u/throwawaybfmademesad

hi! my boyfriend and i have been together for a few years, and he's a metalhead through and through. he has introduced me to a lot of different bands over the years, and ive come to really enjoy it! hes been to metal festivals, and dresses in his band shirts and boots and leather jackets. im the complete opposite of him, and if i had to put a label on how i dress, it's probably hippie like

he makes fun of my music taste sometimes (which is all over the place! i like basically everything under the sun, and i like finding songs that make me feel SOMETHING) and all of the women he follows on ig are metalhead girlies. they are so beautiful, and sometimes i feel foolish. i have asked him about this before in terms of why he dates me, but he said it doesnt matter and yet it feels like it does :/ i feel worried that he feels like hes missing out on dating someone who's more into the scene than i am, and im scared! can anyone help me work thru this? thank u❤️

hi im so scared right now of being sick with e coli im staying with my ex and his friends and theres only 2 bathrooms and i have to share one of them with my ex and his friend and ive been having diarrhea but i also have ibs and i cant stop shaking and im so worried please help me thru this😔😔😔😔😔😔❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

hi! ive been so scared lately and i dont know what to do. two months ago i moved out of my house because my roommates were horrible, and then i lived with at my ex bfs mom place for 2 months (i know it sounds strange😔) and my ex bf and i moved into his/his friends place on monday night and im struggling sososo much. theres 2 bathrooms here for 5 people (one of them is moving out soon but idk when) and my ex made smash burgers on sunday and im so worried about getting food poisoning. i cant stop shaking and my stomach hurts and it keeps rumbling. all ive been eating is handfuls of trail mix/chips/popcorn because eating real food is terrifying to me. i feel so out of control and terrified and nauseous and i just want to die. ive been trying to find my own apartment but it's been so difficult. i just need help or advice or support or kind words or ANYTHING right now!!!!!! i feel so alone and scared and im so tired. thank u❤️❤️❤️

hi! i have been having a TIME trying to get pumped for moving in with my ex and his friends temporarily (pls dont ask why im still with my ex, its complicated😔💔) i was living with roommates before, but they owe me over 2 grand so i moved out in early March! my ex and i have been staying at his parents place for the last 2 months while i look for an apartment, and on Monday we are moving into his place that he shares with his friends. he lives with 2 other men (one of them is moving out) us in the basement, and two other guys on the 2nd floor

i have ibs and im scared!!! sometimes i get really painful bowel movements, and i stay in the bathroom longer than i should. im also prone to panic attacks, and im scared to leave his parents place (i used to live with them before for a year and a half in 2023/2024!) and having to get used to someplace new to me. its only temporary until i find a space of my own, but apartment hunting has been proving to be more difficult than i thought

(i live in a city 5 hours away from my family and my parents and i dont have the best relationship, so i cant stay with them right now!)

im just so incredibly scared and nervous that i will be having panic attacks every night. thankfully his roommates that i know are very nice, but two of them got into a physical fight for the first time ever the other night and i keep asking my ex if he thinks they'll fight again and he tells me no, but im worried😭 i dont want to stay with them, but i have nowhere else to go :0( im hoping i can find my own place super soon

BUT anyway, im sorry for the long explanation!!! can anyone give me tips on how to cope? i know its only for the time being, and that i will get used to it. i keep trying to tell myself that i will be in no danger, and that its no different than sharing a bathroom at my parents place with my sister and mom. i would like any advice or support or anything!!! thank you😔❤️❤️❤️

hi! i have been having a TIME trying to get pumped for moving in with my ex and his friends temporarily (pls dont ask why im still with my ex, its complicated😔💔) i was living with roommates before, but they owe me over 2 grand so i moved out in early March! my ex and i have been staying at his parents place for the last 2 months while i look for an apartment, and on Monday we are moving into his place that he shares with his friends. he lives with 3 other men, us in the basement with one of them, and two other guys on the 2nd floor

i have ibs and im scared!!! sometimes i get really painful bowel movements, and i stay in the bathroom longer than i should. im also prone to panic attacks, and im scared to leave his parents place (i used to live with them before for a year and a half in 2023/2024!) and having to get used to someplace new to me. its only temporary until i find a space of my own, but apartment hunting has been proving to be more difficult than i thought

(i live in a city 5 hours away from my family and my parents and i dont have the best relationship, so i cant stay with them right now!)

im just so incredibly scared and nervous that i will be having panic attacks every night. thankfully his roommates that i know are very nice, but two of them got into a physical fight for the first time ever the other night and i keep asking my ex if he thinks they'll fight again and he tells me no, but im worried😭 i dont want to stay with them, but i have nowhere else to go :0( im hoping i can find my own place super soon

BUT anyway, im sorry for the long explanation!!! can anyone give me tips on how to cope? i know its only for the time being, and that i will get used to it. i keep trying to tell myself that i will be in no danger, and that its no different than sharing a bathroom at my parents place with my sister and mom. i would like any advice or support or anything!!! thank you😔❤️❤️❤️