u/unknown-forest

LET US LEAVE REVIEWS ALREADY please 😭

LET US LEAVE REVIEWS ALREADY please 😭

It's actually so fucked that it's impossible to review products you bought in store. Anyway the $5.50 pill container is pretty good but don't let it touch anything or the markings will transfer. The colours are in a stupid order too but I can deal with that.

u/unknown-forest — 5 days ago
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What are your favourite shows/movies that have such strong transgenderish themes that they're basically about being trans even if none of the characters are actually trans? Stuff like The Matrix, The Truman Show, High School Musical, etc.

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u/unknown-forest — 18 days ago

If you ever have to make a police report or go to court about a breach of a restraining order, you need to be able to prove that any letters/texts/messages/voicemails/notes from your abuser were definitely addressed to you. If there's a chance that your abuser might refer to you by anything other than your legal name (nicknames, chosen names, etc.), make sure you have evidence that you have previously been referred to by that name & it is a name that would be known to them.

Screenshot any past messages where they called you that name during the course of your relationship. Change your name on at least 1 social media account to that name. The cops won't always take your word for it when you say "yeah they called my workplace asking to talk to (nickname) and that's not on any of my official documents, but that's what everyone calls me". Especially if it's not an obvious nickname (eg. Sam instead of Samantha).

I had a lot of trouble with this because I'm trans and haven't changed my legal name or gender marker, so a lot of my ex's attempts to contact me were using a different name and pronouns than what the cops might expect. My ex tried to get around the restraining order by sending letters to my family's house addressed to other names, including my cat! I literally had to provide vet records to prove that it was my cat's "real" name!

I'm out now & I'm grateful that I managed to hold on to all the evidence I needed, despite multiple broken phones and laptops and many other destroyed belongings. Document everything. Literally EVERYTHING. You never know what you might need.

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u/unknown-forest — 19 days ago