Eu não me identifico como uma garota e por isso transicionei para homem, mas me sinto um homem feio, tímido e inseguro. A maioria dos caras cis que eu convivo são extremamente confiantes e sociáveis enquanto eu mal consigo fazer amigos ou até mesmo flertar por ser inseguro demais e não gostar da minha aparência de mlk de 12 anos (tenho 23).
Hey everyone so I’m a transgender person and I’m into shifting since 2020… The first and only time I shifted was in 2024 when I used the lucid dream method and shifted to a random reality where I was a fully transitioned transgender man who studied in a all male boarding school. I stayed there for like 40 mins because I was really scared and confused on wtf was going on (I didn’t expect to shift), but I remember not having boobs and having a deep voice and that was amazing, but unfortunately I couldn’t shift again after that.
Recently I’ve started to have a crush on this famous twink and he became my s/o, but I also grew more dysphoric. I have so much dysphoria and I literally do not identify with my body, that made me think that I’m asexual and also made me really depressed.
Then I realized I can just shift for my s/o as a cisgender guy and my mind blew.
That’s the thing that’s motivating me the most, but at the same time I’m really scared of not enjoying it or enjoying it so much that I don’t wanna go back.
Has anyone experienced something similar or want to add something? Maybe some advice or anything…
He looks so casual in these pics too, love this
I’m new to furry art and I’m getting frustrated because I’m not getting where I want… How do I study? I don’t see many content explaining how to study furry art and I really need to know how to improve!
I’m an adult trans man from Brasil. Most of my family is extremely transphobic. I live with my mom (who is kinda transphobic, but still respects me) and she struggles paying for rent, food and our basic needs. My dad gives me adult child support so I can pay for my college, but he keeps threatening me that he’ll stop paying it if I decide to keep being trans.
In Brasil we have public healthcare, there is a state called Sao Paulo where this healthcare is more trans inclusive, but it’s not the same in my state and I can’t pay for HRT or mastectomy so my dysphoria keeps getting worse.
Besides being trans, I’m also autistic so it’s very hard for me to find a job because I never get called for interviews, the only interviews I get called for are for humiliating and dangerous jobs.
Also I have a trans boyfriend who lives in Sao Paulo, he’s getting his HRT for free and wants me to find a job in Sao Paulo so I can move in with him, but we’ve been only dating for a month now so I don’t think it’s a really good idea at the moment.
To sum it all up: I need to help my mom with money, I need to pay for college by my own, I need to pay for HRT, I need to be able to see my boyfriend, I need to have money to have minimum decency and fun, but I can’t find a proper job.
What I’m considering: Working humiliating dangerous jobs, opening an OF (terrible idea, but what else should I do??), quitting life because honestly I can’t take it anymore
What do I do? Somebody give me some light here please