u/spikyraccoon

Dear Ladies, I have seen this pattern repeated too often, so it needs to be said. Be more specific.

A lot of women describe their ideal guy as Mature, Caring, Sweet, Good Communicator, etc. etc..Problem is 99.99% of guys think they are all those things, even if they are the opposite.

That really tells guys nothing about who you are, and what specifically you are looking for in a guy in terms of their interests, hobbies, job, introvert/extrovert, location, their dreams, ambition etc.

This way you are only attracting the attention of guys who will message any random girl they can find on the internet.... And the guys who are looking for specific values and interests in a woman, will never message you as a result.

Don't need to put in crazy effort, just a little bit more. Thanks!

I was wondering about this recently.. He clearly wanted to normalize an inappropriate relationship between a Man and a child, and the world to accept him for who he is.

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But if the world was to magically accept his behaviour, and normalise marriage/relationship like that, how would that even work? If he were to officially marry one of the kids.. in a few years his "spouse" would no longer be a kid... And he would lose interest anyway.

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Did he just want to be an even grosser version of Leonardo Dicaprio.. while cycling through endless marriages, which ends the moment his "spouse" loses their innocence.. even if they still loved him?

Does this sound plausible or am I asking too much? I'll try to be direct here. I am Child Free. Non Smoker. Also an Atheist/Agnostic, working Remotely, making time for my hobbies like songwriting, movies, tv shows, composing, sports etc. when I can..

I would ideally want a relationship/marriage where 2 people can co-exist together blissfully as couple, best friends, flatmates and potential travel mates.

But it shouldn't be a Co-dependent relationship, as in always sharing rooms, bathrooms, making all plans around each other all the time, having to go along with each other's hobbies etc.

If someone wants to do something, or go someplace, that the other person doesn't want, they have all the blessings to do it with their friends or by themselves. Just because you are a couple doesn't mean doing everything together.

I know that's what most couples do, but it would be nice to find something that is against the norms. Is this something other couples do, or anyone else looking for?