WARNING TO ALL RENTERS

WARNING TO ALL RENTERS

If you see anyone renting out spare rooms for this address BE CAREFUL! The woman on the lease lives there and her mother lives two houses down. The woman is mentally unwell and is borderline abusive! The rent is extremely cheap, however, the woman will refuse to clean, she will use your belongings (toilet paper, condiments, groceries, soap), she will invite unknown men over without warning and have them there for days on end, and if you ever attempt to make simple requests or initiate regular roommate conversation (asking her to clean, asking her if she also experiences issues with pests, building maintenance), she will leverage her mother and the landlord to pressure you to move out & she will fabricate things about you! She has falsely claimed that one of her roommates attacked her. On another occasion she accused the same roommate of making sexual advances at her! And most recently, she accused the other roommate of physically attacking her because the roommate asked her if she could clean up after herself!

This woman is severely unwell and the people around her only enable the behavior by pretending that it’s normal. These people are highly predatory and use underhanded strategies to put vulnerable people in difficult positions. You will be miserable if you move in here and you will feel trapped if you’re low income and have no where else to go. You’ve been warned fr!!!

u/virtualmentetuz — 2 days ago
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Mourning the Person I Once Was

I miss the person I was before the traumatic incident. I've always struggled with depression and a bit of anxiety, but never to this degree. I used to be extroverted and outspoken. I was confident and confrontational (not that being combative is a good thing- my point is that I wasn't one to back down when faced with a bully). It's been 4 years since the incident and my anxiety is worse than it has ever been. I'm afraid of the dark, loud noises, and horror films. Things that previously made me a bit nervous now cause me to be visibly shaken..

The physical symptoms are the worst part. Before the incident, and the subsequent PTSD diagnosis, I could experience a typical amount of nervousness during a high stress situation and no one would notice, but now it's extremely apparent. I'll be drenched in sweat, shaking, panting.. my heart races and feels like it's about to beat out of my chest. I'm finally back in therapy and I have an upcoming appointment with a psychiatrist so that I can get back on buspar or whatever else. I'm just really mourning the lively, confident person I once was. I still stand up for myself and speak up but I do so at the risk of being laughed at because of how visible my physical anxiety symptoms are 😞

Anyway, that's all I wanted to say. I've been sitting here for an hour, taking deep breaths and calming myself down because of how bad my anxiety got simply because I had to walk to the garage at night. Now that I'm finally getting back to normal I'm just crying and reminiscing on my old life and personality. I'm devastated

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u/virtualmentetuz — 3 months ago

Headphone Suggestions

Hi guys,

I’m looking for a new pair of headphones! Here are my wants:

Budget: $200-$250

• Wireless
• Long lasting battery and/or fast charging
• Cute/stylish
• Comfy
• Foldable
• Noise cancellation preferred but not needed

I previously had the bright yellow 2018 beats, but they recently died and I think this would be a good opportunity to get better quality headphones! I typically just use them while I shop, work, and sometimes for phone calls, so it’s be nice if they were better for phone calls than my last pair! I love pastels and primary colors :) I’m probably going to buy them off reebelo or some other refurbished tech site. Tysm!!!

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u/virtualmentetuz — 3 months ago