u/suchastarfxcker

not my photos, what kind of doll is this??

currently going through a lot at the moment. planning to make a big move across the country to wipe my slate clean. what do you see in me?

so this is a conflicting reading. what i get from it is that he still cares enough to check and now he’s trying to break free of maybe bitterness and resentment and/or break out of the habit of keeping an eye on my pages? idk what do yall think

i decided to step away after a severe lack of reciprocated effort. i understand life happens, but he always had time for me before and almost nothing has changed in his personal life.

from this i get that the pause (7oP) was what he wanted (9oc), but he still cares about me and hopes to come back together at some point (2oC)

what i get from this is that both of them will eventually lose the drive to continue overstaying their welcome in each other’s lives. so… yes.

what do yall think?

for some context, i decided to take some space away from this person after he decided to stop reciprocating the same amount of effort. when i told him im gonna take some time, it was a civil conversation. this was a connection where the lines between romantic and platonic were blurred. usually i can put 2 and 2 together and come up with my own interpretation, but this one really has me stumped. what do we think?

i recently confessed my romantic feelings to a friend of mine. he didn’t react negatively at all to my confession, but he didn’t exactly give me an idea of where he stands. our friendship used to have a lot of romantic undertones, we kind of used to act like a couple. right now, he’s exploring another connection with someone else. and from what i understand, it’s not looking too good. i either interpret this as

nine of cups rx, he’s not finding the fulfillment in the situation he’s in, seven of swords rx, and he’ll come clean about it, and then come towards me with the offer of the knight of cups. orrrr i am not his wish fulfilled, he’ll come clean about it to my emotional offer. what do you guys think?

for some context, i caught feelings for a friend and that friendship ended up turning sour. not because of the feelings, but because over time he started not reciprocating effort into the friendship.

eight of cups reversed, the tower upright, queen of swords upright and knight of wands upright as clarifier.

i think once i finally stop clinging onto hopes about this friend, walk away, let the tower fall and cut him off. my future lover with passionately come charging in.

how do you interpret this?

i held this friendship very near and dear to my heart. in the beginning, around november of last year, it was very intense with romantic undertones. everyone thought he was in love with me. lots of affection. we over did it, and became very codependent. from spending every second together, to spending every second we weren’t together on the phone. he initiated all of this mind you. about 2 months ago, he decided to set boundaries, which is reasonable. but the intensity in which he did so was so fast and it felt like i had been completely put on the back burner in his life. he stopped returning texts, stopped returning calls. he’s stopped telling me about what’s going on in his inner world. in the midst of all of this, we started a job together which was an idea we had at the peak of our codependency. i had my doubts about this, but i figured it could either make things better and more balanced, or cause him to push me even further away. it ended up making him push me even further away. he doesn’t contact me outside of work at all anymore. i brought this up and he immediately became super defensive, he started to raise his voice. which is not like the person i met. he used to be very sweet to me all the time. i don’t know what i did to make him build up so much resentment towards me. the other day when we decided we should go on our separate paths. i put in a request to transfer to a different location. he’s told me he’s going through something, and i can’t exactly pinpoint what it is. but all of this is really breaking my heart. do you guys think that we will reconcile and get back to a healthy friendship? or do you think this is dead in the water?

for some context, we’ve been in a really rough patch. he’s distanced himself quite a bit, won’t call or text often. and we’ve been arguing quite a bit. we agreed to get over ourselves and try to better the connection. but i’m not really seeing much effort on his end. i either interpret this as a decision to part ways or come back together. how do you interpret this?

the chariot reversed, two of cups reversed, page of swords upright and three of cups reversed as clarifier.

for some context, we used to be practically inseparable. over time, we’ve spent way less time together and every time we do hang out it seems like he’s generally disengaged and doesn’t really seem excited to be around me. i’ve also noticed he has a tendency recently to not really tell me about what’s going on in his life… so i’ve almost wondered if he’s giving someone else his time and social energy. to me, this reading confirms that.

i think with the chariot reversed he’s trying to steer this secret aimlessly and he’s starting to lose control of it, the two of cups points to a lack of honesty between the two of us and the page of swords he’s on high alert trying to guard his communication to make sure he’s not exposing the truth. three of cups reversed to me points immediately to a third party who he’s trying to keep underwraps. how do you all interpret this?