Kolik otevřeně bisexuálních mužů znáte a jakým způsobem je vnímáte? Bi chlapi často zůstávají "ve skříni", protože je prostě jednoduší se přizpůsobit hetero společnosti než čelit všemožným předsudkům. Zajímalo by mě tedy jak je to v české společnosti vnímáno.
Hello guys! So basically I (M21) figured out I'm bi lol. I just have a few questions regarding coming out, dating and identity. I'd love to hear your perspectives and experiences.
I think after years of mental gymnastics and self denial I've come to terms with the idea that I'm also attracted to men. It's been pretty freeing. I'm experiencing something like a second puberty. I'm seeing cute and handsome guys everywhere and can't stop gushing over the idea of having a bf.
But it's a bit of a fantasy world. First of all I'm not out yet. Not to my family nor my friends. Its so damn scary. I'm worried about being reduced to "that bi guy". On the one hand I wanna tell the whole damn world but on the other I'm worried about people's perception of me. I guess it's up to me how big of a deal I wanna make it. Discovering my bisexuality has been great but I don't wanna make it the only thing about me. It's just one aspect of my life right. But it's been the only thing i can think about as of late, I wonder if I'll ever be able to treat it casually just the same as telling people what eye color i have or how tall i am.
Then there's the dating scene. I can't do apps. They've never worked for me. I prefer talking to people irl but I don't know many gay guys, none at all actually. So I'm thinking the best approach is to make some queer friends first as a gateway to meeting new people. But how do i do that?
BIG !!
Ibxtoycat please dont build this in your museum. It would totally ruin the experience. The museum without mining fatigue would be a mere shadow of its former glorious self. :))