u/x_luv

i am (19F) and he is (20M) and weve known eachother for around 2 years. were talking for like 6 months before he asked me to be his gf and weve now been offically together for like 3.5 months.

he told me he had liked me for a long time but he never thought id find him attractive and I thought he was just wayy too good looking for me but he genuinely thinks i’m the most beautiful woman ever and its like i know im not ugly but i dont think im “all that” but i’ll see him whipping out his phone to replay photos hes posted of me on his instagram account and just stare at them OR HE’LL JUST STARE AT ME and i get all shy 😭and SHOWERS ME W ENDLESS COMPLIMENTS

the thing is tho he’s like so insecure it seems and i genuinely think he’s etheral and it kinda upsets me because he just doesnt realise how good looking he is. he’s shorter than most guys, id say around 5’5 but w dark curly hair, nice eyes, thick eyebrows and hes greek cypriot.

PLUS he always gets a bit iffy about photos i take of him which is fair but he’ll LOOK REALLY GOOD THEM. BUT TRUST ME, i do always try to tell him how good he looks

idk i guess im just yapping but it just always baffles me that he just doesnt recognise his own beauty.

TL;DR: my boyfriend doesnt realise how good looking he is and it kinda baffles me

i am 19(F) and i have taken a gap year and going to uni in september and ive been joining loads of gcs for the uni im going to, like whatsapp gcs, snapchat gcs and stuff and even posted a video on tiktok about anyone going to the university and it gained a bit of traction.

within the gcs everyones buying the bands for these freshers events that give you access to the clubs and stuff all week but idk it doesn’t like seem like my vibe even the people within the gcs and idk if its because ive done all that clubbing stuff before to the point im kinda not entranced by the idea or what, but id rather go to like cute cafes events, or just ANYTHING else AND its like idk the fresher club stuff would be good for socialness BUT ive also heard buying the freshers bands is a bit of a scam because you never end up going to everything and whatnot anyway AND ALSO idek if im gonna be going w anyone

UGH idk my brain is all clogged, everyone seems to be buying the freshers bands but idk it doesnt seem worth it to me because the people who are going dont seem to be my type of crowd but idk if im just being silly and thinking foolish.

SO, im starting uni in september after taking a gap year and theres a few things im lacking SUCH AS A LAPTOP. But i’m not sure what laptop, i should get but i assume it needs to be really good RAM and be able to hold CAD and 3D modelling n all that well PLUS i also wanna be able to use to play games like sims 4. I JUST DONT WANNA BE SPENDING ALOT !

sooo i narrrowed it down to the Lenovo ideapad slim 5, Asus vivobook 14 perhaps but im not sure, it needs to be worthwhile.

SO to all product design students ? what do you use that holds well for uni and in general that isnt crazy in price.

Tl;dr: i want a good budget friendly laptop to use as a product design student but i can also use for occasional gaming

im going to sheffield hallam this september as a first year and quite literally booked the cheapest accom i could find (probably not the best idea) but its £79 per week for me, ensuite with a shared kitchen. ive not heard anyone speak about this place and im just hoping it’ll be decent, has anyone been before ???