u/x0mbigrl

Or would that wreck my hair?

It's Wella Colorcharm demi permanent in red. I want to put it on top of already dyed red hair. It was too orange so I put some leftover blue dye I had on top which toned it down, but the blue is washing out. I'd like a more vibrant red.

It's been a long time since I've properly dated. Like 15 years. I've been single for most of those 15 years. I've dated here and there but nothing ever worked out long term, plus I had a long stint of mental health struggles. I'm finally at a place now where I'm ready and eager to settle down and find a partner. I've been on a few dates with a couple people and actually ended up in a relationship with someone that lasted about three months. We were incompatible and it ended amicably. I'm back on the horse again and I've been talking to two people, one of which I've gone out with three times so far. I enjoy his company and I find him very attractive but I don't really feel a burning "spark", however I know it can grow over time and I'd like to see him again and see how things play out. We have not kissed or been physical in any way. Now this second guy I haven't met up with yet but he asked me on a date for tomorrow, to which I of course agreed. Now I've also matched with another man but we had not engaged in much conversation until today. I enjoy talking to him and I would meet him if it came to that.

So what I'm wondering is, at what point do I need to choose one? How many dates before it becomes shitty to the others? What if I'm unsure how I feel but want to explore more? Should I be telling them that I'm also talking to others?;

This all feels so awkward. I don't want to be on my own anymore but I also don't want to be shitty. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

All of this feels awkward to me and I'm not sure how to handle it.