u/thoughtsofnothingnes

okayy so i (f16) started talking to this guy(m16) in January. We met on Insta, and we realized that we lived super close to each other and he went to my old school so we went on a date and things were pretty fun. I didn't know what to expect because I've never dated anyone before and had never been on a date, but it went pretty good. After that, we started hanging out whenever we could on the weekends etc, and after 2 weeks we started dating.....yeah i know he asked me out on Valentine's Day and I said yes for some reason. I would soon get very frustrated with him because I was the one putting all the effort into our relationship and he would put in none. I felt like I couldn't be myself around him and that we had no chemistry and just weren't right for each other. I also have to make all the decisions in our relationship, which sounds nice, but it's not. Literally every time he would just come over to my house and we would lay in my bed and watch a movie. it gets to a pointt. Eventually, we broke up THANK GOD! but since then he's been texting me asking to hang out and get back together. I would reply to him,
because my mom was making me feel bad about it, but I got so sick of this boy. one of the time I told him I couldn't hang out because my brother was in the hospital, and he left me on read for 4 days and completely ignored what I said. pretty much since then I've been ignoring him. He's been texting me on messages, Insta, and Snapchat but i dont care. heres when the funny part comes in. I posted on my story venting about him and this girl I knew slid up and told me that she saw him last week coming into her work with two other bitches. and I know it wasn't his sister because his sister is 12 and has brown hair and these girls were our age and had blonde hair so thats nice! I think it's funny. He's begging for me back and keeps texting me, but he was literally hanging out with other girls. I genuinely have no feelings for him and I want him to move on. I just don't get why he's still texting me when hes with other girls. idk sorry that was a lot lmao. he also did a lot of other things like forgot my name etc but the list would never stop. keep in mind we only dated 2 1/2 months. i feel so free and will not be dating anyone again for years.

Okay to be super clear we are no longer dating but i wanted the caption straight forward. I 16f have only ever dated one boy 16m. We only dated for around 2 months because he really wasnt ready for a relationship and wasnt the best bf. during our rls his sister told me that his mom was reading our texts and that weirded tf out of me. ive met his family plenty of times and his parents would let us hang out alone because his mom literally said to me that she trusted me. I know that parents read their kids text but I think that's weird esp between their kids s/o. we never did or even talked about anything sexual. we literally kissed once and it sucked lol. (both of our first kisses and I don't even really count it because it was hardly a kiss) but the thing that really weirded me out was his sister saying that his mom still reads our texts even though we are broken up and have been for like over a month. i dont understand why because his sister is 12 and she doesnt even do that to her. my mom said it's normal for parents to read their kids texts(my parents dont thank fuck) but I thought it was a huge invasion of privacy and it made me not want to talk to him because of his mom possibly reading it. im also kinda upset because i told him not in detail that things happened to me when i was younger and about my mental health. i just dont know. at least she'll see how fucking dry he is and how poorly he comforted me on those things. Imk yalls thoughts