u/uncommonhetero

I don’t remember if I have one. There must’ve been one at some point, but I don’t remember it lmao

Checkout this new video. Hope you guys enjoy it!

Something in my personal life threw me off a bit, so I’m probably going to take things a little slower for a few days.

Nothing dramatic, and I’m still around. Just giving myself some space to reset.

I’ll be back to my usual nonsense soon🗿

Monday: Question Time!👆

Do your family, friends, even your partner or coworkers/schoolmates, accept that you are GNC? Do they validate you? Or have you felt some rejection from them? Do they judge you or simply ignore you?

I’m a cis straight GNC woman and I’ve received very different answers from queer people about this. Some have told me that significant gender nonconformity can itself fall under queerness, while others have told me that cis straight people are not queer.

I’m not asking because I want to force myself into a label or community. I’m genuinely trying to understand how different queer communities view this question.

Do you think cis straight GNC people can be queer, and if so, under what circumstances? Or do you think the term doesn’t apply to us at all?

I’m genuinely curious. No wrong answer!

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Come hang out with us! Talk, meet people, play some games, share stuff, or just lurk in the background like the rest of us lol

Discord Link !

I’ve been asked if I’m trans, and actually, without even asking me, most of my friends assume I’m gay lol

But is there anything else you’ve noticed ppl assume about you?

Maybe in the way other ppl treat you, family, friends, partners? Does it bother you or do you like whatever assumptions people make about you or do you just not care?

Do you even see any of those assumptions as an advantage or a disadvantage?

There aren’t exactly a million HetGNC memes out there yet, so yes, some of these are actually mine lol. But I thought it would be fun to bring some of the humor from these communities over to YouTube too.

Hope you enjoy it! ;)

I’ve been really sick these past few days and honestly haven’t been able to do anything, neither for the channel nor even memes, sorry about that.

Still, I’ve been thinking about more stories I’d like to write, since writing is one of my favorite hobbies. And something I’ve been thinking about a lot is the lack of genuinely monstrous women in fiction.
It really bothers me that female characters are so rarely allowed to be monsters simply because they are monsters.

There always has to be some explanation like she lost her children (La Llorona, for example), lost her family, and so on. It bothers me that these characters are daughters, mothers, wives first, but almost never people, individuals. Or even if they are "monsters" or bad people, they are still hot, and beautfiful 💀

I want to see more of women who are grotesque because the monster they turn into is grotesque, not because they’re frustrated that they can’t become mothers or because they lost their children.

I’m planning to write something along those lines, a woman who turns into an actual monster. I’m not even necessarily planning to make her GNC, really (because honestly I barely see this even with gender conforming women, or at least I haven’t come across much of it). Though one character is definitely going to be GNC and I already know which one lmao

But yeah, more than anything, this is just a rant about how much it annoys me that women are always the mothers/hot girls in those type of stories (or almost any story at this point)

Personally, there are days when I don’t shave my face, and yeah, it looks like the kind of facial hair a teenager gets during puberty. But I usually do shave because I don’t like how it looks on me.

I’m curious: do you shave any part of your body (legs, face, etc.)? Do you feel like shaving/not shaving affects your gender nonconformity or actually not?

Or even maybe you’d actually like to let your body hair grow, but you’re worried about being criticized? Or vice versa, do you wish you didn’t grow any body hair at all?

I’m currently working on a Discord server and before I finish setting everything up, I wanted to ask you guys:

Is there anything you’d specifically like to see in the server?

Channels, activities, events, features, anything you think would make the community more fun or useful.

I can’t promise I’ll add everything, but I’d love to hear your ideas