tips for coming out?
This is my first time posting on reddit so sorry if this is shitty. I am 14 years old and AFAB. And i have identified as a trans boy. for around a year maybe. and since I'm pretty young im pre everything and i don't even have a short haircut. i have come about to a lot of my friend as trans and many have supported me. but of Couse the main person i need to come out is my mom (my dad does not live with me so i wont even bother telling him.).i am from a VERY Slavic family and obviously a very internalized homophobia/ transphobia upbringing as my mom was raised in the USSR.
she had never openly said she hates queer people as she always states "why should i care? it doesn't effect me." and i don't really know how to take that. anyways as a example i was feeling very upset about my height and my mom noticed, i of course didn't not tell her the reason i was upset and she kept prying me about it because she thought i was getting bullied about my height or something similar (i was heavily bullied verbally in the past). since i was scared to tell her anything i just shutdown, she eventually just left me alone and i feel so guilty for not having the balls so tell her.
i'm just kind of looking for tips for coming out to her or anything similar. i just wanted to get this off my chest since idk where else to post this since i dont have anyone close to talk to this about.