u/toastandjam97

Harry styles is trying to make cool quirky genuine ‘indie, rock n roll’ and his fans want top 40,swiftie, pop production shows and that’s the disconnect.

Okay let me preface this with the fact I am not a harry styles fan… not a hater it’s just fine background music , to me inoffensive.

I have two points to make here. Okay so first it’s really apparent to me that even young people who ‘look cool/indie/alternative’ are directly getting most of their music from what’s current and trending on tiktok. I’m 29 and grew up loving bands like my bloody valentine, Joy division, pixies etc etc. that were actually well before my time. I also grew up loving Rihanna, ASAP Rocky, Lana Del Rey ( tumblr era girl of course ) so this isn’t snobbery about any one type of music be better than the other but I do find that younger people now aren’t generally deep diving into inspirations of current artists and what’s come before them ( this is not an absolute of course there’s exceptions). I had a younger coworker that was obsessed with Harry styles and when I gave a listen to what she was listening to I was like you know if you like this there’s a whole world of music this is directly derived from I can give you some recs.

ANYWAY this leads me on to my second point - I’m seeing everyone complaining about his show, ‘why’s there no dancers?’ ‘ where’s my money being spent’ ‘ why did the show just end?’ ‘ where’s the outfit changes’?

The disconnect is I strongly suspect Harry is wanting to take himself seriously and I imagine HIS fave artists could be Iggy Pop, the Rolling Stones, James Brown, Elton John, Simply Red, New Order, Jamiroquai. But his fans other faves are Sabrina Carpenter and Taylor swift… and this leads to this disconnect, when you go and see other indie artist and rock bands etc . even at a stadium on a larger scale for example Arctic Monkeys you’d never be expecting an outfit change or dancers ? I think there’s a major disconnect on the artist he wants to be and who actually buys the music and are fans etc. I also think it’s a shame that many younger people just don’t seem to be listening to older music or deviating from the mainstream. Seeking out different bands doesn’t seem cool anymore even for ‘cool kids’. I think if they had this bit more musical knowledge and context they’d get what he was going for a bit more and then wouldn’t be expecting sparkly razzle dazzle dancers!

Interested to see what anyone else thinks about this especially anyone who’s seen the constant disappointment I’ve mentioned across social media platforms!

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u/toastandjam97 — 4 days ago

Do you guys mind sharing a room or a bed on a girls trip?

Okay so you know we’ve seen time and time again across all housewives the ladies be pissed off if they have to share a room and especially a bed on trips away it got me wondering is that reflective of real life ?

Me and my friends have gone on many girls trips and 1. Financially obvs for normal people it’s much more cost effective if you half the number of rooms and can share. But 2. I loooooove to share 🥲 I’m 29 so don’t know if that’s relevant but I love a rooming buddy to debrief with and have a laugh with!

So I was just wondering if people think this is realistic to real life girls trips ? Or if the ‘not wanting to share’ comes maybe with age or wealth ?

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u/toastandjam97 — 11 days ago
▲ 193 r/AskUK

Middle class people: do you honestly hold negative bias towards working class individuals?

This is a genuine question, I know that as a country we have a very deep history with our class system and lots of people will have unconscious bias. But I am wondering if anyone does have active negative thoughts towards working class people.?

I am a northern woman in her late twenties, I went to state school and that’s my highest level of education, I’ve always worked since being 14, often multiple jobs. I’m interested in history, music, food, try and teach myself things where I can BUT I find that whenever I come into contact with more middle class people as soon as they find this out or find out I work in retail/ a warehouse job. They immediately change their approach to me and aren’t willing to really have friendly convo! Even though I know I can ‘keep up’ with the conversation topic this often happens when I meet my friends other friends ( my friends went to the same school as me but have gone on to higher education and therefore met more wealthy/ middle class friends along the way ).

I’m wondering if anyone will openly admit they wouldn’t really want to converse with someone or be friends with someone who is working class and their reasons explaining why?

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u/toastandjam97 — 13 days ago
▲ 31 r/rhoc

Now take what you will from this, but I am a big housewives watcher and I am fully aware of Tamra’s not great moments ( to put it diplomatically) on the show.

She genuinely seems like a different person on the podcast, she seems relaxed, funny, understanding, open minded etc.

I think perhaps the aggressive approach on the show is what she thinks people want as she’s referred to it lots as ‘doing her job’ but I honestly think what I’m assuming is more of her ‘real personality’ that we hear on the pod is really pretty likeable and people would like to see more of that on the show!

Keen to hear what people who have listened to quite a bit of two ts in a pod think !

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u/toastandjam97 — 16 days ago

This is gonna be VERY controversial- but I like the show it literally is what it is ? It’s not ground breaking and there’s people on there who I think behave grossly but the show does do what it says on the tin.

The people finding it boring: what are you expecting to happen them to be like today we’re skydiving then robbing a bank! The whole branding and everything was about it being the suburbs and more just normal ‘regular’ Life.

Are you expecting to like every person on the show ? In most reality shows there’s obvs some dicks - same as in real life! I see liking the show and liking the cast as two separate things …

Genuinely wondering what kind of thing you’re looking for when watching a show about a bunch of fame adjacent, semi successful/ successful people in their mid thirties to mid 40s…

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u/toastandjam97 — 20 days ago