u/sweetleaf009

Partner and ive been together for 15 years. She’s been struggling with depression most of her adult life and uses online to escape. Lately she’s been fixated on a band and found someone who also struggles with their own issues and has the same fixations on the band. So they both talk to each other like theyre members of the band and form relationships out of them. Recently she told me she actually has feelings for the other person and wants to plan a trip to meet up in person. She tells me life is short but doesn’t know what the vibe will be when they meet. I really dont wanna give up on us and view this as her mid life crisis of some sort but everything else tells me i should end it.
Btw she is my first everything and we havent been intimate in years