u/wannabe-daddy

Hi,

How do you guys ask for a second date? I have been mostly unsuccessful in getting second dates with the guys I meet. Sometimes I act too desperate and sometimes I’m too aloof. How can I ask the guy I met for a second date? How much time should I wait for so that I don’t sound too desperate? Should I wait for them to ask me?

Also if there a way to know if the guy will be interested in a second date at the end of first date?

For me season 10 was miles better. The complete domination of Irene, Bosco, the amazing murder improv challenge, Bosco, top tier lipsyncs and Bosco. This bracket was good but didn’t have the unhhhh factor.

Hi, I’m new to the town and looking for gyms in the city. I want a gym with a gay crowd or a good bodybuilding focused gym. Money wise it’s better if it’s cheap but I can splurge a bit if the gym is really good. Area wise I plan to stay near sukhumvit but distance isn’t a huge issue. Please share your recommendations.

For me it’s Tom Holland. Probably because I’m not into twinks but I never saw his sexual appeal. Also the cast of Heated Rivalry are ok at best in my books but people are treating them like some sex gods. What are such celebs for you?

My parent are driving me crazy with pressure to get married. I’m not open to them and don’t know if I can come out. They are sending so many pictures of girls everyday for me to view. Just the thought of marrying one of them makes me nauseous. This is ruining my relationship with my parents. We are fighting a lot as they don’t understand why I’m so resistant to get married. This is very depressing for me. Having a straight married life is my personal hell. The thought of taking care of a women who’ll with me 24/7 makes me wanna kms. Right now I’m buying time by rejecting all proposals but the pressure is increasing day by day. I would love to hear from people in similar situation or if you have any advice. Also I’m not bi so marrying a woman can’t work at all.

For me it’s a mix of attracting a partner and achieving the best possible version of myself. Ever since childhood I’ve been fascinated by huge muscles and have been chasing them for years. I am into bodybuilding more to satisfy myself and the attention I get is just a plus. What about others?

I know beauty is subjective but some people are hot no matter what. Imagine someone like Henry Cavil or Chris Evans. I am very interested to know how dating and social interactions are for people who are a 9 or 10. Do people hit on you a lot? How many dms you get on grindr? Do share all the positives and negatives of being super hot.

I met this handsome white guy on Grindr. He was going crazy over me, praising me non-stop and messaging me consistently. He called me hot and begged me to sit on his face. I was surprised as I don’t get this kind of attention from hot guys especially from hot white guys (I’m brown). He also said he’s open to relationships and can date me. So I went to his place and had a fun time. He was praising me then also. But from the next day he completely stopped replying and then blocked me. I don’t know what happened with him. Is it common for guys to praise and beg for you and then block you? Do you think he was genuine in his praise or just wanted to fuck me?

One thing I forgot to add that he was high as fuck when me met. Does that change anything?

Hi,

I have just moved to Bangkok and I’m looking for gay friendly apartments. By this I mean apartments that have a high gay population and are near popular gay places. Budget can be a bit high as I prefer living in such an apartment. If you have any ideas please let me know.

I have body dismorphia so can never judge it for myself. People have explicitly told me this but then later they lose interest. I was never hit on at gay parties or clubs. I get decent responses on dating apps but not the crazy responses hot people get. I’m worried about this as I have sent years of my life trying to become conventionally attractive and still don’t know where I am. I have a decently muscular body and I’m masculine looking. I’m Indian if that helps.

How do you guys know that you are hot other than just looking in a mirror?