Oh WTH ! Okay guys.. How to become a ঘরজামাই? Is there anyone here? And...Girls what do you think of the concept?

Edit : I learned that it House husband or Home maker Not Ghorjamai XD

I do chores at my house (We don't have house help or bua so I try to make things easy for my mother as much as possible) . That day while moping the floor got me thinking....I am lazy ass hell. Well both on the academic side (I doomed my CG) and going outside the house not for going to class. So my future is doomed and I am pretty sure I will continue to be unemployed after graduation if I continue my way to conducting life.

As I am bad student , I never did relationships and don't want to bcs it won't end well. Arrange marriage has also many demands of guys job. So what if I became a ঘরজামাই ? Shoot ya'lls thoughs on this ( This is just discussion, not like I am ambitioning it but would be great if true XD)

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u/16th_LazyMonk — 12 days ago

Everyone are talking about leaving this country....it tells the state of us and the country

Not everyone can leave this country. Even if they tried like robots. Most of us will live here, and only a small percentage settles abroad, and that number might decrease because of the rise of anti-immigration sentiment across the world.

We Bangladeshi's only care about what's inside our home. While our governing system (Doesn't matter which political party) basically serves the needs of powerful people who can benefit them. The same person who says swear words about corruption & suffers because of it ends up serving corruption after cracking BCS. Years pass by, and the ভোগান্তি remains....

Our parliament is filled with useless abegi debates about what happened in the past. Many MP's will send their kids abroad; they go abroad just for a health check. Basically showing they don't care about our health sector, nor do we. The same doctors who suffered because of this sector forget their suffering after getting a leadership role in the sector. I have even seen anti-India folks going to India for treatment.

Sorry for random ranting.......but what I am trying to say is we Bangladeshi's at our core, don't want the country to be fixed (I am not talking about political party support or vote). We just want to move into a fixed one.

Our protests should be about the common issues that hinder our lives every day! Not for political parties. Pressuring and giving leaders fear that not fixing the problem might ruin the party's image, but instead we inadvertently end up helping the system to stay as it is.

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u/16th_LazyMonk — 25 days ago

M | 25 | Muslim | Single | Dhaka, Bangladesh | Assistant Brand Manager

Hello there ! So I am looking for someone for my cousin. It will be an arranged marriage after meeting with both families and with the consent of both.

Quick details

  • 25 | Male | 5'6" | Bangladeshi | Single (Never Married)
  • Education: BBA (Major in Marketing)
  • Work: Assistant Brand Manager at a reputed BD company
  • Preferred age: 23-25 (Third- or Final-year undergrad)
  • Location: Dhaka
  • Hometown: Mirsharai
  • Marriage Timeline: Maybe this year or the start of next year. All depends on the discussion between families.

Preferences :
- Must be from Halishahar, Ctg. With home village in Mirsharai. Location Dhaka, but a home village in Mirsharai is also preferred.
- Will have to move to Dhaka.
- Not preferred to do jobs, but could change their mind depending on the job.
- Must be religious

Since this is an arranged marriage, if you have any relatives or siblings, first DM me to share the biodata via text or WhatsApp and provide a number to contact the parents. I will share ours too

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u/16th_LazyMonk — 26 days ago

Okay so in the new series, John is chosen as the replacement of Hal Jordan. Not like a sector replacement in the animated, basically Hal's fired. Is this a thing in the comics or its the show's invention ? Why can't just they give John another ring ?

u/16th_LazyMonk — 1 month ago
▲ 13 r/Dhaka

Its funny how people critisizes the Pink bus drivers in a country where traffic law isn't properly enforced

I get it !
Those female drivers aren't experienced on Dhaka roads; it's Mad Max, but our roads have hundreds of problems that need to be solved! We don't talk about it; our politicians won't even talk about it (They are too busy lecturing stuff about 71, July, whose credit, blah blah ), even the people who have suffered from this, even a BCS cadre who has the power to change (Who also suffered because of the roads), won't do anything about it.

I believe the Pink buses won't face a problem if they are TIMELY SCHEDULED! Then they won't have to compete with others and join the messy competition.

As for driving experience, people are acting like all the previous accidents in the country were caused by female drivers. Many of the local bus accidents occur because traffic police are not strict and the unfit buses. If a fixed timetable is followed and they follow the rules, female drivers won't face as much hassle as male drivers.

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u/16th_LazyMonk — 2 months ago
▲ 50 r/Dhaka

The messed up local bus system of this country that no one tries to fix.

We often blame bus drivers and conductors while their bosses remain unaccountable. They never get beaten. In Bangladesh, there are no fixed-time local buses, & the bus crew's income depends entirely on the number of passengers they carry. The more the merrier!
Thus, to me it feels useless to shout at them for not moving because if we were in their shoes we wouldn't also move either until a person has to swing by the door to ride the bus.

As I said, there is no fixed time for buses; that is another messy business tactic of the bus owners. No fixed time means one bus crew has to fight with another to fill up more passengers, often hitting each other's buses and causing the signature war-torn-like dents of BD local buses.

On the other hand, we passengers don't know when the next bus will come, so we try to go even by holding a railing from the bus door. The situation is worse for women because of this; In ECB, I see that even I, a boy not getting into the overcrowded bus, but an aunty or apu tries to stand by the door because she has an office to go to. It's high time we had a separate bus for women.
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Last but not least, the super crappy interior design of the buses. They are absolutely not for public transit.

Think! Have you noticed the small doors, a small aisle, small overhead luggage space, no durable plastic seats, no proper railing to hold on to (sometimes there isn't even one), fan and light controls overhead & even a freaking broken TV? Exactly, it's a freaking layout of a mini-bus designed for a small number of passengers to travel by, only for seating comfortably, not for public transit where most people have to stand!

Just compare the interior with one of BRTC's double-deckers or big buses, or the picture I have given at the end, and you will get how messy the interior is for public transit. The door is also small and placed in a way that no one wants to stand or sit further back.

All of these problems are known by everyone, and by everyone I mean everyone! Even those who have the power to fix it. That university student who rode the bus like this and suffered and became a BCS cadre later on does nothing and joins to become the beneficiary of this system later!

Thus, there are also middlemen on the payroll in the gov't who prevent any changes to this public transit system; These middlemen also prevent the banning of buses without fitness.

The solution is simple: pay the bus crew monthly, have timed buses, and have a proper interior design based on public transit norms.

Hell, even an online payment system using the Metro Rapid pass, or NFC is possible; this could even bring more profit because people will pay 5/10tk more but won't complain because it's cashless payment. The psychology is different when paying in cash and when paying cashless.

Thanks for reading my things of frustration😊

u/16th_LazyMonk — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/BDDevs

I want create a project or an application using C++, I am in my second semester. Can anyone give me a roadmap on what to learn and implement?

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u/16th_LazyMonk — 2 months ago