u/Actual_Positive3443

hellooo guys I have a question, is detachment necessary for manifesting ?? I’m so confused, there’s like two whole different sides of the LOA community, one side is ‘all you have to do is decide it’s done, why keep persisting for something you already have?’ And then on the other side of the community, it’s ’you pick your desire and persist until it appears.’ So one side is I guess detachment and the other is the opposite. If you can understand where I’m getting at. I guess also bc I get rlly excited about my manifestations and find it hard to detach, can I just set a rule that I don’t have to detach ?? Thank youuu

haiiahiii this is my first ever post here but anyways

some context ,, there’s this guy and back when I had a crush on him that’s when I started getting into LOA right , but I didn’t really take it seriously, I would wavier a lot and be like ‘omg he doesn’t like me back’ whenever he’d do something but anyways like a month later I confessed my feelings to him right and yay he likes me back and yay we started dating yayyyy and also this is his first relationship ever like awe my baby but ANYWAYS .. 1 month in, we have our first fight and after that things kinda went downhill, for a week he was pulling away and when I brought it up it kinda caused an argument and I accidentally may have manifested our breakup bc the night it was happening I told myself ‘he’s going to break up with me’ bc of just a gut feeling and a fear I had, and the next morning I woke up, and yep he did … and currently our terms are blocked on everything, and no contact.

but anyways, when we broke up that’s when I started to pick up LOA again bc I’m tryna manifest my baby back right and for a like the first week or two, I was just heart broken letting myself feel but now within week three and four (currently on week 4 or 5 I think) I’ve locked in , I’ve stopped trying to look back into the old story, I let myself be sad and decided that him and I are back together

buttt there has been some issues too, around the start of week three, I saw some movement in the 3D. I noticed him looking at me from afar (we both have summer school) so that’s going on for like a week, and then I decide that I’m going to write him a letter. So I write him a very very long letter, over 3k words right and a week before hand giving him this letter and with the movement in the 3D, I kept affirming that ‘SP wants to get back together’, ‘SP misses me’, ‘SP loves me’ and even like ‘SP and I are in a healthy loving relationship’ and I even did a few scripts where I gave him the letter and he came back in those scripts and we got back together and talked things out, a week beforehand.

So then, I give him the letter and the 3D shows me the COMPLETE opposite , we talk and he’s like being super mean to me for some reason 😓😓 and basically what happened is that he made up his mind and doesn’t want to get back together.. because of some circumstances but anyways, I know circumstances do not matter but he js keeps saying the opposite and now again blocked and no contact …

And it completely threw me off, and now I’m js kinda stuck. Right now I’m still persisting and affirming + been working a lot on my self concept and whatever pedestal I had put him on, is completely gone because I am basically the god in my reality, and I feel much more confident in my manifestations, I always get what I want, I am the creator of my reality, and it feels like manifestation kinda clicked for me now but yeah now I js I don’t rlly know what to do 😓😓 it’s been a month now since we’ve broken up and just ugehhh . In the 4D I already decided that he’s mine, and we got back together but js waiting for the 3D to catch up I guess? I dunno. If anyone can help or have any tips or like try to help me see what I’m doing wrong it would mean a lot .. bc yes I am a master manifester. I always get what I want in my manifestations, I’ve manifested a lot of things like money, free stuff, things I want, a seat on the bus or like an outcome but it’s just with him like UGHEEHSHHHSH anyways thank you if you read all this ily ♡