u/user905022

are they still together? i know people said they were just friends but are they even still friends?

I will go more in depth here. My coworker is someone who has been at my workplace for a while, and everyone loves her. She's extremely loud and extroverted and she will always find something to complain about. She talks bad about all her clients and our boss which is fair but everyone else finds it funny and will always willingly listen to her.

I've only started my job a couple months ago and have just met her because she was assigned to another place for a bit and has come back to where I work.

However, ever since she's met me she has always told me to put less effort in. I in no way put in so much extra effort, part of my job is confirming appointments or putting things in drawers (some of the simple tasks) and she tells me not to do those things. She will tell me not to confirm because she can't be fucked dealing with clients when they come in and to essentially sit at my desk and not do anything. She will even interrupt me with clients and tell them to not pay even though our sales targets have not been met the entire year.

But she also does this thing where if I am trying to do good at my job or am getting too detailed with it, she will interrupt me and be annoyed and do it for me.

She has more weird behaviours like she will tell me I can get something for free from the office but when I asked she was extremely annoyed and I ended up just paying for those things myself.

This is my first time acting in a workplace like this and I've never come across someone like her so I don't know if I'm overreacting or not. I don't have a problem with anyone else, and no one treats me this way. It's gotten to a point where everytime I am in, there is something I'm doing wrong.