▲ 9 r/nevergrewup
Should we really be using the term "transage"? (read before commenting)
First of all, I am both transgender and NGU with crippling age dysphoria. I understand the sentiment. I don't want people to be mad at me, okay?
However, I think the term transage be might be inappropriate.
”Transage” implies something similar to "transgender”, but they are very different things. Say, if one was born XX but wants to alter to the opposite sex, then that person would be treated as a male and would frequent male spaces, aswell as taking hormones like testosterone.
But many of these things in the case of transage just sound...wildly inappropriate. A chrono-adult has all rights to feel soft, small, loved and cared for. As all of you have rights to, my lovely friends. But that becomes a little uncomfortable if it meant a chrono-adult, NGU transage person would be expected to frequent chrono-children spaces.
Not to mention that taking a cocktail of hormones to try and turn your body back would have a horrible impact on your health.
There's really not a way to transition back into a prepubertal body. And trust me, I wish there was. But once there isn't, we must accept that we are not chrono-children. And find happiness within our own community - with caregiving, regression, soft things, toys, anything that brings joy into a NGU kiddo's life. Does any of this make sense? Sorry if it doesn't.
u/user00010rr — 3 months ago
▲ 314 r/TransMasc
Everything feels confusing.
My only worth is being beautiful.
T will make me undesirable. But I desperately need at least a microdosed T gel to deepen this fuckass horrid voice.
I have feminized myself absurdly just to make it stop but I still want to be a boy dudes. It hasn't worked at all.
I just want to be a boy. I want to be a beautiful boy. I wish I could've at least had been born XXY. This is all so confusing.
I don't want to be a political agenda, l don't want to be a discussion, I don't want to be any of that, god, I just want to be a boy, I just want someone to love me and understand me without having to treat it like that. I don't want anything down there either.
Maybe I could be just a doll sitting at a carpenter's office. My body would be all smooth and there would be nothing to predefine my gender or sex without my consent.
Everyone, tmasc, tfem, nb, doesn't matter, everyone is so strong for dealing with this everyday. I'm unfortunately very, very weak. I don't know how anyone does it.
u/user00010rr — 3 months ago
▲ 71 r/namenerds
PLEASE HELP ME WITH NAMES FOR CHILDREN ASSOCIATED WITH OWLS !!
What are names that could be associated with owls, possibly? I have a character who's a barn owl and I really need a name for her. Heeelp
u/user00010rr — 4 months ago