What makes you feel safe enough to show someone the parts of yourself that you normally keep private?
And once you trust someone, do you naturally become more verbally expressive, or do you still prefer showing people how you feel rather than explaining it?
A random guy (who identifies as ENTP) messaged me asking for my tritype. We had no established connection, and he quickly started making insulting comments.
Then he decided I was mystyped as if he somehow knew me better than I know myself after a few messages.
When I pointed out that his comments felt disrespectful instead of acknowledging that something he said landed badly, the focus became that I misinterpreted him and that my reaction was the issue.
I swear I recently saw another INFJ mention having a similar experience with someone using personality typing as a way to be condescending
Has anyone else run into this? People who use typology to "analyze" strangers while completely ignoring basic respect and communication?
INFJs are often misunderstood too, so I’m curious about your side.
What do people assume about ENTPs that is completely wrong?
What part of yourself do you wish people noticed beyond the stereotypes?