u/allerav65

I have been pretty active on this subreddit for a while now. I have been manifesting my SP for 1.5 months now. Actually I have manifested him many times before. One time when he was my crush and then he became my bf and then we broke up (the circumstances seemed impossible for us to patch up) and then we came back together and then he broke up again and we came back together.

I realized between all the on and off of 5 yrs, I kept on manifesting him and I got him but then I lost him each time due to poor self concept. Tbh all the teachings that I have read here, everyone said have a strong self concept but each time I got him due to my desperation.

I always thought he and I were destined to be together but when he broke up with me in 2026, I felt hopeless and a loser for believing in his promises. He told me he needed to work on his future and i was stopping him as he couldn't commit. When I discovered manifestation I desperately started doing all the "methods" and none of them worked out. It's then I realized that I need to be happy from within and I started being happy and he came back as a good friend for 2 days. We talked all day long, shared everything that was in our hearts (not feelings, just how life has been for us) and then i told myself "he had to come back to me, I am his home" and it's been around a week he started ghosting me so much that I can't even tell.

I know he has his phone in his hand all the time but either he is seeing the msg after 48h or just leaving me on read or not reading my msg for weeks. Yesterday, I messaged him regarding something that has our memories and he left that on read and i genuinely felt very insulted. Why am I still behind this person who just doesn't care for me and looks for his own comfort? Who doesn't even give a shit about me? He might be in depression but that doesn't mean I don't have feelings? Even just reacting to a minor thing is too much for him?

So I just decided to give up on him. Tbh my circumstances this time didn't feel too harsh. There was no 3p no nothing just that he wanted to focus on his future without distraction. My goal was to make him see me as someone who would want to walk this path of him with him but I guess that ship has sailed and he really doesn't want me in his life. I have been crying since morning and decided to give up on manifesting him or even thinking about a future together.

I have been pretty active on this subreddit for a while now. I have been manifesting my SP for 1.5 months now. Actually I have manifested him many times before. One time when he was my crush and then he became my bf and then we broke up (the circumstances seemed impossible for us to patch up) and then we came back together and then he broke up again and we came back together.

I realized between all the on and off of 5 yrs, I kept on manifesting him and I got him but then I lost him each time due to poor self concept. Tbh all the teachings that I have read here, everyone said have a strong self concept but each time I got him due to my desperation.

I always thought he and I were destined to be together but when he broke up with me in 2026, I felt hopeless and a loser for believing in his promises. He told me he needed to work on his future and i was stopping him as he couldn't commit. When I discovered manifestation I desperately started doing all the "methods" and none of them worked out. It's then I realized that I need to be happy from within and I started being happy and he came back as a good friend for 2 days. We talked all day long, shared everything that was in our hearts (not feelings, just how life has been for us) and then i told myself "he had to come back to me, I am his home" and it's been around a week he started ghosting me so much that I can't even tell.

I know he has his phone in his hand all the time but either he is seeing the msg after 48h or just leaving me on read or not reading my msg for weeks. Yesterday, I messaged him regarding something that has our memories and he left that on read and i genuinely felt very insulted. Why am I still behind this person who just doesn't care for me and looks for his own comfort? Who doesn't even give a shit about me? He might be in depression but that doesn't mean I don't have feelings? Even just reacting to a minor thing is too much for him?

So I just decided to give up on him. Tbh my circumstances this time didn't feel too harsh. There was no 3p no nothing just that he wanted to focus on his future without distraction. My goal was to make him see me as someone who would want to walk this path of him with him but I guess that ship has sailed and he really doesn't want me in his life. I have been crying since morning and decided to give up on manifesting him or even thinking about a future together.

My sp is my ex and we have been on and off tighter for 5 yrs and every time we broke up it was because of my own thoughts and manifestations. So now as I became aware, i almost entered the "I don't care, he is mine" era. I started being happy and everything and one day out of the blue he started messaging me like we were never apart. He gave me the entire update of his life of the past 2 months and we kinda flirted. It went for 2 days and all i told myself is "he came back, of course he had to come back to his life (me)" but after that day he has ghosted me from everywhere. I tried contacting him but he is not seeing those msgs. I realized that I may have gone to my "desperate" self but now I have worked on my self concept and trying to be happy but still sometimes the 3D affects me and negative thoughts come like "has he realized he gave me hope?" "Did he think that he is returning to me which is exactly what he doesn't want?" I am trying to kill those thoughts but sometimes they do overpower me.

I would appreciate your guidance with this situation. I am still ghosted by him:)

My sp is my ex and we have been on and off tighter for 5 yrs and every time we broke up it was because of my own thoughts and manifestations. So now as I became aware, i almost entered the "I don't care, he is mine" era. I started being happy and everything and one day out of the blue he started messaging me like we were never apart. He gave me the entire update of his life of the past 2 months and we kinda flirted. It went for 2 days and all i told myself is "he came back, of course he had to come back to his life (me)" but after that day he has ghosted me from everywhere. I tried contacting him but he is not seeing those msgs. I realized that I may have gone to my "desperate" self but now I have worked on my self concept and trying to be happy but still sometimes the 3D affects me and negative thoughts come like "has he realized he gave me hope?" "Did he think that he is returning to me which is exactly what he doesn't want?" I am trying to kill those thoughts but sometimes they do overpower me.

I would appreciate your guidance with this situation. I am still ghosted by him:)

So, the thing is everybody talks about self concept. I myself always felt like I was just lucky and after knowing about everything, I realized that I was just manifesting those things all along.

But here comes the catch, i reconciled with my ex 3 times after "impossible" circumstances (ik nothing is impossible in LOA) but at that time I didn't know about anything. Not even about self concept, we broke up for the third time and this is my fault and now that I am trying to bring him back, I am studying about self concept and all. This raises a question: how was i able to manifest him if my self concept was shit all along?

I still don't know the answer but I was my sp and I am manifesting him.

Also I tried scripting and affirmations everything and i realized that I didn't feel natural, I have started doing SATs now.

So, I stumbled upon some posts for free tarot readings and I commented and got mixed replies to my questions. For example, I am getting a yes and a no from 2 different tarot readers for the same questions. So, I wanna ask everyone that do you believe in this?

I have been put in a very difficult and confusing situation with my SP. He and I have been together since 5 yrs but we have been on and off constantly. He broke up first with me in the start of our realtionship when we were only dating for 1.5 yrs and then he swear on not dating me and hating me but then, I now think that maybe I manifested him in my life as i was contsantly having the feeling that "we are not done yet" and he came back after 1.5 yrs and we dated and then he broke-up but again we came back together after 4 months away and everything was good and we were in love but then he started drifting away from me after 6 months and then again he started distancing himself and he again broke up. This thing hurts me but i still feel that "we are not done yet" but then i dont know if its the universe telling me to stop or what. I still want and manifest him but i feel like i am still holding onto a shadow. I dont know what to do but i am very disturbed right now.

I have started using the 3-6-9 and whisper method for my sp 6 days back. In the first 2 days, it felt like the method was working. I started getting one or two texts a day. But as soon as day 3 came, my sp was as good as gone. Even if I am texting first, it is not ignored for a day or left on read. I am doing the 3-6-9 method by writing the same affirmation thrice in the morning, 6 times in the afternoon and 9 times before going to bed. I am confused whether this method has failed or just testing my patience.

I have started using the 3-6-9 and whisper method for my sp 6 days back. In the first 2 days, it felt like the method was working. I started getting one or two texts a day. But as soon as day 3 came, my sp was as good as gone. Even if I am texting first, it is not ignored for a day or left on read. I am doing the 3-6-9 method by writing the same affirmation thrice in the morning, 6 times in the afternoon and 9 times before going to bed. I am confused whether this method has failed or just testing my patience.

I have started using the 3-6-9 and whisper method for my sp 6 days back. In the first 2 days, it felt like the method was working. I started getting one or two texts a day. But as soon as day 3 came, my sp was as good as gone. Even if I am texting first, it is not ignored for a day or left on read. I am doing the 3-6-9 method by writing the same affirmation thrice in the morning, 6 times in the afternoon and 9 times before going to bed. I am confused whether this method has failed or just testing my patience.

I am looking to adopt a cat. I live in Delhi and am looking to adopt a cat (my area doesn't have stray cats) and after my cat passed away my parents have been very depressed. I don't want to buy from a breeder, that's against my morals so if anyone from delhi-ncr knows anyone please do lemme know.

I lost my 2 month old Persian cat 2 days ago. It was adopted and was given by a close friend whose cat gave birth and unfortunately I lost my boy to FIP. My family is going through a hard time but we are thinking of getting another cat but we are scared of the attachment because this loss hurts us very much but we do miss the love and care my Akku gave me. I will never shop but I don't know whether I should adopt one more if I am getting the opportunity or not? I know no one can take my Akku's place in my life and he'll always be special and I think my next cat will just be a rebound. I am not sure whether I am scared of "losing" another pet or I am just scared that I'll never be able to give the love I had for Akku to anybody else:)

My Persian 2.5-month-old male cat just passed away due to FIP and I can't deal with this loss. I fought with my parents to have him in my house and today he left me and everybody and went to heaven.