First, I want to make it clear that this isn’t a generalization about all women in Bangladesh. I’ve had relationships, friendships, and worked with independent girls/women, so I know they exist.

As I was growing up as Gen Z, I thought so many things were changing because of the information age. But now that I’m in my 20s, I’m realizing that I might have been wrong about how much things have actually changed. I’m seeing many of the same patterns that existed in earlier generations.

I see Gen Z girls/women posting about marriage or looking for a financially independent partner while they’re not financially independent themselves. (There’s nothing wrong with that in theory.) But I’m genuinely confused about how that helps them. What I find more depressing is that some women don’t even seem to have the intention of becoming financially independent.

I don’t mean only financial independence. I also mean personal and emotional independence. And some women choosing to marry someone based primarily on their parents’ preferences. Why on earth would someone decide who they’re going to marry based on what their parents want? How can a relationship work when you can’t independently decide who you want as your life partner? Am I missing something?

This post is a personal observation, and I honestly don’t know whether this represents the majority of girls/women in Bangladesh. I hope it doesn’t. But seeing some women, especially within my generation, seemingly not wanting independence makes me question whether we’ve actually changed or whether we’re simply repeating many of the same patterns from the previous generation!

So I’m trying to get a real sense of the bigger picture regarding independence and dependency among today’s generation!!

Comment below or DM me if you're interested 🫶🏼

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So I’m struggling to love myself, and I think part of it is because I’m neurodivergent and have a history of being abused, both by myself and by my parents growing up.

It’s also really hard for me to get help. I know the obvious answers are therapy, discipline, learning to take care of myself, bla bla. But it’s more complicated than that.

I’ve tried so many things—solo dates, meditation, reading, journaling, eating on time, etc. They do help me feel better and even love myself for a while, but it never lasts. I struggle to keep doing them because I don’t have the energy, and eventually they just feel repetitive.

I know that if I could move to a new country, start a fresh life, and find people where i can witness what loving yourself actually looks like in real life, not just in theory - it could change so many things for me

But until that happens, how do I deal with this constant struggle to love myself and take care of myself? I’m even struggling with basic things like eating, sleeping, and leaving my room.

Please share your experience with loving yourself. It would give me some perspective.

Hi, I’m 24M, a freelancer with 4+ years of hands-on experience. I’m going through a slightly rough patch professionally, so I’m putting myself out there and actively looking for work wherever I can.

I’ve worked with brands, founders, and creators across brand identity, websites, campaigns, and AI-led visual production.

Here’s a clear breakdown of what I offer, what’s included, and my usual pricing. Final pricing can vary by 10–15% depending on the scope and complexity.

1. Brand / Visual Identity Design: $500 USD

Includes logo variations, business card design, fonts, color palette, and visual direction. You’ll receive a detailed brand guidelines kit covering everything you need to use the identity across your brand touchpoints.

If you need additional applications like packaging, posters, storefronts, signage, etc., the investment can range from $999–$1,500 USD.

2. Website / UI/UX Design: Starting at $999 USD

I design premium, responsive, conversion-focused websites in Figma and Framer. Everything is customized to your brand rather than built from generic templates.

The scope includes essential pages, mobile optimization, structured layouts, and basic on-page SEO setup.

3. Social Media Design / Branding: $350 USD

Includes 5–6 high-quality content pieces or pinned posts covering your services, pricing, about section, etc.

You’ll also get 3–4 branded Story Highlight covers.

4. AI-Led Visuals, Ads & Campaigns: Starting at $500 USD

For brands without catalog shoots or those testing multiple ad variations, I create AI-generated product ads, banners, and marketing collateral using your existing product references.

Pricing depends on the level of detail, realism, and usage requirements.

5. Brand Strategy & Creative Direction: Custom Pricing

This can include landing pages, brand voice, identity development, and ongoing content strategy. Ideal if you already have the execution side covered but need sharper messaging and a more structured creative direction.

If you’re interested, DM me with your requirements and budget range. I can share relevant work samples and timelines.

Hey, I’m 24M, a freelancer with 4+ years of hands-on experience. I’m going through a slightly rough patch professionally, so I’m putting myself out there and actively looking for work wherever I can.

I’ve worked with brands, founders, and creators across brand identity, websites, campaigns, and AI-led visual production.

Here’s a clear breakdown of what I offer, what’s included, and my usual pricing. Final pricing can vary by 10–15% depending on the scope and complexity.

1. Brand / Visual Identity Design: $500 USD

Includes logo variations, business card design, fonts, color palette, and visual direction. You’ll receive a detailed brand guidelines kit covering everything you need to use the identity across your brand touchpoints.

If you need additional applications like packaging, posters, storefronts, signage, etc., the investment can range from $999–$1,500 USD.

2. Website / UI/UX Design: Starting at $999 USD

I design premium, responsive, conversion-focused websites in Figma and Framer. Everything is customized to your brand rather than built from generic templates.

The scope includes essential pages, mobile optimization, structured layouts, and basic on-page SEO setup.

3. Social Media Design / Branding: $350 USD

Includes 5–6 high-quality content pieces or pinned posts covering your services, pricing, about section, etc.

You’ll also get 3–4 branded Story Highlight covers.

4. AI-Led Visuals, Ads & Campaigns: Starting at $500 USD

For brands without catalog shoots or those testing multiple ad variations, I create AI-generated product ads, banners, and marketing collateral using your existing product references.

Pricing depends on the level of detail, realism, and usage requirements.

5. Brand Strategy & Creative Direction: Custom Pricing

This can include landing pages, brand voice, identity development, and ongoing content strategy. Ideal if you already have the execution side covered but need sharper messaging and a more structured creative direction.

If you’re interested, DM me with your requirements and budget range. I can share relevant work samples and timelines.

Gender: Male

Age: 24

Height: 5'11"

Status: Single

Nationality: Bangladeshi

Currently Residing: Dhaka, Bangladesh

Occupation: Creative Director/Designer

Preferred Age Range: 24–32

A Little About Me

I’m still figuring out who i am and what kind of life I actually want, not just what I’m supposed to want. I’m heavily drawn to art, design, films, books, electronic music, fashion and culture.

I’ve left 9–5 multiple times and now i’m fully focusing on building my creative studio. idk how things will go, but i’m proud of the fact that i’ve made attempts to work on my dream and i’m doing whatever it takes to make it a reality.

I’m introvert, multifaceted and curious. I’m not funny btw :( but i’d consider myself an interesting person.

I’ve got PTSD, depression, OCD, and anxiety, and I’ve been dealing with them since childhood. I’m doing my best to keep myself alive. From time to time, I’ve avoided all kinds of social interaction because of these issues, but I’ve realized that isolating myself is harmful and damaging. So, I’m trying not to isolate myself anymore. Instead, I want to make an effort to find the right people and a supportive environment where people can see all sides of me and accept me for who I am and the person I’m becoming.

My favorite genre of art & film is Sci-fi & Fantasy! I’m a big fan of Denis Villeneuve, G.R.R. Martin, David & Dan, Anyma, Grimes, Argy, Timothée Chalamet, Katsuhiro Otomo and Anya Taylor-Joy. There are also many other people who inspire me, and that list will probably become more prominent in the coming days.

Lately my hyperfixation is AI photography, and i’m considering learning AI filmmaking in the near future! So if someone hates AI, i’m out.

My favorite internet couple is Angela Nikolau & Ivan Beerkus!

What I’m Looking For

I’m looking for someone creative and extremely ambitious. Someone non-religious, independent and who disagrees with most of the common values of our society.

I’m drawn to people who have their own world, perspective, imagination, and fantasies. Someone who is extremely kind, considerate, and deeply empathetic; emotionally available and able to appreciate my multifaceted nature. Someone who feels deeply about the things they care about.

Someone who isn’t controlling in any way, is open-minded and wants to explore life fully without putting any limitations on it. Finally, someone who wants to move abroad or is already living in a different country.

Preferred Method of Contact

DM on Reddit.