u/williamchen1987

Are you perfect? Am I perfect? No， we are not. Accept yourself as you are. Be gentle with yourself. Be gentle with others.

” If uncertainty is unacceptable to you, it turns into fear. If it is perfectly acceptable, it turns into increased aliveness, alertness, and creativity.

There are people who come in your life sometimes to be there for a season? They weren't meant to be there always. Sometimes we find ourselves hooked up with people that we think are there for a lifetime, but they were only supposed to be there for a season. There are people who come in your life like boosters for a rocket.
If you ever watch a rocket go into space, the boosters fall off when it reaches a certain altitude.
Some people are not equipped to handle the altitudes that you're going to.
So don't be afraid when they fall off. They're not bad people, they just couldn't go where you‘re going.

If I stay, I’ll lose myself.
If I leave, I’ll lose you.
Many people think the greatest pain in life comes from making the wrong choice.
But later, they realize that the real pain is this: sometimes, no matter which path you choose, you’ll end up losing something that truly matters.
When you leave a city, you may discover a bigger world, but you’ll leave behind familiar faces and a life that once felt like home.
When you walk away from a relationship, you may find yourself again, but you’ll lose someone you once loved deeply.
Growing up isn’t about finding the right answer.
It’s about accepting that some questions were never meant to have one, and that some regrets are simply part of life.
“Go left, and there is no right answer.
Go right, and there’s nothing left.”
Life often brings us to crossroads like this—where no matter which way we go, we can’t walk away without losing something.
Perhaps maturity is realizing that some decisions are painful not because they’re wrong, but because they require us to say goodbye to something meaningful.
A truly mature person isn’t someone who always makes the perfect choice.
It’s someone who makes a choice—and has the courage to accept everything that comes with it.

A successful life is, at its core, a life spent overcoming fear.
The greatest failures in a person’s life often stem from a lack of courage—from the fear that lives within.
The moment you stop being afraid and truly believe in yourself, your entire presence transforms. Your confidence shines through, opportunities begin to gather around you, and you discover a strength that seems limitless.