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I would like to participate in clan war, and other aspects of the clan. I am a new player and it’s been about a month since I started. I try and play everyday. I haven’t been able to find a proper clan for myself, with active members.

Hi everyone,

We are looking to add 2 new moderators to support the sub as it continues to grow. The volume of posts, reports, and discussions has reached a point where additional help is needed to keep moderation consistent and timely.

The role expects moderators:

• Review posts and comments
• Handle reports and the mod queue
• Respond to modmail when needed
• Enforce subreddit rules fairly and consistently

This also includes the occasional bonus feature of being called biased, PR, or secretly affiliated with a bunch of influencer sisters. If you can handle that without turning it into an argument, you will do fine here.

Who we are looking for:

• Active on the sub
• Level-headed and neutral in discussions
• Able to differentiate criticism and personal attacks
• Able to commit time to regular moderation activity

The aim is to maintain a space for discussion and critique without it turning into unnecessary hostility or daily conspiracy theories about moderation. Additional moderators will help us do that more effectively.

If you are interested, please apply using the mod application option on the subreddit page. The application will close once we select shortlist applicants. Any questions, please don’t hesitate to send a modmail.

Thank you.

Edit: here’s the link for the application

Hi everyone,

Just wanted a quick sense check on a deposit issue.

I moved out of a studio flat in Leeds (LS6) and my landlord is claiming £350 total from my £825 deposit via DPS:

• £320 for cleaning
• £30 for rubbish removal

For context:

• I vacuumed before leaving
• Kitchen counters, hob, sink and shower were clean
• There may have been some limescale in the toilet
• I did leave some boxes, bedding and a few small items as the outside bins were full

I am okay with the £30 rubbish charge, but £320 for cleaning feels quite high for a studio.

Also:

• I paid the deposit on 21 August 2024, but it was only protected on 10 October 2024
• Landlord has offered to send photos of the studio (I had taken a few when I had moved out).

Just wondering:

• Is £320 a normal cleaning cost for a studio in Leeds?
• Has anyone disputed something similar through DPS?
• Does the late deposit protection make any difference here?

Thanks!