u/wickedclever

Met a guy (both in our 40's) on an app and had like 5 great dates. He planned some really sweet dates that required a lot of effort and then about 3 weeks ago, he went on a solo vacation and disappeared.

I don't chase, so when he never texted/called again, I didn't reach out but...damn. it's been like 3 weeks and I'm kinda...devastated? I know I only miss the illusion of him that I made up in my head but I just can't let it go. When does it get better? I tried going on another date or two but I was just mad they weren't him. I want an explanation that will never come.