Can I just say posting to subreddits on dating advice and ask men advice is not for the faint hearted. People have learned to become so rude that they excuse being rude for being Welcome to Reddit or you asked for advice. You can give advice but not be a dick
I matched with a guy while I was travelling out of town in April. He lives like 80 miles away and traveled 4 hours in total to see me. We’ve been talking since then and we had our first date in mid-May and our second date last week. We’re still talking every day like not throughout the day but daily updates as we’re both in our early 30s and have a busy life. He’s currently away on holiday but he’s still updating me.
Things seem to be going well (fingers crossed!) but I’m curious from a man’s perspective: what makes you want a third date, a fourth date and to keep seeing someone to find out where things could go?
Is it mostly physical attraction, conversations, how comfortable you feel with the lady, compatibility or anticipation for sex (we havent had sex but we were a bit naughty on our 2nd date)
I matched with a guy while I was travelling out of town in April. He lives 80 miles away and drove 4 hours in total to see me. We’ve been talking since then and we had our first date in mid-May and our second date last week. We’re still talking every day like not throughout the day but daily updates as we’re both in our early 30s and have a busy life. He’s currently away on holiday but he’s still updating me.
Things seem to be going well (fingers crossed!) but I’m curious from a man’s perspective: what makes you want a third date, a fourth date and to keep seeing someone to find out where things could go?
Is it mostly physical attraction, conversations, how comfortable you feel with the lady, compatibility or anticipation for sex (we havent had sex but we were a bit naughty on our 2nd date)
Say if you talk everyday like not throughout the day but sending paragraphs once a day to continue the conversation and he stopped messaging for two days after two dates and three months of talking, are you ghosted?