u/supersecrett9

gush: my friend that i’ve known for about 5 years now has been trying to set up me and this we will call him “I. I and me have tried to make things work for multiple times for over a year now and it just never worked out for a multiple for reasons, but recently he reached out to me a month ago and it has been the best month of my life. we started talking again on the 5th of last month and since then we’ve seen each other 3 times and had yesterday we had a our first kiss!! which actually was my first kiss ever :) he’s really been so sweet amazing and i honestly can’t believe we are where we are right now. encouragement: as i have been looking at a lot of these posts everyone seems kind of sad. i want you guys know do not get discouraged with your crush!! it will happen if its meant to be even if it takes time, even if your crush doesn’t like you right now, or even if it seems absolutely impossible. you never know what life has in store for you so just be patient and positive :)

now i know that everyone is thinking behind the screen that this is an obvious no, but let me give a little back story. recently when i was hanging out with my friend her brother tagged along he is 21. her brother happened to bring a friend along is also 21 lets call him “A”. so this happened a few more times and one day A followed me on instagram and we just started chatting. we started opening up our past struggles and what not and just kind of getting to know each other a little. a few days ago A confessed that he has a crush on me and tbh i don’t know how to feel. i’m not weirded out because it’s not like he’s a stranger he’s friend of friend, but i’m kind of shocked because i’ve only know him for a few weeks now. should i be concerned? if we were date do you think age gap is bad?