I(25M) , never been in a relationship by choice. My friends say I’m too choosy. When I say I prefer good looks first they mock and laugh at me. Why can’t this be normal ?
Ppl dont approach me, not in insta or snap chat. i see many ppl my age who started dating. i want to date ppl in my leagues, not outside . i always wanted to start dating but i used to end up getting cheated. i got cheated ones and then a guy left me without no explanation and the funny fact is, both of them were chopped. And yk i have literally no problem in dating them but they should atleast have a great personality this time, lol. there are many pretty girls out there and within that y would anyone even date me? i m not called ugly, i get complimented by many for my looks but at the same time not enough pretty to attract a genuine boy or a boy i like. i dont want to seem desperate but all the guys i liked r already taken. what should i doooo nowww??? i read in 3G, a lot of boys r handsome there butttt there r no decent boys. i dont like boys vaping (its my opinion sorry)
Hi, I'm Marlboro Red. that person with a shy BF.
My boyfriend left Bangladesh a few weeks ago. The day he left, we had a really nice final date where I made him a cake. Even though he was constantly busy taking calls from friends and family or sorting out banking issues, it was still a sweet date. I gave him a goodbye hug kissed his cheek and said goodbye.
Since landing however his communication has completely changed. He didn't text or call for two full days after landing leaving me sick with anxiety. I ended up deep-stalking him on every platform (Found an old PH account active since 2017 🥲 though that's not the issue I'm just mentioning it to show how deep and hard I stalked). When I found a few suspicious accounts ON IG he admitted one was an ex. I asked him to remove them and add me everywhere I was on and to his credit he did everything I asked without resistance.
The issue is that he refuses to call me. He claims he can't because of his roommate. I even suggested You don't have to talk just listen on the call while we argue so we can hear tone, and text me your answers and he did that too. He says he feels guilty for he hasn't been able to do calls yet despite a 5-hour time gap he only texts me 4–6 brief messages around 4–5 AM before disappearing again. Meanwhile, I'm staying up all night waiting for him, only to watch his following list continuously grow.
I told him directly If you can't continue this relationship, just say the word and I'll leave no questions asked. He won't give a clear answer but he told me I should "reconsider dating him" which hurt deeply. He says he isn't treating me badly intentionally but that I need to think hard about whether I really want to be with him.
I love him and I'm willing to wait a thousand years if it means being together. But I refuse to force myself on someone who doesn't want me. It feels like a completely solvable problem so breaking up over this feels unfair but being kept in the dark without even a phone call is messing with my head really badly. I'm losing my shit! Idk what do I do?
To the lonely people out here,
It doesn’t matter what your gender, age, or sexual orientation is. I don’t think we should get into a relationship expecting it to fill some empty space inside us.
Something I’ve learned from my past relationships:
I used to think having the right person beside you could make that loneliness go away. But eventually, I realized that no matter how much someone loves you, there are certain things you have to work through yourself.
That doesn’t mean relationships can’t make us happier or that we shouldn’t lean on the people we love. Of course we should. Having someone who cares about you, supports you, and shares life with you is one of the beautiful parts of being in a relationship.
But I’ve learned that there’s a difference between wanting someone in your life and needing someone to make your life feel complete.
A relationship should add to your life, not become the entire foundation holding it up.
I’m saying this from a much happier place now.
Hey! Any girl from BRACU wanna go on a date? This semester feels boring alone on campus.
many of my friends in my friend grp started dating and then i was the only one left behind. i always wanted to focus on my studies but smtimes i feel lonely. My friends also went on a double date and invited me. i actually had nothing to do there so i didnt go there. I think if i ever go in a relationship i would prefer a genuine one bc i had sm past experiences, so yeah. i m a female, 16. anyone from 16 to 18 will be fine
The post is very long i am sorryyyy
So hie i am F19 i had been in a relationship with my ex M22 we have been in together for almost 2.5 years. this year has been a rollercoaster for me. We had been having issues since almost a year the issues are very small like he doesn’t give me time and attention. When i say i need his time and stuff he ignores them and blames it on me instead which makes me even more upset. Whenever we fight for whatever reason (mostly the reason is him not giving enough time and efforts) he always says that i am the one who is overthinking stuff etc etc. in 2.5 years of our relationship there was 3 birthdays of mine and he forgot 3 of them and didn’t do anything. Whenever we went out on a date he always used to come late like a hour late on every single date. (I said these for context that how he much he didn’t used to put effort). Whatever so i was depressed for almost 1.5 years as i started college after HSC. And didn’t made much friends in the starting and i had some family issues as well i used to tell him that i feel depressed i feel empty i feel alone and stuff but he didn’t used to take them seriously. In the starting of this year i was so depressed that i became suicidal i started to have suicidal thought and as he is my only safe person i told him that i am suicidal and stuff yet again he didn’t take it seriously. So in april just 3 months before my HSC i tried suicide but survived lol whatever when i was in the hospital bed i told him i tried suicide and his first reaction was getting mad at me he said some stuff that made me cry so much that day i decided that i will break up with him but i wasn’t in the place to breakup as my emotions were all over the places after my attempt he came to my house to see my with the permission of my mother. My mother and brother was there too. I went to a psychiatrist and was diagnosed with BPD (borderline personality disorder) which is one of the reason that i needed attention from my FP. After my hsc i broke up with him and we were in no contact for almost a month in that month i missed him so much i was feeling empty i was feeling like i lost the only comfort place i had . He was hospitalised for his health issues recently so i called him to check up on him so we have been talking i have been thinking about getting back with him again
So i want advice should i get back with him?
I think law is broken so give some legal works
Edit : I learned that it House husband or Home maker Not Ghorjamai XD
I do chores at my house (We don't have house help or bua so I try to make things easy for my mother as much as possible) . That day while moping the floor got me thinking....I am lazy ass hell. Well both on the academic side (I doomed my CG) and going outside the house not for going to class. So my future is doomed and I am pretty sure I will continue to be unemployed after graduation if I continue my way to conducting life.
As I am bad student , I never did relationships and don't want to bcs it won't end well. Arrange marriage has also many demands of guys job. So what if I became a ঘরজামাই ? Shoot ya'lls thoughs on this ( This is just discussion, not like I am ambitioning it but would be great if true XD)
I'm from a village.I come Dhaka for my studies and I'm too much shy to talk with someone.Everyone here are posh kids.I belongs to a middle class family and I feel uncomfortable with them.So now I need some advice to make new friends and date someone and I'm totally new in this platform so if you have advice for me give it in comments thanks in advanced
To all the buddies out there, what are things we all Bangladeshi can relate to. I’ll start first, why do we have to speak loudly
Sooo my gfff is ultra rich and I belong to a lower middle class family. She loves me and i love her tooo. Love is never the problem, the real issue is her family. They don’t tend to marry her to a lower-income class family anddd also time to time she changes her perspective. Like, ekbaar bole ami jevabe rakhbo shevabei thakbe and kichudin pore bole tumi amar etto costt kivabe bear korbaaa! And all yk. For me, im in between jobs. Seeking a better one. Im stuck.
Help me outtttttt. :’)
I'm new in this city and wanted to know
I’ll go first
I will be living in Dhaka for a few months starting later this year. I speak Bangla but you can clearly tell it is not my first language. I am wondering if there is a discord channel or anyone who wants to communicate in Bangla to help my annunciation when communicating with others. I want to limit the amount I will be made fun of regarding my accent. :)
Okay okay I know queer folks are always posting on here but recently someone here commented about queer Instagram gcs on ANOTHER queer Bangladeshi post and well I got curious wether people here knew of such gcs?