u/vieniaida

▲ 0 r/AskMen

Gents: Why is there a double standard for old men versus young men?

I am 76 years old. I made a sexual comment to a younger person and was called "dirty old man." However, when I was in my 20s and 30s the same sexual comment that I made to people in my age category would be dismissed without any comment.

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u/vieniaida — 12 days ago
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What is the ideal solution?

I've been exchanging messages several times a day for the past few weeks with a member of a dating site. He claims to live about 1,000 miles from where I live. Even after I advised him that I have prostate cancer and that I might live for 18 months or so, he still wants to start a relationship with me. We have not met. I aware that there are scammers on date sites, and there are fake profiles as well.

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u/vieniaida — 14 days ago
▲ 9 r/AskMen

I started to use a dating site last week. I had an exchange of messages with one user, when my phone number and email address was requested. I refused the request because we exchanged only four messages.

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u/vieniaida — 19 days ago
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My best friend Bob know that I have a crush on him and that I am jealous of his relationship with his new boyfriend. They are planning to travel thousands of miles to visit me. I would love to meet Bob but I don't want to meet his new boyfriend. What should I do?

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u/vieniaida — 19 days ago
▲ 98 r/AskMen

I was diagnosed with stage 4 prostate cancer. Despite the treatment that I've undergone, my doctor advises that I may live for another 18 months or so.

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u/vieniaida — 20 days ago
▲ 45 r/GayMen

I was at a gay parade last year. I overheard a few masculine-appearing gay men saying "I hate drag queens and effeminate gay men. If they want to be women, they should have surgery."

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u/vieniaida — 25 days ago