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My father is a complete shitbag

What makes a father a good father ?
Is it providing and giving anything what his Child and wife wants?
My father is a retired government servant and he is a complete douche. If anything doesn’t go his way he would just start yelling and cussing my mother even calling her a slut even though she is a housewife and doesn’t go out of the house.
If i could i would have even punched him in his face for saying stuff to my mom but i have to keep my calm somehow.
He doesn’t do shit in the house, My mom does all the chores and i help her a bit with everything, Since i go to work in the morning and come back in the evening.
According to him a father is only there to provide money for their family and not to be emotionally available or to even talk right to others in the family.

I AM SO FRUSTRATED MAN.

Main thing, I am an Indian, and Indian fathers are literal douchbags, Specially if you are coming from a middle class family.
My Father, He doesn’t drink or smoke or do any Nasha but yet he just yells at my mother for literally the simplest things that happen which i completely hate.

If anything in this world, I know i dont to be like my father ever and if i end up being like him, I would rather wish death upon myself.

So What Makes a father, a good father ?

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u/tililili_ — 2 days ago