uncomfortable sexual experience
so for context i’m 23F and this person was also female. we were sexting and it was going well then she asked to video call. i said i don’t really do that but would phone call her. she said yes so we’re on the phone and chatting and she sends me a video of a girl grinding on a pillow and said she wanted me to do that for her to watch.
i started doing the action even though ive never really liked that but was just talking to her about it, but she kept asking to see, saying it would be so hot etc. eventually i turned my camera on because i wanted to please her. whenever i stopped grinding she would say ‘keep going im so close’ so i did. then after like an hour of me trying to stop but her egging me on, cramping up, bleeding, i finally said i had to leave. she said we should make it a challenge to make her cum before i had to go. i felt trapped because it had already gone on so long so just kept going. then hung up pretty much as soon as she finished.
i felt very uncomfortable about the whole thing but i could’ve hung up or left at any time and just didn’t. so i don’t really know if this counts as anything except me being in an uncomfortable situation and i just need to learn to be more direct in my boundaries. would love some advice!