, but the experience showed me that I was no longer the person who believed attractive women were inaccessible to him.

Another time, I saw a photograph of a woman who had modeled and represented our state in a major national competition. I had never met her. I imagined my friends reacting with disbelief that I had gotten together with her.

Within a couple of weeks, I unexpectedly met her. The next day, she messaged me, and we eventually had a fun fling.

There were other manifestations as well, including many unrelated to relationships. I started building what I thought of as a bank of evidence. Whenever doubt appeared, I could look back at experiences I had imagined before they happened and remind myself that imagination had repeatedly preceded the result.

But no matter who entered my life, my feelings for Ashley never disappeared. I wasn’t actively manifesting something specific with her, but at the time i was on a huge roll of successful manifestations and massive inner conviction that a lot of things that I would think of and think from, would literally just occur in my life. On New Years Eve I fell asleep day dreaming of just thinking about Ashley and receiving messages from her.

January 2022: Ashley returns

Aaaand on January 1, 2022, our organization held its usual New Year’s event. During the event, Ashley pointed out that we were wearing matching colors. She went out of her way to speak to me more than she had in a long time.

Afterward, she began sending me Snapchats every day.

By then, I had changed considerably. Other people saw me as more confident and social. I knew how to plan dates, speak to women, and express interest. But when it came to Ashley, the old version of me began returning.

Our breakup still carried emotional pain I had never fully processed/addressed. I wanted her back, but I was afraid to discuss what had happened. Once again, I secretly hoped she would make everything effortless for me.

After we had been speaking on Sundays again and snapchatting daily for about two months, Ashley just straight up asked me to lunch.

I went into that meeting excited because it felt like the bridge was beginning again. I assumed we would hang out several times and gradually find our way back into a relationship. Kind of like last time.

Instead, she brought up the breakup herself.

She told me she had made a mistake. She said she had continued thinking about me, regretted hurting me, and believed we had been right for each other.
She wanted to try again.

Amazing right? This was the exact opportunity I had wanted for years.

And I froze..

The memory of her saying the relationship would never work came rushing back. I became emotional and choked up crying. Instead of telling her that I wanted her too, I said I did not know whether we could make it work.

I was not consciously trying to reject her. I was reacting to the pain I still associated with our relationship. But from her perspective, she had made herself vulnerable and I had said no. She was hurt.

Her entire demeanor changed. Within minutes, she ended the lunch date and left.

I sat there afterward wondering how I had managed to ruin another perfect opportunity.

I messaged her and asked to meet again because I wanted to explain myself. She was reluctant but eventually agreed. We met briefly in her car at a park. This was still during the period when COVID precautions were common, and she kept a mask on while we spoke, but emotionally it also felt like another wall between us.

She was distant and guarded.

I had planned to tell her that I still loved her and wanted to rebuild the relationship, but her coldness affected me. She even said she could never see us being together. I lost my nerve and never communicated everything I had intended to say.

We became distant again.

That experience taught me something important. Self concept is not always completely general. I had become confident around other women, but I still held a specific identity in relation to Ashley.

With her, I returned to being the insecure man who expected rejection and believed the relationship could not be repaired.

The rest of 2022 and 2023: More delays and worsening circumstances

For the rest of 2022, I continued living my life and dating other people. My family had also begun discussing marriage with me more seriously because I was now in my mid twenties.

That pressure made the situation feel more urgent. I worried that she could be introduced to someone else and become engaged before I ever fixed things between us. I continued imagining other things. When the thought of Ashley came up, I was always in a conflicted state - on one side imagining good things with her, on the other imagining the pain of the past, and my failures / self concept of lack.

In early 2023, Ashley started showing signs of interest again. She was warmer toward me at community events. I would catch her looking at me or finding reasons to join conversations I was having.

Around March 2023, I started thinking seriously about creating a proper scene for our future.

Unfortunately for me our friend group at the community center had a major falling out.

There was drama involving a prank, several people became upset with one another, and the group fractured. Because Ashley was especially close to Sherry and Shawn (who were upset with me and a few others), she became distant again. Ughhhhh.

It felt as though the natural bridge between us had collapsed.

Around the same time, another beautiful woman whom I had previously imagined entered my life. She was very interested in me, and we dated for most of 2023.

By the end of that year, I had to be honest with myself. I was still in love with Ashley, and continuing the relationship was unfair to the woman I was dating. I ended it.

By the beginning of 2024, the circumstances with Ashley looked worse than they ever had.

We had broken up in 2020. We had failed to reconcile in 2022. Our friend group had fractured in 2023. Multiple other people had entered our lives. My parents were not heavily pressuring me, but I felt older and felt the pressure of getting married. I did not know Ashley relationship status and even top of all that the girl herself had literally told me on two separate occasions by now that she could never be with me.

Even after everything I had studied and manifested, I still could not logically understand how this particular situation could be repaired. It genuinely felt impossible.

Regardless. Fuck that, I still knew anything was possible. lol

Early 2024: Finally going to the end

At the beginning of 2024, I decided I would no longer imagine texts, signs, conversations, dates, or any casual daydreams of being together.

Those were all middle events.

I knew what I actually wanted. I wanted to be happily married to Ashley, and I wanted our group friendships restored so that we could all remain close and grow older together.

So I created a scene set twenty years in the future.

In my imagination, I was sitting in Sherry and Shawn’s basement, where our group had often spent time together. I felt the couch underneath me and saw the room around us. Sherry looked at me with excitement and said something like:

“I can’t believe you and Ashley have been happily married for twenty years. You two are the definition of a true happy, healthy love. I’m so happy for you.”

I did not watch myself from a distance. I experienced the scene in the first person. I heard her voice, felt the couch, saw the room, and accepted that I was the man who had already been married to Ashley for decades celebrating an anniversary.

That scene implied much more than a wedding. It implied a lasting marriage, restored friendships, emotional security, maturity, and years of shared history.

I assumed this state in imagination, night after night.

Spring 2024: The bridge begins

Within a few weeks, Sherry unexpectedly became friendly with me again.

We resolved the tension between us and began rebuilding our friendship. Then she asked whether I was single.

I said yes.

She did not explain exactly why she wanted to know, but she said she hoped things worked out for me.

Around the same period, Ashley began appearing at the Sunday school more often and acting warmer toward me. I noticed the movement, but this time I did not want to chase every sign or force the bridge.

I remained focused on the end.

June 2024: The conversation I never could have arranged

In June 2024, I came home after a long day at work.

I was tired and was not thinking about Ashley or manifestation. My mom called me into the living room and asked me to sit down.

Then she asked, “Do you still like Ashley?”

I was shocked. My mom and I had not seriously discussed Ashley since our relationship years earlier. I asked why she was suddenly bringing her up.

She told me that Ashley’s mother had contacted her.

According to my mom, Ashley’s mother who was worried her daughter had recently started crying a lot recently and seemed quite sad. Her mother confronted Ashley about what's been going on with her and Ashley cried & confessed to her mother about how much she missed me, how she still loved me and has been in love for years, and how she felt that things between us had never worked out despite how strongly she felt.

Her mother did not want to continue watching her daughter remain heartbroken. She wanted to know whether I was single and whether I might consider speaking to Ashley again. So she called my mom.

The moment my mom told me that, I knew it was done.

I started dancing around the house. For years, I had tried to figure out how the situation could possibly be repaired. The bridge came through a conversation between our mothers that I never could have predicted or arranged myself. 

(Also side note: before this conversation with my mom. About a week before, I had strange dream of both of our mothers talking and looking at me. Premonition??!)

The End is your friend

The next day, our organization had its annual administrative meeting. Ashley and I were no longer young volunteers by this point. We had grown into adult members who helped manage parts of the organization.

During the meeting, I wrote “Hi” on a sticky note and passed it to her.

It was our first genuine interaction in a long time.

She smiled, wrote “Hi” back, and returned it.

It was a tiny moment, but it felt as though years of tension had dissolved.

That night, I called her and finally told her the truth. I said that I still had feelings for her and wanted to make it work with her.

She was overjoyed.

During that conversation, she told me the things I had wanted to hear for years. She said she had repeatedly wanted to get back together, but she kept hearing through mutual friends that I was dating someone else or the other throughout the years. Each time, she assumed I had moved on, and it broke her heart.

We finally discussed everything honestly. We talked about the original breakup in 2020, the failed reconciliation in 2022, the fear on both sides, the years of poor timing, and the other relationships that had happened in between.

Everything came full circle.

From that point forward, our relationship was completely different from the first time we dated. I was no longer the terrified man who could barely hold her hand. We communicated openly. We both felt secure. We are still a normal couple and have normal disagreements/arguments, but there is genuine love, maturity, and commitment between us.

Within about a year, I proposed and we got married!

We planned the wedding we had both dreamed of, surrounded by our families, friends, and community. It was large, beautiful, and more incredible than anything the insecure version of me entering his twenties in 2019 could have imagined.

The woman I once felt too intimidated even to approach became my wife.

One interesting thing I learned from her was that during end of 2023 and early 2024, she had been in a long distance relationship with another person, and although she didn't feel so great about him, he had tried to make things move fast and told his family to bring a marriage proposal to Ashley's family within just two months of them talking, and she was so broken about love not working out for her she reluctantly agreed. At the same time, right before she was going to tell her family about this guy. It was revealed to her that this guy was hiding a severe alcoholism problem and had been lying to her about several other things as well. She was furious with him and ended things immediately.

Early 2024 is also when I started my SATS anniversary scene - without having known about any of this. Crazyyyy.

It is truly wild to me that my unwillingness to make any sort of move myself, led to multiple other people being innately inspired to push for me and Ashley to be together.

One of my favorite Bollywood movie quotes growing up was “Kehte hain agar kisi cheez ko dil se chaho... toh poori kainaat usse tumse milane ki koshish mein lag jaati hai.” This translates to “They say that if you want something with all your heart, then the entire universe will begin to work together and to conspire to bring you together with that thing.”

I think the Neville version of it would be “They say, if you embrace a dream with the absolute intensity of your soul—and become one with the reality of its fulfillment—then this entire universe enters into a sacred conspiracy. It transforms your every step into a fated bridge of incidents; a path that may wind through many storms, but is bound by destiny to end only at your desired shores.”

What the journey taught me

The main lesson I took from this is not that one technique is more powerful than another. A technique is only a way of entering a state.

My first scene worked. I imagined Sherry congratulating me because Ashley and I were dating, and that is exactly what happened. But the scene was being imagined by an insecure man who still believed he could not sustain the relationship.

My final scene implied decades of marriage, deep love, restored friendships, emotional security, and a completely different identity.

The first time, I wanted Ashley to validate me.

The final time, I occupied the identity of her husband.

I also learned that I could not blame circumstances while claiming to be the creator of my experience. I could have blamed Ashley for ending our relationship. I could have blamed other men, our friends, family expectations, time, or the pain of our past.

But blaming those things would have kept me in the state of someone powerless before them.

This does not mean I believe other people should be controlled, blamed, or denied their humanity. It means that in my own experience, I had to take responsibility for the assumptions, reactions, and identity I repeatedly brought into the relationship.

There were several moments when the bridge brought Ashley directly to me and I still reacted from the old state. Those moments did not convince me that the Law had failed. They showed me exactly which version of myself I was still occupying.

So when people ask how to manifest a person, I do not think the most useful question is, “Which technique should I use?”

The better question is: Who are you in relation to this person?

Are you someone waiting to be chosen? Someone watching for signs? Someone checking whether another person is gone? Someone hoping for a text because that text would finally make you feel secure?

Or are you the person for whom a loving, mutual, secure relationship is already natural?

I spent years trying to obtain a woman while still identifying as someone incapable of keeping her.

Everything changed when I stopped trying to force the outer world and changed the person experiencing it.

I am not sharing this to suggest that anyone must wait five years. You never have to wait that long. Neville says himself, the season is ripe NOW for harvest. You do not have to wait long like I did. Most of my delay came from my own fear, hesitation, and failure to remain faithful to the end. The bridge brought us together more than once. I simply was not ready to receive what I said I wanted.

But even after the breakup, the failed reconciliation, 3rd parties, friend group drama, family pressure, and years of separation, the end still became real.

I married the woman I once felt too insecure to speak to.

And when I look back now, the greatest manifestation was not simply getting my specific-person.

It was becoming the man who could finally receive, love, and build a life with her.

“Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.” John 14:1-3

hey all, ik a lot of judgement is going to come from me making this post.

first of all, my belief is that people can change but not without change. im 20, young, dumb and naive. i gave in to temptation and cheated on the man i loved most. my man still loved me deeply at this point but i was abusive and horrible and our relationship started to disintegrate when i found out he had been cheating with my best friend (sexting) and he became resentful and disrespectful towards me.

for context, we are ldr (dating for 1.5 years but only met in real life 2 weeks ago, spending 14 days every moment together) .

this was when i went through the pain (crying everyday and having to take pills) and realised i do not want anyone else in this life but him. i changed 180 completely:

- i could now appreciate attractive people without the initial lust or desire

- completely felt committed in choosing my partner everyday

my anx*ety got even worse when i realised that he could be cheating on me with his girl best friend  (she made heart eyes towards him in every selfie they took and they hung out alone). he always claimed that she was 100% lesbian/

this was the 3rd that gave me the most anx*ety because he still has 2 years in school in a very small class with her and they are driving distance from each other. i checked his location all the time and paid those scam services to try and hack into his icloud etc lol.

the final blow came when i found out from his friends he had this summer bucket list with her including going camping and sharing a tent alone together. he denied all of this even when i had evidence and he got angry at me. 

this was when i discovered about manifestation and neville goddard's teachings (specifically through this channel "missy Renee"). i meditated whenever i could:

- gratefulness meditation in the morning

- SATS before sleep

- revision before sleep

nothing felt very forced for me because i did it mostly to get myself out of my depressive spirals and feel better.

this was when my partner turned a 180 as well when i became more distant (but still loving, just no longer desperately begging) and he apologised for everything (in specifics, which i used to beg him to do instead of vague apologies). he also noted that the summer list he planned for him and his girl best friend was inappropriate and that they never carried through with it and he would never do anything that made me uncomfortable.

it was great initially and i couldnt believe my eyes that neville's teachings worked. until... my anx*ety  came creeping back in again. soon, we were fighting everyday once more as i could not shake the feeling that he was still cheating behind my back.

eventually we hold it out long enough that we met in real life for the first time just 2 weeks ago (although we have been dating for 1.5 years ldr) - it was amazing and we were very loving towards each other.

one night, i caved to my anx*ety and checked his phone while he was asleep. i went through his photo album and text messages and saw their flirting messages from before i found nevilles teachings. she had sent him images of her post shower in a towel as well as in bikinis and selfies which he saved. this broke me and i instantly started screaming and crying at him, packing my things to leave the hotel we shared.

he started sobbing and shaking uncontrollably as well, begging me to stay and telling me he didn't tell me about it when he was apologising for everything because he wanted to move past it and didn't want our relationship that was going so well (after i found nevilles teachings) to be ruined with anx*ety all over again.

he also showed me his messages with her including where she would call him cutie and helping him monitor his blood sugar levels (they're both in nursing and he is disbetic)..

the point in time (after i discovered neville) where he told her they should set boundaries because it was upsetting me and she replies, "im okay if we change our relationship a little bit but i want to stay best friends with you forever".

i kept asking him to choose whoever made him happiest because i love him so much i am willing to let him go if it meant his happiness and he kept sobbing and couldn't even speak without shaking so he kept pointing at me.

this was day 4 of our 15 days trip and we carried on to be loving like nothing ever happened that night.

now as he is back in his country, my anx*ety has been creeping back in again and i know i desperately need to go back to my daily meditation practices ive been doing. he is still so loving to me, even brought my shirt back with him which he suffocates himself with and sleeps with (lol). he introduced me to all of his family and extended family as well as that we have a flight booked for me to see him again this december.

i guess this is a semi inspirational post? but also one where i want to ask those who manifested their partner in perhaps similar situations, what did u guys do when unsurprisingly, u get complacent and the anx*ety  creeps back in? i fear ill manifest my partner and lose them all over again because of this. please. help.

even writing this post felt so awful having to relive everything i saw in his phone and that he's going back to school in a week so he will be seeing her again for his classes.

although i trust him that he loves me again now, i cant help but feel so uneasy and suspicious of this girl. i genuinely dont know how to continue living in this anx*ety anymore.

Hi everyone, I’m a 24-year-old woman. I’ve been trying to manifest my ex back into my life since December 2025, but throughout this whole process, I haven't gotten any results. I really need your guidance.

I graduated from university last year and was looking for a job. I had already completed my mandatory internships, but I couldn't find the kind of job opportunity I wanted. Then I came across a long-term internship at a great company. I didn't really want another internship, but it felt like a junior position and was the exact title I was looking for. I was so happy working there, and I decided I was ready for a relationship.

Back then, without even knowing it, I was actually doing SATS. (I learned what it was in detail later when I researched Neville Goddard and all the techniques.) On days I came home exhausted from work, as I was falling asleep watching TV shows on my laptop, I always fell asleep with the feeling of having a boyfriend. Shortly after being completely sure about wanting this, I met someone who was doing the exact same internship title as me during the company's Away Day. Our company had other office locations for convenience, and since he usually worked at a different location instead of headquarters, that was our first face-to-face meeting. We fell for each other that very day, started talking right away, and became a couple within a week.

He wasn't my first boyfriend, but I had my first sexual experience with him. Everything was amazing for two months, but in the last week, our conversations stalled—it felt like he was forcing himself to talk to me. I went through days where I just wanted to die. I honestly don't know if I still love him, if I'm angry, or if I feel this way just because he was my first. I think like this from time to time, but then a moment comes and I feel deeply in love with him.

My long-term internship ended three months ago, and so did his. They didn't hire anyone full-time, so I ended up unemployed. I’ve been in a depression for the last two months, and my self-confidence is completely shattered in every aspect. I'm interviewing with so many places, but unfortunately, nothing leads to a final offer. Plus, unemployment in the software/tech sector has surged recently. Job hunting is my main focus right now, but I also want my ex back, and I just can't seem to focus on both at the same time.

During the last months of my internship, I was doing affirmations every single day about getting a full-time position at the company I was interning for. I truly believed they were going to hire me. When that didn't happen either, I fell into a deep depression—both because of my ex and because I couldn't get the job.

I used to believe in my manifest power and that I was very lucky, but after achieving nothing in recent months, I wanted to learn the techniques in detail again. What can you suggest to me? I mean, I’ve tried everything. I tried for the job and for my ex, but it feels like something is blocking me.

Any insights or perspective shifts would be deeply appreciated. Thank you so much!

Hey Reddit.

I was just wondering, if everyone is you pushed out and everyone is just reflecting your assumptions and your self concept..
how come some people who don‘t know about the law, are having a really toxic relationship and then meet someone new who‘s better and the relationship isn’t toxic at all?
shouldn’t the next person do the same or be toxic as well when they don’t change their self concept or assumptions?

i have a friend. she was stuck in a really toxic relationship with a guy who constantly cheated on her and even hit her. after 4 years she finally got rid of him and met her current boyfriend, who is treating her like a queen. they are together since 4 years and the relationship isn’t toxic at all. she doesn’t know about the law of assumption.

why is that?! has someone an answer for that?

So I imagined myself posting on this form many times. This week the most insane thing happened (but as we all already know everything is possible and circumstances don’t matter) so my sp and I haven’t seen each other in almost two years. With in those two years he liked a few photos but didn’t reach out and neither did I. Then one night I was out with friends and texts him (which is very unlike me). We spoke a bit this was in April of this year he seemed happy to hear from me and was very receptive. So I said we should like up for coffee he said yes but didn’t reach out. I didn’t let that deter me. I know this is my husband and nothing is going to change that. I kept living my life and started recently to detach. I worked on self concept and being thankful and present. Then on Friday I was at the airport and I saw a guy that looked like him. I said wow that guy looks like sp. I even joked to myself and said imagine that’s his brother. I was waiting for my friend at the airport lounge and in walks in SP. we hadn’t seen each other in two years. I started shaking I was so nervous. I told myself I have to say hi. I went to the bathroom got myself together snd tapped him on the shoulder. He looked up and i smiled. We caught up started talking and I could tell he was happy to see me. He was asking me a ton of questions and then his brother walked over. I introduced myself and told him I saw you and I thought you look like sp. He asked how we knew each other and I looked at sp and smiled and said how do we know each other. Sp said we are good friends I looked at his brother and laughed. He bother looked at me and said I get it. Sp had to go so he make a gesture for me to give him a hug I did and wished them safe travels. He then texted me and said it was great to see you!!! He said thank you and kept trying to keep the conversation going. I again said let’s meet soon for coffee or a drink. He said yes!!! So ladies don’t give up hope. You have know idea everything that had to take place for that to happen. The airport we met at is not he typical airport. We had to be there and traveling at the exact same time and in the same location or a big lounge. I hope this post inspires ppl to know that circumstances don’t matter. I will come back an report once we’ve gone our date, get engaged and married. I’m on cloud nine right now. I always told myself I would serve as a source of inspiration for people who knew they weren’t meant to settle so take this as your sign. Your desired reality is already here regardless is what the 3d is showing you.

Hello, I am writing to record a few examples of manifestation stories.
First of all, I am Korean, not a native English speaker. I have no problem reading in English, but writing takes a long time, so I will use translator. Therefore, I ask for your understanding even if the writing style feels a little awkward. Also, I’ve only read the Reddit post before and this is my first time actually writing it, so there may be parts that violate the rules.... Since I am a woman in my twenties, most of my interests lie in manifesting SPs, so the article I’m writing today will also be about SPs.Now everyone’s all ex-boyfriends, though.

**A story about my overall love life when I was in high school**

Although I am young, I have never failed in love. To be more precise, I have never failed to date the man I wanted. I recently realized that this was because, even before I knew anything about manifesting, I had already decided myself as an attractive person.

As one example, there is a love story with a senior I was in a club with in high school. Let's call him boyfriend number 1. The moment I saw Boyfriend 1, I fell in love at first sight, and I was captivated by the thought that I absolutely had to date him. However, boyfriend 1 had no interest in dating at all, his family was strict, and he had far too many close girls around him. It was overwhelming, but I defined myself as "the kind of person who fits him perfectly."
Because he was the serious and quiet type, I was certain that my bright personality would attract him **like a magnet**. What happened after that continued naturally. We ended up sitting next to each other during club activities (by coincidence), exchanged Instagram profiles, and our DMs went on all night, and he eventually confessed to me on my birthday! This entire series of events took less than a month. We dated like that for about a year, but my feelings cooled and we ended up breaking up.

The greatest lesson I learned from dating boyfriend number 1 was **my own confidence is my own attractiveness**. So even when I started liking another man (boyfriend 2) the following year, I often made good use of it. At that time, I knew absolutely nothing about genres like manifest or subliminal (as I will explain later, I only learned about them after breaking up with this boyfriend 2 and trying to get back together with him). So, I didn't know that my own consciousness could even change one’s appearance, I defined myself as “Even if I look ordinary, once men fall for me, they won’t look at anyone else.”

**Boyfriend 2** was generally quiet, eccentric, and didn’t have a very good reputation (his personality and behavior issues were somewhat serious). Also, since he had never dated anyone before, when I told everyone around me that I liked him, all my friends tried to stop me. However, I had no doubt that if he dates me, he would be an extremely kind person. I listened not only to affirmations but also to love songs—K-pop, J-pop, pop songs, and all kinds of music regardless of language—and I thought, “This is the story of me and him.” And I was excited and thrilled.

After the mid-term, I followed him on Insta and sent him a message. What I later found out was that he had another girl at the time whom he liked. I was **unintentionally living in a 4D where I was ignoring all 3D reality** and he had fallen in love with me. And it didn’t take long before he contacted me first. After about two weeks of contact, we started dating.

Contrary to my friends’ worries, he was incredibly sincere to me and kind. What really surprised me was that **he said something so very similar to my affirmation**. He sincerely told me that I was much prettier than the famous K-pop idol member! When I heard his words, my head throbbed.
manifesting is really exists!

But unlike my first relationship, I ended up becoming extremely attached to him. After we started dating, I found out that there was someone he liked, and I got so caught up in it that it even led me to break up. And because I liked my boyfriend so, so much, I wanted to get back together, so I foolishly tried contacting him, and I spent every day in despair. In the process, I came to know about Neville Godard and the law of attraction.

Let me tell you the result first.
**Manifesting with boyfriend 2 failed.**
Because I was living in the reality of never being able to reunite with him again, ever.
He blocked my messenger and number and was only following me back on Instagram, but he restricted me and didn’t saw my stories. I spent every day with a desperate heart. I practiced attraction by listening to the reunion frequency(in Korea, reunion frequency is more famous than subliminals), reading tarot cards, getting fortune-telling, buying rose quartz stones, crying and wailing, but all I could think about was, “He doesn’t love me anymore.” So he didn't came back(I don't want him anymore because I'm manifesting another ex bf right now)

Then, I started dating boyfriend number 3. But because I couldn’t forget boyfriend 2, I didn’t even date boyfriend 3 for a month. However, my assertion was still valid: “Even if I look ordinary, once men fall for me, they won’t look at anyone else”. Even in our short relationship of just over a month, boyfriend 3 still couldn’t forget me. A week after the breakup, I received from him a tearful, pleading call, but he only confirmed that my assertion was working.

The following year, I started dating boyfriend 4 who is younger than me. Actually, my boyfriend number 4 is exactly the reason why I'm writing this. Although several years have already passed, it was because I realized that my relationship with him was an incredible example of manifestation.

Before dating me, boyfriend 4 had a very noisy relationship with a girlfriend in the same grade as him... They talked about their love for each other every day on Instagram Stories, posts, and blogs, and they had actually been together for a very long time. However, even in a corner of my mind while looking at it, I kept thinking that boyfriend 4 seemed to like me.

Not long after boyfriend 4 ended things with his ex-girlfriend, we started contacting. I thought he liked me, so I told my friends, “I think boyfriend 4 likes me,” and eventually that even got into boyfriend 4’s ears. But boyfriend 4’s reaction was unexpected. It was a story posted in the close friend section of his secret Instagram account saying, “These days, I think there’s a senior who goes around saying I like her, but because I had a relationship with an older woman I was too hurt by before, I have no intention of dating a woman older than me”....!

I was so embarrassed. On what grounds did he think I liked him and go around talking about it...... But the embarrassment was short, and I decided to simply ignore that story. I’m thinking of a K-pop song with the lyrics, “Your heart wants me, and you didn’t even know that?” (I’m not sure if I can even mention the artist and the title...I don’t really know the Reddit rules) I walked for hours listening to. And I never stopped imagining him constantly contacting me. Later, I even chuckled softly imagining him clinging to me. It was several years after this that I realized that this walk I was taking was, in fact, an visualization.

Boyfriend 4, whom I thought I’d lost contact with, became stranger and stranger. He kept texting me first. From then on, messages asking to meet kept pouring in. He, who had said he had no intention of relationship with older girl, eventually confessed to me. He was truly devoted to me. And I heard that boyfriend 4 has always thought I was cute, and that he even said that in front of his ex-girlfriend, which led to a big fight with her. As you can see, you can even change the past by manifesting!
However, I couldn’t forget my boyfriend 2 even until the moment I graduated from high school, and I ended up breaking up with bf 4.

However, the effect of my affirmation continued to have an impact even after the separation. “Once men fall for me, they won’t look at anyone else.” I heard from a friend who was close to both my boyfriend 4 and me that my boyfriend 4, he still couldn’t forget me for eight months after the breakup.
According to that friend, boyfriend 4 said that **I was incredibly beautiful and that I was close to the ideal type he had dreamed of. I said that I looked beautiful in his eyes, to the point that no one else could be seen.**

That’s all for my high school love life.
If you have read this long text, you probably know that I had no idea at all about things like the Sabbath or SATS. The technique is not important at all. The only core things are confidence in myself and the sense that I already have the person I want.

Right now, I’m practicing manifesting to reunite with boyfriend 5. In fact, after we broke up, I even got contacted by him and almost got along, but ended up pushing him away again. Therefore, this writing was composed to remind myself of my previous successful manifestation cases. Even pulling my current ex will ultimately succeed.

Thank you. I wish everyone success.

I've been consciously manifesting my SP for around 2 months now using the Law of Assumption, and I wanted to share my progress because the movement has been pretty crazy.

For the first few weeks, I was mostly working on my self-concept and assuming that my SP loved me, wanted me, and was coming back into my life.

And then about 2 weeks ago, things actually started moving in the physical.

My SP came back and we started talking all day, every day. We were extremely flirty and lovey-dovey, basically acting like we were already together. He was clearly excited to see me after such a long time.

Then we actually met in person.

He was SO affectionate and loving. He ordered my favorite food, we spent quality time together, and honestly, the whole interaction felt like we were already a couple. At that point I genuinely thought, "Okay, this is happening. We're basically together."

But there was one issue I wanted to resolve before officially getting back together.

In our previous relationship, one of the things that made me extremely insecure was his habit of following female influencers on Instagram. It became a repeated source of conflict between us, and eventually contributed to the relationship falling apart. He also had a tendency to become emotionally unavailable whenever we had difficult conversations.

This time, I didn't want to just get him back and repeat the same relationship.

So on Thursday, I finally told him honestly how deeply that situation had hurt and disrespected me. I told him that I wanted things to be different this time and that I couldn't just pretend the previous issues hadn't happened.

And then...

He ghosted me.

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After two weeks of talking constantly, suddenly his communication dropped massively. It's been around 3 days now where he's barely messaging me.

And the funny/confusing part is that before this conversation, everything was going SO well. If I hadn't brought up the issue, I honestly feel like he would probably have asked me to be his girlfriend by now.

So obviously my first reaction was:

"Did I just ruin my manifestation?"

"Did I manifest the opposite?"

"Should I have kept my mouth shut?"

"Did I somehow recreate the old story where I open up and he withdraws?"

But after thinking about it through Neville's teachings, I'm choosing to see Thursday differently.

Instead of making his withdrawal mean "I lost him again," I'm choosing to see it as part of the bridge of incidents.

The old pattern was always:

I express my hurt → he withdraws → I become anxious → I chase/reassure → things get worse.

And this time I'm trying NOT to continue that story.

I'm assuming the end instead:

We're together. He loves me. He chooses me. He understands why I was hurt. He wants to make things right. Our relationship is secure, respectful and committed.

I don't know what is happening behind the scenes right now, and I'm trying not to figure out the "how."

I'm also working on the assumption that I am loved even when I express my feelings, rather than believing that I have to stay silent to keep someone.

So I'm currently choosing to believe:

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I'm not going to chase him or keep checking the 3D for evidence.

I'm going back to the end.

I'd love to hear from people who practice Neville/LOA:

Have you ever had something seemingly go "wrong" right before your manifestation fully came together? Did you interpret it as a bridge of incidents?

And especially—how do you deal with the urge to think "I should have done things differently" when you're in the middle of it?

I am manifesting that the guy I am seeing will become my husband. So i have been doing my SATs of us at a restaurant after getting engaged, just smiling at each other

We went on a trip to his hometown and we went to his all time favorite restaurant and it was the EXACT place that we went to in my SATs. He has never told me about this place nor did I know it even existed. We had an amazing dinner and a great trip.

My question is: Does this mean that I will go there after the engagement, or is it just coming true for the moment that we had? Where would you go from here after this kind of mini win?

I took it as a sign that i would go there after getting engaged. This is the first time I manifested a place, so I am shocked!

Hey guys! The day that id been awaiting for has finallly arrived.

My SP and I used to be exes then fwb and now we’re finally back together. This was a whole journey and even though it took a while, im grateful and wouldn’t have wanted it any other way. More than my SP, I learnt so much about myself and improved my SC which was the best thing to ever happen to me.

I just wanted to motivate all of you to keep persisting. There were days where I felt like giving up, I broke down and may have even reacted to my circumstances but I continued living in my identity regardless and simply made my own rules. It really works.

If any of you have any questions about anything at all, please feel free to comment below or send me a message.

Thank you to this community for being so informative and helpful. I hope I can give back too.

The moment I do any visualisation / meditation regarding SPs my 3D gets so much worse, like everything is going great, I visualise, and then I get ghosted (just happened today btw).

This has happened a lot of times, I either get ghosted or get the text: It's not you its me etc etc. and the worst thing is, it always happens after the highest point of the relationship forming. I've worked a lot on self concept lately and I genuinely have no clue why this happening.

Do circumstances truly not matter? I am moving to a new country soon and this girl I am sure really really fancies me but honestly I think she might not want to do long distance. I visualised her at my apartment on the new country but nothing has changed. The text message I never got is like what made me truly waiver, like why tf did I get ghosted when the previous day everything was rolling amazingly!

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She got the proposal and a ring on her finger + he travelled to Mumbai for her..

She was ghosted by him for months and I taught her all about nevilles teachings and made her read his work. She seemed stuck on self concept but I asked her to do better , be better , she even took some therapy and he travelled all the way from U.K to meet her parents in mumbai and they got enegaged within 6 month of all this.

This is a guy who was hot and cold and would not respond to texts for hours. From that to being desperate to marry her the tables turned for her. They do have their disagreements but yeah all it took was new assumptions + some Affirmations I have her randomly to change it all.

What she did - Affirmations & inner conversation and she started living her life and enjoying it. She actually stopped therapy because nevilles teachings helped her so much.

That's the beautiful part of it.

The sad part is I help everyone get results but somehow I am left without results. But no that's not going to stop me. Just wanted to share this story with you all. Since the success stories here really help me.

Keep going , read nevilles words. Don't give up. 🩷💌