u/veloraecho

Hi guys i am 23 yr old and currently preparing for competitive exams and i am unemployed beside being unemployed my dad who is very orthodox pressures me for marriage and i am very much terrified of him i don’t want to marry anyone that my dad chooses for me infact i am already in love with someone else and i am very sure about having a future ahead with him he too is very serious about our relationship his side of family knows me and are okay but my family is like the orthodox family who go for honour killing , earlier i had thought to establish a good career and then marry my boyfriend because if i had money i can take my own decisions but without money i am voice less pls tell me what to do in this situation ?