▲ 5 r/slp

Would you quit?

I primarily work peds, but do some SNF PRN work. I had a pretty consistent gig due to a job vacancy, but the facility hired someone in Feb and didn't need me as frequently. I started a new PRN about a month ago and I kind of hate it.

It's a big rehab company with all kinds of branches and the branch my job is under supplies therapists to a VERY small (40 bed, not full) privately owned ALF/SNF in a rural area. I was told an SLP had been going between two buildings for about 6 weeks, but they would have her stop once I came on. I thought it would be a couple consistent hours a week if I needed it, which I do.

Well... turns out the expectation is that I travel there at roughly the same time at least 3 days a week and manage everything, no matter the caseload, big or small. It's not close either, but that part is on me. Anyway, the SLP mentioned to me was the FIRST SLP TO WORK IN THE BUILDING and that was only 6 weeks before I started. They have no SLP related systems in place because they have only been able to get OT in the building. No tests, no materials, no nothing. I was given a quarter of an old bottle of powder thickener & a prayer. With previous PRN positions, no matter what they needed, I could say yes/no to whatever I wanted but I drive to this place to fulfill anything from 0.5 to 8 treatment hours. If 5x a week sessions were indicated, I would be expected to come more often. I don't have access to thickener, straws, tongue depressors, nothing. I am not equipped to or interested in building them something from nothing as a PRN with 90% productivity expectations. I'm not doing in-services or educating building admin on why an SLP would need access to thickened liquids. I have never had a PRN position like this. I'm used to coming in on an odd weekend to cover a vacation or afternoon to cover a call out. I enjoy that, not being the sole provider in a place with no resources.

I feel guilty for wanting to leave because it's a poor, rural area and the residents are so sweet. I do need the money and will be hurting without it, but a PRN position should not be compelling me write a long ass reddit post. In hindsight, I feel like I should've realized what I was getting into but it didn't click until about week 2. I know the answer, but what would you do? Is PRN like this and I just didn't know?

TLDR; I want to quit my PRN position after a month because "as needed" was actually being needed multiple times a week, every week with no resources.

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u/sporks8 — 3 days ago
▲ 2 r/CPS

CPS not anonymous?

I disclosed some family issues (unrelated to me) to a therapist. They called CPS because they felt it was warranted based on what I said. The call was after hours so apparently it got transferred to the police. A case was opened because honestly it should’ve been. THEN the police released the phone call of the report to the family member in question.

What the hell???? This was an anonymous report out of concern & should NOT have been released to them….

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u/sporks8 — 22 days ago
▲ 16 r/wedding

DIY Flower Success Stories

Have any former brides successfully DIY’d their flowers? I got a pretty good quote from a florist, but the budget is climbing. I’m weighing whether it’s worth it to pay for the flowers to avoid the stress.

If you did DIY, how did you plan what to do? Where did you go? Ive seen the Trader Joe’s flower raids on tik tok. Would you go real or faux? I really don’t love faux but oh well. I’m getting married in early December so I don’t know what might be available or in season.

HELP!

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u/sporks8 — 1 month ago

Fairy lamp craze

I was buying fairy lamps last year to have a few for my wedding table scapes & thought they were so fun to search for. I’m still looking and the prices are INSANE! I don’t think I paid over $30 for large clear stars & bars. Am I crazy for thinking that $180 is wild for these two?

u/sporks8 — 2 months ago

My grandma gave me a ring a few years ago (pink stone w gold band). She gave each of her granddaughters a ring that my grandpa had gifted her after he passed when I was in HS. I have had the ring for over 10 years and rarely wear it. I don’t love the setting & I typically don’t wear gold. It’s also too large. I would LOVE to repurpose the stones into something I’d wear because it is so pretty & special.

My engagement ring (diamonds w silver band) will need a custom wedding band most likely, so I was considering having some of the stones from her ring made smaller & using them in a wedding band. I’d use the other in a necklace or something. Has anyone done something like this? I’ll speak to a jeweler but would love your thoughts too.

u/sporks8 — 2 months ago