A hospital visit reminded me how much our presence matters.
So emaindhante my bestfriend's father was admitted in hospital in a very critical condition in the last week, and doctors suggested operation. I wanted to visit her but she didn't let me coz few relatives cameover. 6+yrs of friendship madhi.
Operation aipoindhi, and 2 days ki conscious loki ocharu, and after family, he asked about me anta 🥹 let my name be Z.
Uncle: Z nannu chuddaniki na kosam osthadha?
My friend: ostadi nanna kani tanaki office undhi
Uncle: avuna, sare selavu unnappudu rammanu, chudalani undhi.
She has few other close frnds also, but Uncle vallevarni adagaledu(3days back adigaru), and she told me this yesterday night, I was like enduku intha lag mundhe cheppochuga ani.
And i went today mrng, met her and kasepu aunty tho maatlada and then I visited Uncle, expect cheyaledhanta nannu, his expression spoke more than words😭.
Uncle: aree nanna nuvva, nakosam occhava!
Me: mi kosam rakunda untana, aina enti miru cheppina maata vinatledhanta
Uncle: vinaledhu ra anduke ila aipoya
Me: sare poni odileyandi, ippudu vinandi, enchakka ach vellipodhamm, emantaru
Uncle: sare veldham
It was my first time like past 5yrs lo seeing someone in icu- telsu kadha akkada em em untayo, ah hadividi, konchem bhayamesindi. And nenu inka konni words tho dhairyam cheppa Uncle ki, and then he asked me how I'm, my job, my life.
Ala kasepu matladaka inka ma frnd adigindi, happy ah- first time tanu nakosam rakunda ni kosam ochindi ani, Uncle was like- haa, ma Mahalakshmi ni chusesaga, inka nakem ani annaru🥹, when we went inside initially BP 180-190 undhi, and during the convo it dropped to 120-130, I was very happy seeing that.
and then I took promise from Uncle, that inkeppudu smoke cheyaru ani( This was the main reason behind the sickness) and naku promise chesaru- but one exception, okkasari oka 2 ma frnd pellilo anta, I agreed. So appativaraku I was holding back my tears even though I'm talking, maybe notice chesinattunaru.
Inka jokes vesaru konni, general ga kuda chala chill untaru, and I finally laughed! inka ma frnd ki cheparu, ikkada daggarlo paradise biryani baguntadi- vellandi or order petkondi ani, tanu sare andhi, and Uncle annaru nen malli adugutha tanani tarvatha tindho ledho. Ma frnd- " sare biryani eh tintadi, entha kavalante antha"😂.
And then uncle ki konni jagrathalu cheppesi, blessing tiskoni ochesa and biryani tinnam😅 and then again spent some time with aunty and while leaving I gave her a tight hug.
So naku ardam aindhi entante, not just based on one situation, but our loved ones presence matters a lot, entha costly hospital ayina, treatment aina avvochu but some parts are really healed by ppl, and life lo entha low lo or worst phase lo unna kuda, arey em kadha ra antha set avtadi- mem unnam, you can do this ani dhairyam cheppe vallu chalu 🤍.