u/tiredbestie

Hooked up with a guy for the first time. And honestly, I don’t know. He only touched my when I put his hands on me, ended up giving him head and he came into my mouth which was fine I guess. It was good in a way that it’s someone who’s leaving tomorrow, several hours away, and I got to interact with a cis penis and giving head. He just didn’t try to touch me much at all. Kissing sure, he initiated so I thought that meant he was into me but like. Is this normal? Is expecting them to want to touch me not a usual starting point? I’ve only had lesbian sex pre transition, and even there when it’s not someone who really likes to do a whole lot they still want to touch my body.

I don’t really know how to assert my pronouns/identity when I’m misgendered. It feels like correcting people is outing myself, but I know that not immediately saying something makes it worse. How do you correct someone when they get it wrong? In a way that doesn’t feel like admitting to being trans. I pass probably 80% of the time. Just started working at a local bar so I am mostly thinking about that context.

(On t, post top, got some facial hair, sound like a guy)

living with my grands for a season. haven’t spoken to parents since they kicked me out with 4 hours notice in a needlessly cruel manner unrelated to gender. mother invited friend over during, smoking in the driveway and watching as i moved all my shit to a storage unit. they laughed about it in the living room while i put my clothes in trash bags. yelled at me for the door being open and getting the dog cold while i was moving shit as fast as i could. transitioned and don’t like to talk about it. let grands have suspicions but did not discuss. dad found pic on work insta and texted grandmother asking if i was transgender. fine i told her. she wanted to know what i wanted her to say and i said id think on it. waited too long. message from mother saying they know and aren’t judging, love and support regardless, which i suppose didnt apply to kicking me out. says with this she realized we don’t know each other. i realized this when i was 10. when i was 12. when i was 16. when i was 17. when i was 19. i tried my fucking hardest to be good enough. i wasn’t going to be. years spent begging and crying but now she wants it. she wants it because she got information i didn’t give to her. i won’t reply but i am devastated.

this was supposed to be mine and it’s not anymore. i didn’t get a choice and i never do.

tomorrow is pride.

I’ve got oticon opn hearing aids and have had mismatched domes for a while. I started wearing them again this past fall because I needed them for work and one day I went to grab them and one of my domes was gone.

I went online to buy some and found out that they have sizing and now I’m properly confused. I found some on Amazon but they have reviews saying they’re not good, and then I read online that they have more risk of slipping into your ear which is freaky! But I don’t really know where else you can go to buy them.

I don’t have an audiologist right now (or health insurance for that matter) to ask so I’m wondering if anyone might have advice on how to go about this! Thank you :)