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27 [F4F] Austria - musician and dreamer looking for the one

Hey there! I'm Liz, a songwriting and guitar nerd who is in love with wild west looks and 70s/80s/90s music. I'm not super unhappy single, but would love to have a life partnership.

I've had a stable job for a long time, but I invest a lot of time and money in musical projects as well, whatever I deem reasonable at a given time. One of my dreams is to have a van for driving to gigs and to Croatia for holiday some day, but also other places in Europe.

I consider myself soft masc, I enjoy doing traditionally masculine tasks like removing unwanted insects, opening bottles and fixing stuff. I'm looking for someone who knows what they enjoy and are willing to communicate, because while I am more comfortable in a dominant role, to me it is just a different flavour of servitude and my happiness mostly doesn't come from serving myself :)

I am open to having one child down the line, it's not a must, but I would if it were financially possible. I'm also much of a countryside-loving person who would fix up an old house and live a rustic, slow life.

That doesn't mean I don't feel like being a little flamboyant sometimes. It's just not my baseline, probably because when I do, I take it way too seriously, sewing whole outfits and doing crazy makeup.

Generally love DIY and reuse / repair culture.

No go's:

- being very judgemental (say, towards mental issues, racism, ableism)

- being critical of an artistic / spiritual lifestyle (I am a very artsy, go with the flow type of person so I'd just drive you mad anyway^^)

- being super flakey (I may seem messy, but I'm punctual and whatever is arranged, I stick to that and want to be able to rely on my partner to do the same)

- if you deeply value order, we're not a match either. I work very hard on keeping things hygienic, but I don't wanna sugarcoat it: I am pretty chaotic, especially at home with all my DIY hobbies.

Gray area: I'd be hesitant of an age gap of 5+ years.

Anything else you may be worried about, let's just talk about it openly :) If this resonated with you somehow, it's definitely worth a shot for us to talk :)

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u/wtfis3v3rything — 5 days ago

First time making hands 😬

I accidently bought a type of latex which cannot be mixed with acrylic color. I do want to find one that I can mix, to add a final layer of white / pink for the color. How do you all make your hands / color your latex pieces?

Greetings from Austria!

u/wtfis3v3rything — 3 months ago

Facial clay, which do you use?

Hey community,

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I am new to stop motion, I am currently wondering about good clays for clay animation. I was thinking about making a base from hardened clay, for the face and then add certain expressions with clay that remains soft. But if it remains soft I can't paint it so it has to already be available in a flesh color I suppose.

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Is fimo going to be too hard for this or possibly harden with time from air exposure?

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I'd appreciate your input! Thank you.

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u/wtfis3v3rything — 4 months ago

Let's play with voicechat

Hey there I'm 27, f, from Austria looking for people I guess 20 years+ to play together regularly at 7pm CET, especially week days and voicechat via discord.

I'm down with anyone who speaks german or english well and is respectful. I don't care if you stream and I'm also down with joining a server. I considered getting realms too, I just don't have a reason right now cause first I need people to play with 😅 I'm a survival player (difficulty normal preferrably), not a pro or anything, I just play for fun but I take lore building pretty seriously haha

I have a regular job, am otherwise devoted to art and music, but would like to chat with people sometimes and it's really fun to build and play in a world together. :) My favourite Music genres are folk, prog rock and metal & I love watching animated / stop motion movies.

Drop me a nice introductory message so I know we vibe. 💕

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u/wtfis3v3rything — 4 months ago

I've always felt meta-affectionate

I have had this epiphany about how I experience love and that a poly mindset might accommodate that better. I come from strictly monogamous surroundings though, I only have 1 friend who kind of warmed me up to the topic.

That lead me to reconsider how I felt like I was never jealous enough in the past (of partners crushes or crushes partners) in the way that others were. Instead, knowing one of my people was into someone or loved someone or both automatically made that person feel like probably one of my people as well. It made me feel affectionate about them in a meta relational way.

I've discussed this with others and many people say it works like that for them in any relation except with their partner, in that case they are profoundly bothered, hurt and feel disdain for that other person. It's wildly interesting to me how love can work so differently.

How is that for you all personally?

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u/wtfis3v3rything — 5 months ago