A hospital visit reminded me how much our presence matters.

So emaindhante my bestfriend's father was admitted in hospital in a very critical condition in the last week, and doctors suggested operation. I wanted to visit her but she didn't let me coz few relatives cameover. 6+yrs of friendship madhi.

Operation aipoindhi, and 2 days ki conscious loki ocharu, and after family, he asked about me anta 🥹 let my name be Z.

Uncle: Z nannu chuddaniki na kosam osthadha?

My friend: ostadi nanna kani tanaki office undhi

Uncle: avuna, sare selavu unnappudu rammanu, chudalani undhi.

She has few other close frnds also, but Uncle vallevarni adagaledu(3days back adigaru), and she told me this yesterday night, I was like enduku intha lag mundhe cheppochuga ani.

And i went today mrng, met her and kasepu aunty tho maatlada and then I visited Uncle, expect cheyaledhanta nannu, his expression spoke more than words😭.

Uncle: aree nanna nuvva, nakosam occhava!

Me: mi kosam rakunda untana, aina enti miru cheppina maata vinatledhanta

Uncle: vinaledhu ra anduke ila aipoya

Me: sare poni odileyandi, ippudu vinandi, enchakka ach vellipodhamm, emantaru

Uncle: sare veldham

It was my first time like past 5yrs lo seeing someone in icu- telsu kadha akkada em em untayo, ah hadividi, konchem bhayamesindi. And nenu inka konni words tho dhairyam cheppa Uncle ki, and then he asked me how I'm, my job, my life.

Ala kasepu matladaka inka ma frnd adigindi, happy ah- first time tanu nakosam rakunda ni kosam ochindi ani, Uncle was like- haa, ma Mahalakshmi ni chusesaga, inka nakem ani annaru🥹, when we went inside initially BP 180-190 undhi, and during the convo it dropped to 120-130, I was very happy seeing that.

and then I took promise from Uncle, that inkeppudu smoke cheyaru ani( This was the main reason behind the sickness) and naku promise chesaru- but one exception, okkasari oka 2 ma frnd pellilo anta, I agreed. So appativaraku I was holding back my tears even though I'm talking, maybe notice chesinattunaru.

Inka jokes vesaru konni, general ga kuda chala chill untaru, and I finally laughed! inka ma frnd ki cheparu, ikkada daggarlo paradise biryani baguntadi- vellandi or order petkondi ani, tanu sare andhi, and Uncle annaru nen malli adugutha tanani tarvatha tindho ledho. Ma frnd- " sare biryani eh tintadi, entha kavalante antha"😂.

And then uncle ki konni jagrathalu cheppesi, blessing tiskoni ochesa and biryani tinnam😅 and then again spent some time with aunty and while leaving I gave her a tight hug.

So naku ardam aindhi entante, not just based on one situation, but our loved ones presence matters a lot, entha costly hospital ayina, treatment aina avvochu but some parts are really healed by ppl, and life lo entha low lo or worst phase lo unna kuda, arey em kadha ra antha set avtadi- mem unnam, you can do this ani dhairyam cheppe vallu chalu 🤍.

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u/the_introvert_girl_ — 23 hours ago
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Sbl sep 26, need guidance

Hey all, my last skill paper was fm so after that I gave afm and passed it, so afm is my first P-level paper and now I'm planning for sbl. I'm thinking to rely on hassan's top 25 videos and then qstn practice using kaplan kit, but I'm confused about some mixed reviews that i read. Should I look for tutor or if it's a self study, what are some of the free resources that are available ?

Would appreciate any insights :)

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u/the_introvert_girl_ — 28 days ago

Varsham lo icecream

so mana hyd lo ipudu varsham padtundhi kadha, just adhi start ayye few mins mundhe it was cloudy and i went to shop ice-cream konukundham ani, ante bayata weather chudakmundhe anukunna ice-cream ani, i bought a cone, i didn't knew it was cloudy outside bcoz I was busy watching movie.

Inka konukkuni return ochetappudu mellaga varsham start aindhi, na wishlist lo eppatnuncho undi rain lo tadusthu ice-cream tinalani, and ee madhya ante oka past 2-3yrs nunchi anthala em tadavaledhu rain lo, either unexpected ga tadavadam or umbrella marchipodam ala aindhi thappa, voluntarily avvaledhu.

So I decided, today is the day ani and i went to terrace, starting konchem takkuva padindi rain inka prashantham ga okkokka bite tintuna, ala 5mins ki all of a sudden full ga padindhi inka, and I was laughing like crazy (Chandramukhi movie lo Ganga jewelery chupistunna scene untadhi ga, same ala) oka pakka ice cream karigipotundhi ani inka konchem speed ga tinna and terrace kabatti foot daggara water ochay and I was playing like a lil kid, ivanni simultaneously gane chesa😂

I didn't care about my surroundings or evaraina chusthunara ani kuda dekhaledhu, I was just living in my moment🤍 roaming here and there.

Nalaga varsham lo ice-cream tinevallu inkevaraina unnara😁 and how do you enjoy rain?

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u/the_introvert_girl_ — 30 days ago

Iceapple tinalani undhi🥲

Edoka gola lo padi, oka problem tarvatha inkoti face chesi solve cheskuntuu peak summer aipoindi, april and may. Village lo undunte edhi ante adhi, yeppudu kavalante appudu ochesevi, ikkada edhi kavalanna ekkada undho vethukkoni poyi techukovali🥲.

Ippudu konchem space dorakadam vallo emo, cravings start ayyay😆 Gachibowli lo or nearby lo ekkadaina dorukuthayemo cheppandayya🥲

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u/the_introvert_girl_ — 1 month ago

Urgent: Credit cards misused after clicking a malicious link!

Emaindhante my father received a call from a person yesterday mrng at 11am stating that punjab national bank employee ani and he offered credit card with few benefits and registration ki link share chestham ani whatsapp lo inkoka number nunchi pampinchadu. Work lo undadam valla ma father without thinking much, clicked on link and it's a malware.

My father is in another state, work pani midha and i didn't knew this until 2hrs( i knew all of this at 1pm), so ah link click cheyagane 2 apk files download ayyay anta and otps generate ayyay one by one, total 4 credit cards unay ma father ki and the scammer tried to use all of them. Axis card nunchi transfer possible aindi, so the scammer transferred 50k and adhi limit aipoindi and he went to other cards- vatitho only merchant payments avthay, so using otps he logged into amazon, flip kart, bigbasket and instamart.

And ee logins avthunapudu eelopu ma father cards block cheyadam start chesaru, meanwhile the scammer ordered 6 iphones from bigbasket and 6 ipads from instamart. And then my father called me and cheparu ila orders place ayyay ani, first ah apks uninstall cheyinchi and then I logged into bigbasket and instamart and cancelled orders, max anni chesesa but oka iphone and ipad deliver aipoyay appatike. I could see the receiver's details there, I've saved them and instamart was unresponsive and bigbasket vallaki motham explain chesthe IMEI number icharu iPhone dhi. Almost 4 lakes worth order pettadu, timely cancellation valla it came down to 1lakh, and remaining 3 lakh ki refunds pettam.

And then I logged into my dad's account, checked bank accounts, there were very low balances since most of the amounts are in investments, thankfully vadu avi kelakaledhu. And I gathered all the proofs of fraud and registered a case in cybercrime portal, passwords anni change cheyinchi mobile reset chesam ninna ney. I had a very important exam today, couldn't let it go, so ivala em cheyaledhu, now I'm writing this post here.

Repu station ki velli, already case register aindi cyber crime portal lo kabatti ah copy and transactions &frauds proof anni gather chesi oka letter rasi submit chedham anukuntuna. And evng ah cybercrime vallu msg chesaru oka num ichi further vallani contact avvamani, call chesthe repu rammannaru, anni submit chesthe FIR register chestham annaru.

Idk all this processes, but ah FIR copies banks ki ichi report chedham anukuntunam repu, not sure about that Iphone and Ipad, ah IMEI numbers and receiver details tho vallani track cheyocha? Orders place cheyadaniki login ayina places Bihar and Jharkhand and order deliver aindi Bengaluru lo.

If ivanni details ichesthe police followup chesthara? What should I do next? As my father is bit old and health issues valla, I don't want to stress him much, nen chuskunta ani cheppa, pls drop your suggestions em cheyalo, it will be really helpful.

TLDR:My father clicked a malicious link, malware was installed, ₹5.5 lakh was charged across 4 banks, including multiple orders of iphones and ipads.We froze accounts, filed cybercrime complaint, traced delivery addresses and recipient details, looking for recovery and legal advice.

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u/the_introvert_girl_ — 1 month ago

Need Help Obtaining Experience Letter from Deloitte

I've resigned last month and my f&f is not done yet, so i didn't receive my experience letter, but my new employer is asking for experience letter for background verification. I don't have any HR contact, as I've joined as campus hire last year and all the emails were from deloitte itself. I've tried calling 2222 aswell, but the call keeps getting disconnected midway.

Would appreciate any suggestions on how to proceed further.

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u/the_introvert_girl_ — 1 month ago

Nakkuda oka brother unte bagundu

Emaindhante Sunday kabatti ala groceries shopping ki vella, urke evarpotharu ani month ki sariponu okatesari konesa💀. The thing is vatini billing counter nunchi bayataki tevali, bayata scooty park chesundhi, avemo full weight unnay, konni konni tiskellochuga ani miru anukocchu, motham anni 2 bags lo esesi icharu, and both are heavy.

Idi ela ani alochinche gap lo, iddaru siblings kanipincharu- akka tammudu, gattigane shopping chesaru, vallavi 3 bags ayyay 2 big okati medium bag, aite ah tammudu ah heavy unna 2 tiskoni ah medium dhi akka ki ichadu, ala exit varaku velli, edo marchipoyaru anukunta ah akka venakki ochindi ah 3rd bag kuda ichesi, em kontaro anukunna, kinderjoy tiskunaru🫢( na type eeh), adhi bill cheskoni velletappudu papam ah tammudu ah bag ichina minimum kuda dekale😂, ah kinderjoy patkoni vellipoindi, papam ah tammudu oka sigh ichi mosukuntu vellipoyadu.

Ipudedo ila vallu kanipinchaaru ani kadhu, general ga kuda chala sarlu anipinchindi, nenu single child, so friends valla bro's gurinchi cheppinappudu somehow I feel sad, a part of me wants to experience those silly fights, ah protectiveness, ah sharinguu-caringuu abbo chalane undhi le. relatives lo untaru le kani enthaina ah distance untadhi kadha, inka bayata antara accha telugu lo annaya/tammudu anadam pakkana pedte, maatavarasaki bro ante kuda tiskoru😒. Sarsarle ipudu entha anukunna em ostadi, ee janmaki inthe🙂‍↔️. Any single kid here? Mikkuda ala anipinchindha? And those with siblings, how is it going?

And btw na groceries carry cheyadaniki oka uncle help chesaru, thanks to uncle:)

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u/the_introvert_girl_ — 1 month ago

Edo alochana, edo nirnayam

Work ayipoyi nen Kaliga unna, kani brain matram kaliga undali anukoledhu. Ala clouds ni chusthu, cool breeze lo I ended up thinking about future.

Asalu nakem Kavali, what I'm looking for ani alochincha( in terms of future lo raboye person) good job- thop kakapoina comfortable ga surviving, able to take care of my parents, good friends bane undhi, kani edo teliyani velithi.

Ah velithi ento telika kasepu dull aipoya, evarikaina call chedham ani contact list chusthe konni names mind loki ochay, but valla schedules gurtochi busy untarani aagipoya. Appude Most Eligible Bachelor movie lo, ending lo pooja hedge scene gurtochindi stage midha dhi. Avnu kadha anukoni general ga mana society pette checklist okkati alochincha, edhi antha interesting ga set ayyela anipinchaledhu.

But one thing got struck in my mind- ambitious, career oriented, akkada agipoyaka ardam aindhi nenem vethukuthunna ani. Someone ambitious, ante achieve chesesi success aipoyinavallu kadhu, someone who is currently in that journey, career oriented ante job ey avvalsina avasaram ledu, it could be anything if he has that passion. Because I strongly believe one thing, success ayyaka or achieve chesaka evaraina ostharu, but ah fail ayina sare or ah achievement ochevarku, nuv cheyagalav ani mana journey lo todu undevalle kadha real ppl.

Ala evaraina unnara ippatvaraku ante ofcourse my parents& bestfriends anthe. But enthaina manushulam kabatti, we need other human connections as well- such as mana todu. I want to be someone's safe space- who can run to me without fear of getting judged, someone's peace at the end of a chaotic day, someone's biggest cheerleader when things get awful, in simple terms I don't want to be another pressure, but a place of comfort🤍.

Ala ani adhokate saripoddha, looks assalu matter eh kadhu ani alanti dialogues kottanu, at the end of the day, edoka moola adhi untadhi. So, that doesn't mean hero la undalani kadhu, just thanani thanu neat ga present cheskunte chalu. And idi chadivaka konni dms osthay, dm chesi time waste cheskokandi unless you're 6ft+ and oc ( chows aite inka better anukondi😂😂) but edo dorikestarani kadhu just share cheskovali anipinchindi, so post chesthunna anthe.

( Judge chesna parledu, bcoz I chose to be honest anthe, thanks namasthe:)

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u/the_introvert_girl_ — 2 months ago

Evari preferencelu vallavi, em antaru?

So emaindhante I met my inter classmate today, we used to share assignments, records appatlo( just 4yrs back) and as time changes, people evolve kadha. Nenu general gane konchem tall na 8th standard nunchi, alaa inka inter tarvatha kudaa height peruguthu 175cm daggara agipoya( approx 5'9).

So inka friends gurinchi telsindhe ga, boys common dialouge- mi frnd ni set cheyochuga ani, manchi paddathi aina ammai oka chinna list cheppadu, ah qualities na bestfriend match ayindi, so initially I told about her and he was ok and then he asked me to show a pic, chupincha and then he was like ah odhule urke anna annadu( i bet the reason is bcoz she's brown).

Ah bokkale, evaristam valladhi ani nenem anledhu inka and then bro shifted towards me whether I'm single or not. I said, I expect my partner to be atleast 6ft ani( obviously he's not), and he got triggered and he was like ilanti standards kuda untunaya, height tho em cheskuntav ani, konni sookthulu start chesadu, mari nuv mundhu antha okay ani tarvatha plate tippesav, ninnu ippudu racist anala mari ani anna, anthe inka face maadipoindi.

Ante nen anedhi entante evari preferencelu vallaki untay, nachakpothe vini odileyali, leda asalu nakenduku anukovali kani, naku matrame undali-nen anukuneve correct anukunte- isaka isaka ammukovali :)

What do you guys say? Miru ela react avtharu ilanti situations lo.

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u/the_introvert_girl_ — 2 months ago

Finished my ug, joined as a fresher into corporate, it's been just 8 months and guess what, op is switching. Name cheppalenu, but one of the big4, paiki antha bane undhi anukuni join ayya, kani lopalem ledhu dolla🤧.

Internal politics, seniors upperhand and manager's indirect biasedness, anni dotlu connect cheskonelopu 8months aipoindi. Sarle direct bayataki em potham ani project nunchi aina podham ante, kudaradhannaru🥴.

Sare, edaiathe adhi chuskundham ani, resign cheyadam jarigindi. 30days notice period, days going on, interviews istunna but location, negotiation set avvaka offer letter ledhu, tondara paddana anipinchindi, kani edo teliyani dhairyam edhokati dorakadha ani.

Ala inkoka 7days lo last working day ostundaga, I got a job :) with almost double inhand salary, that too from another big4( entha kottina chaavani paamu annattu last ki malli adhe big4 ki pothuna).

So nen cheppocchedi entante, skills unte opportunities ave osthay, time pattocchu kani you'll definitely get what you deserve( oka 10% luck kuda undali anukondi, adhi vere vishayam).

So, ilane evaraina job switch ki try chesthunte, delay avtundhi ani kangaru padakandi, keep trying and everything falls in its place one day🤍

Edit:I'm not into tech, I'm from audit :)

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u/the_introvert_girl_ — 2 months ago