Nag-book kami ng delivery from guagua, pampanga to imus, cavite worth 618 and di siya priority and nag call yung rider if pwede kaming mag-add? Students kasi kaming magrereceive and nagdadalawang isip kami kasi baka pwede naman siya magreceive ng booking along the way since hindi priority yung binook namin.
context: my girlfriend and i have been together for 2 years, long distance. before me, she dated her ex for a year. i know my girlfriend loves me, we’re in a healthy relationship, and she reassures me all the time, but i accidentally saw old pictures/videos of them from archived ig stories and it’s been bothering me more than i expected.
it also doesn’t help that they still follow each other on instagram. it doesn’t matter to me as much, but at the same time i keep wondering why she won’t just unfollow her knowing i’m bothered by her ex.
she already deleted everything from her phone after their breakup, but knowing those memories still existed somewhere made my chest hurt. i kept replaying the pictures in my head, especially at night. i started comparing myself to her ex — wondering if my girlfriend thinks her ex is prettier than me, if she looked happier back then, how often she used to post her, and if they were emotionally closer because they were together almost every day while me and my girlfriend are long distance.
eventually i opened up about what was bothering me and my girlfriend deleted the archived stories because i couldn’t keep it to myself anymore and it was genuinely driving me crazy. she did it without fuss, but i still feel guilty for asking.
i know everyone has a past, and i know this probably sounds insecure, but i think i just love my girlfriend so much that it hurts knowing parts of her that feel intimately mine now used to belong to someone else first.
is this normal? has anyone else ever felt this way even in a healthy relationship?
problem: is this normal? has anyone else ever felt this way kahit healthy relationship?
context: my girlfriend and i have been together for 2 years, long distance. before me, she dated an ex for a year. i know my girlfriend loves me and she reassures me all the time, pero recently i accidentally saw old pictures/videos of them from archived ig stories and it’s been bothering me more than i expected.
it doesn’t help din na they still follow each other on instagram, though that doesn’t matter to me as much naman but still, why won’t she unfollow nalang, knowing na i’m bothered with her ex?
she already deleted everything from her phone after their breakup, but knowing those memories still existed somewhere made my chest hurt. i kept replaying the pictures in my head, especially at night. i started comparing myself to her ex — wondering if my gf thinks her ex is prettier than me, if my girlfriend looked happier back then, how often she used to post her and kung mas close ba sila emotionally because they were together every day while me and my gf are long distance.
eventually i opened up about what’s bothering me and my girlfriend deleted the archived stories because i couldn’t keep it to myself anymore and nakakabaliw talaga. she did without fuss, pero i still feel guilty for asking.
alam ko everyone has a past, and i know this probably sounds insecure, but i think i just love my girlfriend so much that it hurts knowing parts of her that feels intimately mine now used to belong to someone else first.