Does the goal post keep moving?

Every time you achieve your goal, do we always target the next goal?

I started working in 2020, and at that time, it used to feel like 2-3Cr is more than enough to not particularly worry about money. Fast forward to today, at 27, I'm at roughly 4.7Cr. My current target seems to be 1M USD, no particular reason but I just want to reach it soon.

My current thought process goes like - I've been lucky to reach this number at this age, I shouldn't pause and invest more aggressively to accelerate to actually give myself a big boost. At the same time, idk how software engineering jobs are going to evolve as well and whether I'd be paid the same or how relevant the roles will be in few years. That uncertainty makes me wonder if I should start building something on the sid, maybe a small business that could eventually become another source of income or, ideally, something much bigger.

The problem is, I have absolutely no idea where to start.

Would love to hear from people who have been through this

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u/techVestor1 — 22 hours ago

27 M Tamil | Bangalore

27M | Looking for someone I genuinely connect with, who is also living in the same city

Working in tech, balancing gym sessions with an unhealthy ability to say yes to good food. Big on staying fit, but equally serious about finding the best cafes, desserts, and late-night food spots.

I enjoy playing badminton, dancing, spontaneous plans, and conversations that go from meaningful to completely chaotic in minutes. I'm usually the person who'll say yes to trying something new, whether that's a hidden food spot, a random activity, or an unplanned drive just because the weather feels right.

I also love travelling, whether it's quick weekend getaways, long drives with good music, or exploring new places and trying local food. Some of my favourite memories are built around simple moments: laughing over inside jokes, sharing playlists, getting lost in new cities, or ending the day with chai and a good conversation.

I am genuinely invested in the people I care about. I value honesty, consistency, kindness, and being able to communicate openly, especially when things aren't perfect.

Looking for someone extroverted, fun to be around, and emotionally mature, someone who can be a best friend first, where the connection feels easy and natural. Someone who enjoys both exciting adventures and quiet everyday moments, and isn't afraid to be themselves.

At the end of the day, I'm just hoping to meet someone I can genuinely vibe with and look forward to talking to every day. I appreciate people who are good communicators, emotionally aware, and can make even simple moments feel memorable.

If this sounds like your kind of energy, send a message :)

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u/techVestor1 — 6 days ago

27 M Tamil

27M | Looking for someone I genuinely connect with, who is also living in the same city

Working in tech, balancing gym sessions with an unhealthy ability to say yes to good food. Big on staying fit, but equally serious about finding the best cafes, desserts, and late-night food spots.

I enjoy playing badminton, dancing, spontaneous plans, and conversations that go from meaningful to completely chaotic in minutes. I'm usually the person who'll say yes to trying something new, whether that's a hidden food spot, a random activity, or an unplanned drive just because the weather feels right.

I also love travelling, whether it's quick weekend getaways, long drives with good music, or exploring new places and trying local food. Some of my favourite memories are built around simple moments: laughing over inside jokes, sharing playlists, getting lost in new cities, or ending the day with chai and a good conversation.

I am genuinely invested in the people I care about. I value honesty, consistency, kindness, and being able to communicate openly, especially when things aren't perfect.

Looking for someone extroverted, fun to be around, and emotionally mature, someone who can be a best friend first, where the connection feels easy and natural. Someone who enjoys both exciting adventures and quiet everyday moments, and isn't afraid to be themselves.

At the end of the day, I'm just hoping to meet someone I can genuinely vibe with and look forward to talking to every day. I appreciate people who are good communicators, emotionally aware, and can make even simple moments feel memorable.

If this sounds like your kind of energy, send a message :)

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u/techVestor1 — 7 days ago

Plot investments in North Bangalore

What are good options to consider for plot investment in Bangalore? I've been to IVC road and am not interested in the ones there.

Any other projects where the scope to grow is still there?

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u/techVestor1 — 7 days ago

AM apps not working

Been in the AM apps since 1.5 years. I've met face to face 0 matches so far.

I'm 27 M Tamil and make close to 80-100 LPA. For some reason, it's become so difficult to get matches from cities like Chennai or Bangalore. Most of my matches are from tier 2 cities and the phone call conversations have not been great or haven't proceeded ahead.

I'm not thrilled by the majority of the profiles I see in AM apps. I tell myself that I just need to find just one person and it'll happen eventually. Should I lower my expectations?

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u/techVestor1 — 7 days ago

27 M Bangalore

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27M | Looking for someone I genuinely connect with, who is also living in the same city

Working in tech, balancing gym sessions with an unhealthy ability to say yes to good food. Big on staying fit, but equally serious about finding the best cafes, desserts, and late-night food spots.

I enjoy playing badminton, dancing, spontaneous plans, and conversations that go from meaningful to completely chaotic in minutes. I'm usually the person who'll say yes to trying something new, whether that's a hidden food spot, a random activity, or an unplanned drive just because the weather feels right.

I also love travelling, whether it's quick weekend getaways, long drives with good music, or exploring new places and trying local food. Some of my favourite memories are built around simple moments: laughing over inside jokes, sharing playlists, getting lost in new cities, or ending the day with chai and a good conversation.

I am genuinely invested in the people I care about. I value honesty, consistency, kindness, and being able to communicate openly, especially when things aren't perfect.

Looking for someone extroverted, fun to be around, and emotionally mature, someone who can be a best friend first, where the connection feels easy and natural. Someone who enjoys both exciting adventures and quiet everyday moments, and isn't afraid to be themselves.

At the end of the day, I'm just hoping to meet someone I can genuinely vibe with and look forward to talking to every day. I appreciate people who are good communicators, emotionally aware, and can make even simple moments feel memorable.

If this sounds like your kind of energy, send a message :)

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u/techVestor1 — 19 days ago

"AI is a bubble, pls don't invest"

If you were like these people or listened to these people, you wouldn't get to see these returns.

u/techVestor1 — 21 days ago

Is magnus burgundy worth it for non high spenders?

Been a burgundy customer for 4+ years. Have infinia, premier. Is it worth getting m4b? Especially since their fees is so high?

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u/techVestor1 — 1 month ago

How do you carry on?

People who have been at this for over a year, how do you carry on? Isn't it exhausting in some way?

There's just way too many variables for things to not work - horoscope, financial situation, etc etc.

The last match we got, the family rejected us because we didn't have enough assets. Some how it feels like your worth is just tied to you owning lot of real estate 😒. It's not like we're poor either. I myself have a networth of over 4 crores at 27 and my family networth is even higher.

Feeling so drained of this. Should I just consider this as something going on the sides and just focus on my work and usual life?

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u/techVestor1 — 1 month ago

27M Bangalore

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27M | Looking for someone I genuinely connect with, who is also living in the same city

Working in tech, balancing gym sessions with an unhealthy ability to say yes to good food. Big on staying fit, but equally serious about finding the best cafes, desserts, and late-night food spots.

I enjoy playing badminton, dancing, spontaneous plans, and conversations that go from meaningful to completely chaotic in minutes. I'm usually the person who'll say yes to trying something new, whether that's a hidden food spot, a random activity, or an unplanned drive just because the weather feels right.

I also love travelling, whether it's quick weekend getaways, long drives with good music, or exploring new places and trying local food. Some of my favourite memories are built around simple moments: laughing over inside jokes, sharing playlists, getting lost in new cities, or ending the day with chai and a good conversation.

I am genuinely invested in the people I care about. I value honesty, consistency, kindness, and being able to communicate openly, especially when things aren't perfect.

Looking for someone extroverted, fun to be around, and emotionally mature, someone who can be a best friend first, where the connection feels easy and natural. Someone who enjoys both exciting adventures and quiet everyday moments, and isn't afraid to be themselves.

At the end of the day, I'm just hoping to meet someone I can genuinely vibe with and look forward to talking to every day. I appreciate people who are good communicators, emotionally aware, and can make even simple moments feel memorable.

If this sounds like your kind of energy, send a message :)

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u/techVestor1 — 2 months ago

27M Bangalore

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27M | Looking for someone I genuinely connect with, who is also living in the same city

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Working in tech, balancing gym sessions with an unhealthy ability to say yes to good food. Big on staying fit, but equally serious about finding the best cafes, desserts, and late-night food spots.

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I enjoy playing badminton, dancing, spontaneous plans, and conversations that go from meaningful to completely chaotic in minutes. I'm usually the person who'll say yes to trying something new, whether that's a hidden food spot, a random activity, or an unplanned drive just because the weather feels right.

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I also love travelling, whether it's quick weekend getaways, long drives with good music, or exploring new places and trying local food. Some of my favourite memories are built around simple moments: laughing over inside jokes, sharing playlists, getting lost in new cities, or ending the day with chai and a good conversation.

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I am genuinely invested in the people I care about. I value honesty, consistency, kindness, and being able to communicate openly, especially when things aren't perfect.

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​

Looking for someone extroverted, fun to be around, and emotionally mature, someone who can be a best friend first, where the connection feels easy and natural. Someone who enjoys both exciting adventures and quiet everyday moments, and isn't afraid to be themselves.

​

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At the end of the day, I'm just hoping to meet someone I can genuinely vibe with and look forward to talking to every day. I appreciate people who are good communicators, emotionally aware, and can make even simple moments feel memorable.

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If this sounds like your kind of energy, send a message :)

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u/techVestor1 — 2 months ago

27M Bangalore

27M | Looking for someone I genuinely connect with.

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Working in tech, balancing gym sessions with an unhealthy ability to say yes to good food. Big on staying fit, but equally serious about finding the best cafes, desserts, and late-night food spots.

​

I enjoy playing badminton, dancing, spontaneous plans, and conversations that go from meaningful to completely chaotic in minutes. I'm usually the person who'll say yes to trying something new, whether that's a hidden food spot, a random activity, or an unplanned drive just because the weather feels right.

​

I also love travelling, whether it's quick weekend getaways, long drives with good music, or exploring new places and trying local food. Some of my favourite memories are built around simple moments: laughing over inside jokes, sharing playlists, getting lost in new cities, or ending the day with chai and a good conversation.

​

I am genuinely invested in the people I care about. I value honesty, consistency, kindness, and being able to communicate openly, especially when things aren't perfect.

​

Looking for someone extroverted, fun to be around, and emotionally mature, someone who can be a best friend first, where the connection feels easy and natural. Someone who enjoys both exciting adventures and quiet everyday moments, and isn't afraid to be themselves.

​

At the end of the day, I'm just hoping to meet someone I can genuinely vibe with and look forward to talking to every day. I appreciate people who are good communicators, emotionally aware, and can make even simple moments feel memorable.

​

If this sounds like your kind of energy, send a message :)

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u/techVestor1 — 2 months ago

Simple blue chip investing

Yes, Indian market hasn't given any returns in last 2 years. But the gains over 5 years does help worry less. So instead of stopping your SIPs or withdrawing money, try to zoom out and look for a long term view. Pay for good valuations

u/techVestor1 — 2 months ago

27M Bangalore

27M | Looking for someone I genuinely connect with.

Working in tech, balancing gym sessions with an unhealthy ability to say yes to good food. Big on staying fit, but equally serious about finding the best cafes, desserts, and late-night food spots.

I enjoy playing badminton, dancing, spontaneous plans, and conversations that go from meaningful to completely chaotic in minutes.

I'm also someone who loves travelling, whether it’s quick weekend getaways, long drives with good music, or exploring new places and trying local food.

Looking for someone extroverted, fun to be around, and emotionally mature, someone who can be a best friend first, where the connection feels easy and natural.

Just hoping to meet someone I can genuinely vibe with and look forward to talking to every day. I appreciate people who are good communicators, emotionally aware, and can make even simple moments feel memorable.

If this sounds like your kind of energy, send a message :)

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u/techVestor1 — 3 months ago