u/soundofthedarkness

i’m applying erasmus for the first time, i was nominated by my uni for next semester and ive been so goddamn stressed out by being lost looking for information, trying to get my LA done, and things being so unpredictable and confusing because no one is leading me and i need more organization and predictably because i’m autistic but i’m just left so disorganized. i keep having meltdowns and i feel like i’m annoying the international offices with my questions and it makes me just want to give up because i can’t handle the stress. i submitted my OLA yesterday but based on the international office it seems to be wrong but they aren’t giving me the right answers and I have to get my OLA signed by friday. I’m so fucking lost, scared & stressed out.

currently the biggest problem is i can’t find free elective courses. idk where to look.

Hi! future erasmus student here. since it’s weekend and I can’t yet ask anyone else, I’d appreciate it so much if someone could tell me where I can find general elective subjects I can take as a sociology student. I’ve been looking at the online.uni-graz Courses page, i tried the filter for winter semester 2025 and winter semester 2026 and it seems like 2026 W has around 70 subjects while 2025 W has 500+, and i’m so confused. I assume not all are elective subjects and ok for sociology, but there aren’t filters for that, i’m so burnt out, confused and stressed. I would truly appreciate any help !!

Hi! future erasmus student here. since it’s weekend and I can’t yet ask anyone else, I’d appreciate it so much if someone could tell me where I can find general elective subjects I can take as a sociology student. I’ve been looking at the online.uni-graz Courses page, i tried the filter for winter semester 2025 and winter semester 2026 and it seems like 2026 W has around 70 subjects while 2025 W has 500+, and i’m so confused. I assume not all are elective subjects and ok for sociology, but there aren’t filters for that, i’m so burnt out, confused and stressed. I would truly appreciate any help !!

i dont know what to do.i’m a young adult female and last evening i started having incontinence, slightly leaking every few mins and it’s morning now, i haven’t yet slept and i’m still constantly peeing myself and my bladder(? or something else?) keeps burning. i feel like i’m gonna lose my mind and I don’t wanna see my GP because she was super ignorant when i said i suspected autism

i’m 22f MSN autistic who’s rarely had irl friends, i don’t have family (relatives have always been abusive, i’m the black sheep) or irl friends & I live alone with my furry son. i’ve always struggled with taking care of myself, i’ve been in autistic burnout since september and my executive dysfunction got even worse since so my flat is constantly a huge mess, i struggle to tidy and clean and when i do it looks terrible again 2 days later. i have severe sensory issues so going outside exchausts me but i have to go out every day to eat, go to multiple stores, do my laundry at a place with a w. machine but no dryer because my rented flat doesnt have a laundry machine or dryer. ever since in burnout ive been also struggling with brushing my teeth and personal hygene in general. all the visual overstumulation my messy flat gives me along with the other problems sometimes really makes it hard for me not to breakdown.

i’ve gotten pretty used to not having friends in more than a year but sometimes, especially when im outside it makes me depressed thinking that everyone always sees me alone and everyone around me seems to have someone.makes me wonder what im doing wrong

edit: furry cat, no i don’t have an actual child at 22 😭