u/trumpetkern27

• Current cards: (list cards, limits, opening date)
  • CapitalOne Quicksilver, $5k limit, Nov 2024
  • Prime Store card, $1100 limit, Dec 2023
  • Prime Visa (the one through Chase), $2400, Dec 2023
• FICO Score:  760
• Oldest account age: 4yrs, 9mo (FAFSA loans)
• Income: $60900 (will get a raise of some amount in 2mo)
• Average monthly spend and categories (according to credit karma):
  • Shopping $563
  • Donations $559
  • Auto & transport: $269 (i presume this is mainly gas, i fill up once/week)
  • Food & dining: $172
  • Groceries: $161
  • Bills & utilities: $78
  • Personal care: $36
  • Entertainment: $16
  • Health & fitness: $16
• Open to Business Cards: no
• What's the purpose of your next card? I'd like to travel more, maximize benefits. I don't travel at all now bc it's expensive and I only have 2 weeks of pto, but I'm hoping to get a different job within the next couple years and wouldn't accept something that doesn't have at least 3 weeks.
• Do you have any cards you've been looking at? Not sure
• Are you OK with category spending or do you want a general spending card? Doesn't matter, I can get into the whole using different cards for different things thing

I too am seeking to find a godly spouse, and often times being single can be discouraging. But I read this yesterday and thought it was very encouraging and was reminded how much greater is all that which God has prepared for those who love Him:

““Sing, O barren one, who did not bear; break forth into singing and cry aloud, you who have not been in labor! For the children of the desolate one will be more than the children of her who is married,” says the Lord. “Enlarge the place of your tent, and let the curtains of your habitations be stretched out; do not hold back; lengthen your cords and strengthen your stakes. For you will spread abroad to the right and to the left, and your offspring will possess the nations and will people the desolate cities. “Fear not, for you will not be ashamed; be not confounded, for you will not be disgraced; for you will forget the shame of your youth, and the reproach of your widowhood you will remember no more. For your Maker is your husband, the Lord of hosts is his name; and the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer, the God of the whole earth he is called. For the Lord has called you like a wife deserted and grieved in spirit, like a wife of youth when she is cast off, says your God. For a brief moment I deserted you, but with great compassion I will gather you. In overflowing anger for a moment I hid my face from you, but with everlasting love I will have compassion on you,” says the Lord, your Redeemer.”
‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭54‬:‭1‬-‭8‬ ‭ESV‬‬

“Thus says the Lord: “Keep justice, and do righteousness, for soon my salvation will come, and my righteousness be revealed. Blessed is the man who does this, and the son of man who holds it fast, who keeps the Sabbath, not profaning it, and keeps his hand from doing any evil.” Let not the foreigner who has joined himself to the Lord say, “The Lord will surely separate me from his people”; and let not the eunuch say, “Behold, I am a dry tree.” For thus says the Lord: “To the eunuchs who keep my Sabbaths, who choose the things that please me and hold fast my covenant, I will give in my house and within my walls a monument and a name better than sons and daughters; I will give them an everlasting name that shall not be cut off.”
‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭56‬:‭1‬-‭5‬ ‭ESV‬‬

How much better is the everlasting name that God gives His children than that of sons and daughters! Press on