So I was laid off for about 6 MO and barely had enough money to pay rent and child support and monthly bills.
I got behind on my car payment pretty significantly and I finally get my first pay check Friday and I now no longer see the loan being able to pay anyone know how good they are about working with you to make sure I don't lose my car?
Man where to start.....
My mom has had a really what I would classify as an abusive relationship with her husband who is a total creep.
Tl;dr
my mom's husband is abusive and a dick. He's alienated all of her family then made him and his ex son in law POA transferred the house to him and now got denied for medicaid.
***Tigger warning***
He's stood in my nieces bedroom with his robe open and naked when she lived with them. She talked to my other niece about porn and told her not to tell anyone he did. Then he has made extremely Lewed comments to my sister. Had an adult protective services case against him for the same stuff before she went into memory care.
*** Trigger over ****
This is the quality of this man's character. For those of you who didn't read the trigger warning he's a creep.
So he's alienated everyone of my moms kids. Threatened us and no one has wanted to be around.
2 yrs ago after my own mental health issues I reached out and started to rekindle my relationship. It lasted about a yr and the husband I knew returned when a family member passed and he became a dick again. I can add that story later.
So over the last yr we all knew mom was going down hill and we all struggled to deal with him. A month ago my brother tried to get ahold of my mom and had to call her husband because a yr ago he turned off the home phone and her cell phone. 2 days later he told him he called the cops because she eloped and he was in the hospital. No one knew and would have never known because he kept us away.
Over the last month she has been in the hospital as he got Medicaid figured out. I've been going to see her multiple times a week and ran into him multiple times and he kept me up to date. She was denied so they are going to self pay for memory care. Which I am thankful they are going to do it and he recognizes he can't take care of her.
So here we are on Sunday and I get a message from my sister saying mom's husband is pissed because we turned him into adult protective services. He said he and her are being investigated for exploitation or something. I call him and he rips into me tells me to stop fucking with him or I'll be sorry and he doesn't care if he goes to prison.
So my sister got into a conversation and get some more information and we have come to the conclusion we think DSHS has called protective services because he made him and his ex son in law POA and then transferred the home to him 6 months later 2 months before mom goes into the hospital.
I have so many emotions and swirling with stress because she may not be able to afford the facilities he has always been after my mom's money and he has taken her seperate 401k and moved it to his name.
Just a rant and sadness I just want her to be safe and people to not be dicks