u/thecoolestperson4

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Need a fresh start asap. Can't wait till welcome week

I (18F) have been friends with two girls and have gotten super close with them for senior year. On monday, one of them asked me if I wanted to hang out with them on Wednesday to go for all-you-can-eat sushi and I agreed. On Wednesday, I had made sure I didn’t eat because I thought we were going to all you can eat sushi, but the girl communicating the plan has said they changed the plan from sushi to playing pickleball at a park near one of the girls’ houses. The message I got was basically “this park around one of the girls house around 4/5,” but they never gave me the actual name of the park or a specific meeting time. We also have a group chat, but they didn’t use it to update everyone.

At around 5:30 p.m., I texted asking what park they were at because I still didn’t know where to go. Around that time, I checked their location and saw they were already together. Since I still didn’t know where they were, I ended up calling one of my other friends and joined her plans which was to bowl. I called another friend to see if they wanted to join us, and he answered saying the two girls I was originally supposed to hang out with had already come to their house and asked them to go to the mall. So they had changed the plan again without telling me. At 6:00 p.m., the girls finally texted me saying they were at the mall.

At this point I was upset because it was obvious they did not want to hangout with me. I asked them, “Why would you invite me if you didn’t actually want me there?” One of them responded, “You should have called us.” I felt like that completely ignored the fact that I had already texted asking where they were. Also the friend who’s house they came to, they had called him, so to me that was crazy bc they didn’t even call me when i was the one who was originally invited.

There’s also more context. Recently, these same two girls who had invited me had been talking about me behind my back because I started hanging out with people they don’t like. Instead of bringing it up to me directly, they were discussing it with each other and the only reason i knew was bc one of those girls told me that the other girl felt a type of way bc i was hanging out with the people they don’t like.

Ironically too, the person they ended up going to the mall with was one of the same people they had previously complained about and said they were going to stop being friends with when university started bc they didn’t like him.

So I unadded them on social media because I don’t want to continue the friendship.

I (18F) have been friends with two girls and have gotten super close with them for senior year. Throughout our friendship, I’ve often felt left out because they would make plans without me. This has happened multiple times over the years, but I usually let it go. On monday, one of them asked me if I wanted to hang out with them on Wednesday to go for all-you-can-eat sushi and I agreed. On Wednesday, I had made sure I didn’t eat because I thought we were going to all you can eat sushi, but the girl communicating the plan has said they changed the plan from sushi to playing pickleball at a park near one of the girls’ houses. The message I got was basically “this park around of the girls house around 4/5,” but they never gave me the actual name of the park or a specific meeting time. We also have a group chat, but they didn’t use it to update everyone.

At around 5:30 p.m., I texted asking what park they were at because I still didn’t know where to go. Around that time, I checked their location and saw they were already together. Since I still didn’t know where they were, I ended up calling one of my other friends and joined her plans which was to bowl. I called another friend to see if they wanted to join us, and they answered saying the two girls I was originally supposed to hang out with had already come to their house and asked them to go to the mall. So they had changed the plan again without telling me. At 6:00 p.m., the girls finally texted me saying they were at the mall.

At this point I was upset because it was obvious they did not want to hangout with me. I asked them, “Why would you invite me if you didn’t actually want me there?” One of them responded, “You should have called us.” I felt like that completely ignored the fact that I had already texted asking where they were. Also the friend who’s house they came to, they had called him, so to me that was crazy bc they didn’t even call me when i was the one who was originally invited.

There’s also more context. Recently, these same two girls who had invited me had been talking about me behind my back because I started hanging out with people they don’t like. Instead of bringing it up to me directly, they were discussing it with each other and the only reason i knew was bc one of those girls told me that the other girl felt a type of way bc i was hanging out with the people they don’t like.

Ironically too, the person they ended up going to the mall with was one of the same people they had previously complained about and said they were going to stop being friends with when university started bc they didn’t like him.

So I unadded them on social media because I don’t want to continue the friendship.
Now one of them has texted me saying, “If you have a problem with me, at least be a woman and say what it is.”

Am i the assholeeeee???

hi guys

mcmaster has always been my top school but now that i have been dming my new roomate and that about to graduate everything is genuinely so overwhelming and i don’t know how to navigate this. i have a university in my city that i could have went to where most of my friends are going to where i would have to commute and genuinely i don’t know why i didn’t just choose that before. i wanted to move out so bad but now that it’s happening i really don’t want to. i like my friends i already have and im going into mac comp sci which i heard is a difficult program. the program at the uni close to my house would be much easier and i just don’t know what i’m doing anymore.. sorry for the rant… i know u guys are not fucking w the first years atm…….😭 i also feel like my roomate is a lil sus but i shouldn’t judge..

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should i be scared

how hard is it to get co op i’m going here next year. also do you think i should go into comp sci with its job market

i got into cs but not eng so i was wondering what was the difficulty of transferring first year. i was also wondering if there was anyway i could transfer into second year eng ?? like so i dont have to restart

today i was rejected from mac eng after really putting in my all and i cried allll of fourth period. i realized that dude like my problem are so small because we are in a world with so many people who are dealing with so much worse and me getting rejected is truly nothing compared to that. i am extremely grateful that i was even able to apply and i just want to say to everyone that did get rejected, that you are more than mac eng and you are genuinely so smart and talented. you’re acceptances do not define your intelligence and i hope everyone is okay🩷

did the round already pass??