u/wanderingbabyegg

Hi all! My partner and I are traveling to Thailand for honeymoon at the end of November and the beginning of December. We love a good mix of culture, nature, relaxation, and adventure. We do enjoy beach clubs, but are more day / sunset parties to disco and organic house rather than EDM into all hours of the night.

Right now our schedule looks like this:

Chiang Mai - 4 Days

Phuket - 2/3 Days (used mostly as a transfer between Chiang Mai and Koh Yao Noi)

Koh Yao Noi - 4 Days

We have places to stay and things to do in Chiang Mai and Koh Yao Noi but Phuket is the biggest mystery to us, as it's so big and so divisive. We are debating staying in Old Town and exploring the food scene, or going for a resort on the beach with a decent beach club.

Does any one have recommendations or suggestions? We're also not opposed to lengthening or shortening our time anywhere.

Our goal is to have a good balance of culture, fun, and relaxation. Thanks all!

Hi all! Not planning on having full-on penetrative sex, but how long did any sapphics on here wait to have girl on girl sex? I'm not sure if the standard 4-6 weeks is for penetrative sex or all sex. (Just trying to have some oral, please and thank you!)

Hi all! I'm having my bach in Mexico in ONE week!!!

I've been so psyched up to this point, but now sooo much of my initial excitement is morphing into guilt and anxiety. I'm subsidizing a portion of the cost, including a boat day with my friends, and my friends all helped decide the location, but I feel a little ridiculous having a whole celebration in my honor.

I initially did all the planning myself as my MOH is my gay male best friend who has never been to a bach before and isn't the biggest wedding person. But then things started to get chaotic and one of my very close friends who is an event producer took over and is KILLING it - she made a website and created a whole organizational system tracking everyone's travel.

But the closer it gets, the more intense things start to feel. I feel guilty for having THREE theme days (one of them is just Pride since we'll be there during Pride and most of us are queer in some capacity) and for making such a big trip. I also feel guilty for how much money I'm spending on outfits and beauty stuff gearing up for the weekend. (Nails, bikini wax, spray tan...)

I'm worried that my friends are going to think it's ridiculous or judge me for doing something big. My intention was always to do a girls/gays trip with my friends and I fear it's becoming more eventized. Also, it's a group of 12 and I hope everyone gels!

Does any one have happy stories from their own bachelorettes, or can help me ease my guilt? Or share advice? I will take anything, thank you!!!!

Hi all! I'm having my bach in Mexico in ONE week!!!

I've been so psyched up to this point, but now sooo much of my initial excitement is morphing into guilt and anxiety. I'm subsidizing a portion of the cost, including a boat day with my friends, and my friends all helped decide the location, but I feel a little ridiculous having a whole celebration in my honor.

I initially did all the planning myself as my MOH is my gay male best friend who has never been to a bach before and isn't the biggest wedding person. But then things started to get chaotic and one of my very close friends who is an event producer took over and is KILLING it - she made a website and created a whole organizational system tracking everyone's travel.

But the closer it gets, the more intense things start to feel. I feel guilty for having THREE theme days (one of them is just Pride since we'll be there during Pride and most of us are queer in some capacity) and for making such a big trip. I also feel guilty for how much money I'm spending on outfits and beauty stuff gearing up for the weekend. (Nails, bikini wax, spray tan...)

I'm worried that my friends are going to think it's ridiculous or judge me for doing something big. My intention was always to do a girls/gays trip with my friends and I fear it's becoming more eventized. Also, it's a group of 12 and I hope everyone gels!

Does any one have happy stories from their own bachelorettes, or can help me ease my guilt? Or share advice? I will take anything, thank you!!!!