
59 | New York City, United States of America | Looking for a genuine connection
Hey guys, 59, masculine, tall, fit Black gay man here who enjoys good conversation, good laughs, and discovering what’s around the next corner.
I’m a sapiosexual which means intelligence, curiosity, and a great mind are huge turn-ons for me. I love architecture, computers, geography, history, hiking, beaches, biking, traveling, movies, theater, and especially gay-themed films and TV. Also, I am a planner by nature, but I also love being spontaneous when the opportunity comes along. Give me a good adventure and I’m in.
I am looking for a genuine relationship with a man who is 38–52, 5'10" (178 cm) or taller, healthy, and has a slim, fit, or muscular build. Ideally, you are college-educated, career-oriented, financially stable, self-sufficient, and have an interest in technology. These are important compatibility factors for me, so I realize that may narrow the field, but I’d rather be honest about what I’m looking for.
I’m not really interested in long-distance relationships, so being somewhere in the Northeast U.S. would be ideal. That said, I’m open to meeting someone from elsewhere in the world if you’re fluent in English and genuinely open to relocating to the U.S. within the next year or two.
As for intimacy, I’m generally a top and pretty vanilla, although I’m open-minded and willing to explore and try new things with the right person. Communication, trust, chemistry, and mutual respect matter much more to me than checking boxes.
One thing that’s important to me: consistent communication. I’m looking for someone who enjoys daily engagement even if it’s just a few minutes to say hello. Texting via WhatsApp, phone calls, and video chats are all part of getting to know someone for me.
And please, if you know you’re the type who disappears after a couple of days, save us both the trouble. I’d much rather have someone be upfront than ghost.
Ultimately, I’m looking for a partner, a best friend, a travel companion, and someone I can laugh with and build something real with.
Sounds great to you? Then let’s see those DMs, fellas. 😎