u/vanillaabeanzz

21F. I had sex with an older friend a week and a half ago and it just happened we didn’t plan for it. We’ve been friends for almost a year and always had sexual tension but never did anything with each other. I kind of knew the sex would happen after we got in my pool and swam naked together… anyway, we never discussed anything as far as what we like in bed. We went a few rounds and by the 3rd or 4th round he (56M) slapped me across my face and I didn’t like it, and I know I didn’t because I keep thinking about it. I’m into BDSM and I love rough sex but I don’t like being slapped in the face and I wish he would’ve asked—I’m literally into everything EXCEPT for that. Am I wrong for being upset at him?